#but I know I was hella confused when I first desisted and there were a lot of others I saw who felt the same

[blackamite]

Ive seen opinions in radblr where people are like “I’m a lesbian I’ve never felt attraction to men, so if you ever thought you were attracted to any man ever (even in a distant fictional way) you’re bi”

like don’t get me wrong, I completely understand the thought, but I seriously want to know what people think about “bi” people who are only attracted to the opposite sex from a distance (like rarely a fictional character/celebrity is hot but wouldn’t be attracted irl). Cause it can make sexuality hella confusing and I’m pretty sure most gay people on here would call the reverse situation straight without question.

#0x20 #honestly there's a lot of things that can make sexuality really confusing for dysphoric/autistic women imo #could write a separate post on that maybe #but I know I was hella confused when I first desisted and there were a lot of others I saw who felt the same #(like as far as sexuality feeling like it did a 180. but I also think discussions like this are a factor) #radfem