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The Walking Dead x GN/NB!over stimulated!Reader

This is a two parter! As of right now the second one isn't out!

Request : nope

Type : headcanon

A / N : My tip is always headphones!! I also only did the characters im comfortable with writing about as of right now! If you need more tips always feel free to ask <33

Carl Grimes

He gets it

He also picks up on it really fast

If you're acting at all off he'll come up behind you and cover your ears to block out some of the noise

He likes it when you put your hands over his

If you look like your about to cry he'll take you away from the chaos and get you some place thats calm and you don't need to stress out anymore

He's probably picked up anything he thinks you can mess with while being over stimmed

One of those is definitely a stuffed animal

Carl definitely has had made excuses that embarrass himself just to help you get away

Rick Grimes

He has experience with it due to his son

He's horrible at picking up on it though

Most of the time you have to go up to him and tell him you're over stimulated by everything going on and he'll try his best to help you

Most of the time he'll send you off with Carol or Tara cause he wants to help but he's busy

When you have to be some place with him he has something in his pockets for you to mess with to distract yourself

Rick just tries to make sure you know he does care

When he does have the time he'll take you somewhere you can rest and will stay with you

Unless he gets pulled to work again

He wants to prioritize you, really

He's just a busy man

Daryl Dixon

He does not what he's doing

He just tries to ask you what you need

He picks up on it almost immediately

9 times out of 10 he goes and asks Carol or Rick what he should be doing

He probably just sends you to someone who knows what their doing unlike himself who is an idiot

He has a list of everything you've said / he's been told that helps

He keeps it on him at all times

He's pretty good about disappearing without anyone noticing so if he knows you need to be away from all the chaos he'll take you there

He won't exactly sit with you, he'll pace around instead

Like, he wants to be there for you, yes, and... He's not good with showing that

Abraham Ford

He knows exactly what he's doing

He's probably sat you down to ask what he can do to help you because he really does want to help

He makes sure to have something in his pockets to give to you to fiddle with when you need a distraction

Big hands = covering your ears

He'll run the back of his hand along yours to let him know he knows and is trying to figure out what you need

He picks up on it a bit slower than most but he does

Sometimes he needs Glenn or Tara to point it out to him so he knows for sure

He will get you away without saying a word to anyone else

If anyone asks he'll say " None of your damn business " and walk off with you

If you start crying he'll cup your face in his hands and whipe your tears away with his thumbs

Glenn Rhee

He's got this

He doesn't

He's trying though!

He picks up on it quickly though and lets anyone who he knows cat help you know

Abraham is his first option every time

He's probably the one to drag you away from a crowd and get you some place thats less stimulating then RUN for Abraham

He does want to help but he really doesn't know how

He's usually your second to last option so most of the time when you get to him you're already crying

He's good at comforting crying people

He'll get you some place safe and kiss your knuckles and use his sleeve to whipe yout tears

He's a sweetheart

He doesn't really understand whats going on but he wants to help none the less

He's probably asked you what happens and how you feel so he can imagine what you'd need

Shane Walsh

Bold of you to assume this man knows jack shit

In all fairness he knows some from dealing with Carl for most of the boys life

He's been nominated most likely to send you to anyone but himself

When he does have to help he kinda pats your back and tries to dig through his pockets to find something for you to fiddle with

He kinda seems irritated with you when you bother him about it

Eye rolls every time

He'll cover your ears if you ask nicely

On rare occasions he'll take you somewhere less stimulating

He'll leave you there

Aside from being rude 24/7 he will try and help if he has to

He just doesn't like being helpful

Negan

This man is so helpful

You still don't know why he's like that

Most of the time he picks up on it instantly and will try and help you best he can

He'll sit down with you in front of him facing him and he'll cover your hears, running this thumbs against anywhere they can reach

He likes it when you distract himself by playing with his hair

If you're lucky and you two are close enough he'll pull you into his lap

He'll get everyone to shut up and leave so you can be in a less stimulating environment

He's found and stolen a bunch of things you can mess with when you need too

He always focuses on your breathing, making sure its stable, always

He may act like an ass but he tries to tone it down

He knows how to help and will help anyway you want / need it

Gabriel Stokes

He knows the basic amount of things

Probably asked Rick for help on what to do lets be honest

He didn't want to ask you directly to seem inconsiderate

He tries to avoid you to not make it all worse

It makes it worse

Someone had to tell him that avoiding you made you feel horrible and he felt bad

The amount of times he apologized was exhausting for you

Hr tries to help out a lot better now even if he has no clue really what he's doing

He'll give you something to fiddle with and help you take deep breaths before running to find someone who knows how to help you better

He has stated he wants to help but doesn't know how to nor does he want to be the main person you rely on

Note: This was not spell checked nor grammer checked! I apologize in advance for the mistakes

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I don't mean to throw an existential crisis at someone out of nowhere but I'm struggling with identity stuff and am kinda lost and if it's not too intrusive to ask:

How do you know you're a girl and/but identify as they/them? What's the distinction for you? (Iswearimnotbeingmeanihopeitdoesntsoundthatway I'm really just trying to gather information for my own personal understanding I am so sorry)

you don't sound mean! I get being confused haha I actually made a whole video about it here if you wanna listen!! but I'll try to summarize it if you don't have ten minutes to spare

first off, pronouns do not equal gender, they don't indicate what gender you are, they're more like titles. even though it's not the most well known thing to do, you can definitely be a she/her boy, or a he/him girl, or a she/he nb person, or a they/she girl (that's me hehe), or whatever you want even if it isn't ""usual"" or whatever. like it's literally fine and not as big of a deal as some people make it out to be

I see they/them as equal to my online username, or my last name; quite formal, how you'd talk to a person who you don't really know personally. if my friends use they/them exclusively for me I feel bad, cuz they're my friends, they don't have to be that formal with me! but for the general public I definitely prefer it. I see she/her as my name, or personalized nicknames my friends make up for me, or pet names like honey or sweetheart. it's very intimate and friendly, something that I love to hear my loved ones call me, but would feel invasive and uncomfortable if it came from someone I didn't know.

ANYWAY basically when I realized I actually liked the sound of it when strangers online referred to me as they instead of she, and I started attempting to go by that, I had a few people message me and (incorrectly) tell me that I wasn't allowed to use they/them pronouns unless I was trans, and that if I felt comfortable using they/them pronouns, I was probably nb and just hadn't figured it out yet. and since I didn't know anything I was like alright these random internet tumblr people are probably right! I guess I should try and figure out how to unlock the feeling of being nb even though I still feel like a girl! so I spent the next five whole years (literally almost every single day, it was on my mind CONSTANTLY) thinking super deeply about my gender and wondering what made me nonbinary besides my preferred pronouns, trying to find that "omg I get it!!" moment that all my nb friends described (all my nb friends described discovering they were nb as feeling so free, like they could just be whatever they wanted, but for me, it felt like I was stepping out of my house and going "why the hell am I out here, I want to go back inside") and it got to the point where I was literally waking up every day going "I wish I was a girl sooooo bad" and yet somehow I still didn't get it lol

and then finally ppl started getting smart and realizing that actually you can use whatever pronouns you want and I was like wow cool this would have been nice to know five years ago. but those five years gave me such a better understanding of gender in general and also made me a thousand times happier to be a girl bc back then I was just being a girl bc it was what was expected of me but now I know I'm a girl because it actually fucking RULES

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could you do a trans male or gn/nb mc who almost cut their chest off with a chainsaw/knife in a mental breakdown with the dateables? i couldnt really see boundaries about this in ur rules section so feel free to just delete this if you feel like you cant write it. <3 love the mlm themed blog!

I'm fine with writing this, but I am going to skip to aftermath, hope that's alright! I'm glad you're enjoying it!

Characters- Diavolo, Barbatos, Solomon, Simeon

Trans male!Reader

Warnings- SH, DIY top surgery, gender dysphoria discussion/mention, worried characters, Swearing

Category- Headcanons, Req answers

Diavolo

he is panicking

He's not used to humans! He doesn't know how much blood means 'dying' and how much blood means 'get barbatos' and how much blood means 'you can't move them'!

Frantically tries to remember what he researched before the exchange program

Very surprised when you claim to be fine the next day, that's not the time it takes to heal for most things

He's very worried and overprotective for a few months, you'll have to explain dysphoria to him and he'll offer to get you HRT, or professional surgery, or find a cursed book to help or something just please don't do that again

Barbatos

He got a flashback/flashforward in the middle of dinner and went "oh shit" out loud'

Immediately rushes to the House of Lamentation to check on you, bringing a first-aid kit that's overflowing slightly. He wasn't sure what to bring, alright?

Fuck off Lucifer he doesn't have time for protocol

He's actually pretty competent! three cheers!

He's going to ask how he can help, explaining spells that could help you transition if you'd like, offering to get you professionals from the human realm if that'd help, and so on

Weekly letter talking about everything and nothing from there on out. They'll always be addressed to "the handsome moron", which caused some confusion at first.

Solomon

what the fuck dude

He's been alive long enough to know quite a few trans guys and also how to perform first aid. I mean hey, at least it's better than his cooking!

you should've said something :( he's got spells and shit, he could've helped

With your permission, he'd be happy to perform magic top surgery after you recover!

he sets up a mirror in your room that shows you messages from him at random times. You have to be looking at the mirror, but once you do, hoo boy

Messages include: "you look nice!" "hey pretty boy *fuckboy emoji*" "you have eyes!" "you look really handsome!" "How are you today" and whatever he wants to say at three in the morning. You can write back if you like!

Simeon

he was nOT PREPARED FOR THIS

Convinces Luke to call you his older brother (the bribery included knowledge of Michael's favorite cake recipe but that's not important)

Tells you stories of some of the trans people in the Celestial Realm, to make sure you know that you're not isolated in this

If you're in a relationship, you can bet on him proudly talking about his boyfriend, especially when he doesn't think you can hear.

He's not entirely sure how to help with dysphoria but he'll do his best!

If what you need is top surgery, he'll gladly help you research and pick out a surgeon, if what you need is hormone therapy he'll find a way to get it from the human realm!

#I wasn't sure if the dateables were the side dateables or all except Luke so very sorry if I misunderstood! #Aix reqs #anon if you wanted me to include the brothers I can do that but it'll be seperate #obey me shall we date #obey me undateables #omswd #obey me #obey me hc #obey me hcs #obey me writings #obey me x male reader #male reader #trans male reader #I didn't go into specifics with dysphoria since it can vary from person to person; hope that's okay! #sh ment #dysphoria warning #let me know if there's anything I need to tag!