#at this stage I'm almost looking for whatever the equivalent of an aroace beard is cause I just really want people to stop

[dollopheadsandclotpoles]

I'm so tired of people asking me if I want to be set up with someone, or when I'm going to get married, or if I'm seeing anyone, or when I'm going to have kids. Like... it's just fucking constant. Why aren't I fucking enough

#at this stage I'm almost looking for whatever the equivalent of an aroace beard is cause I just really want people to stop #even people I think get it turn around and do this #it's like I get complacent and I think things are fine and it happens again and again #it's worse when it comes from the people I'm closest to #it just feels like I'm not enough by myself the way I am #I need someone else I need a partner i need a child I need to be MORE than I am #i'm so tired #about me #aroace tag #aro stuff #ace stuff #i'm sorry i just needed to vent I feel so fucking isolated right now #it feels like being a goddamn alien sometimes