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[pumpkzsafeplace]

anon asks 💌 : tips on how to get up in the morning! 💗☀️

waking up in the morning is so icky :( especially when you’re a super sleepy little like me! so here’s some of pumpkin’s tips’! <3

have an alarm set ⭐️

one of the biggest things that help (even though i hate it :<) is alarms!

have as many as you need! usually i just have the one with an obnoxious ring tone attached (the more horrid the better!)

but if i’m extra sleepy / or know i’m up early and i’ve gone to bed super late- i’ll put on around three alarms to make sure i still wake up!

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move your phone. 🌙

moving your phone out of reach will physically make you get UP and grab your phone to take it off <3.

both me & daddy have our phones away from our bed (otherwise i’ll be up on tiktok till stupid hours hehe).

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have your clothes warm / prepared. ⭐️

if you are still lazy like me and moving your phone won’t keep you awake, you just have to prepare for your lifestyle <3

i.e, if i’m only giving myself twenty minutes before i need to leave, the night before i get my clothes ready, my food ready- anything & everything to let the routine run a lot smoother <3.

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small breakfast if busy.🌙

sometimes small is a lot- especially if you don’t eat breakfast in the morning (whoopsie).

even if you grab a banana before you leave for school & work and simply line your tummy! it might help those 10am sickly feelings go away and let you focus on work a lil easier <3

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take it day by day ⭐️

but- alas, routines are super easy to fix! and it does take time to perfect the perfect routine that suits you and your lifestyle! <3

so, just take the thing day by day and try to improve a little bit each time. & before you know it, you’ll be enjoying (or simply tolerating) your mornings in no time.

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

The babies are here! :3

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

OH MY GOD!

THEY ARE ADORABLE!!!

AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

IM SO SO SO JEALOUS <3

HUG THE KITTIES FOR ME PLEASE <3

I HOPE YOU HAVE A LOVELY DAY & ENJOY THE KITTIES TO THEIR FULLEST! <3

BIG HUGS <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Hhelo I have a question.. is it normal for your cg to physically punish you? Has your daddy ever done that? Mine doesn't hit me but he does pull my hair and It scares me a littyle but I dont want to makes him upset by telling him to stop :(

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

oh my goodness- are you alright honey?

no- that is not normal, how dare they go against your boundaries like that!

if punishments are involved and incoporated in the dynamic- then they are to be discussed first in lengths between you and your caregiver. & boundries are put in place and formed to make sure both you and your caregiver are happy and healthy.

but punishments should never happen without your consent.

& how dare they act otherwise.

you are completely in the right to tell him to stop- you have done nothing wrong love <3.

never think you're in the wrong for defending your self too, please tell him how it makes you feel please. i dont want your little self being scared to regress in front of them <3.

i am so so sorry this is happening to you <3.

big big big hugs & i hope your caregiver sees the error in his ways soon <3.

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Hi, I hope you're well.

I wanted to ask if you have any tips on how to get more comfortable regressing in front of people? I feel self conscious regressing in front of my daddy since it's new to him

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

first of all- i just want to say that each journey of confidence is different, this is just how i slowly began opening up to my daddy.

-> exisiting in the same space as him: my little side was incredibly shy of my daddy at first so to open her up, i would make an effort to just stay in the same place as him so both him & my little side could grow comfortable together.

-> at first it was pretty awkward, i babbled mostly to myself & my daddy was new to it all and didn't want to do anything wrong it case it upset me.

-> but slowly i began doing little thing in the same room as him- such as watching cartoons, colouring, things he could physcially see and comment on to start up a conversation.

-> it is a rocky road as you're both learning each others boundraies and stuff, but i feel like once he reached out to speak to me, i kinda relaxed a little bit and started opening up more. now my daddy can't get me to shut up no matter how hard he tries, teheh.

so just go slow, listen to your little self & i promise you two will be comfortable around each other soon! <3.

big big big hugs! <3 i hope it all goes well <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

1?

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hihi poppet! 💗

to answer your question (1-> reason for joining tumblr),

it was kind of an impulse thing. i was bored & coming to terms with being a little when i saw that the tumblr had its own little community- so i decided why not join?

glad i did though! made some lovely friends and wonderful community 💗.

hope you’re having a lovely day honey 💗.

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

november q & a! 💗

( ask a number & i’ll play along! or send your own question you’d like me to answer ~ let’s have some fun! 🌸 )

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tumblr based questions 💗

1 -> reason i joined tumblr.

2 -> tumblr mutuals

3 -> tips on how to make a blog

4 -> future tumblr ambitions?

5 -> if i could have another blog, what would it be?

pumpkin based questions! 💗

6 -> name

7 -> biggest strength

8 -> biggest weakness

9 -> an embarrassing story

10 -> how you feel right now?

daddy based questions! 💗

11 -> how does he feel about caregiving?

12 -> any caregiving tips?

13 -> how does he feel about tumblr?

14 -> what kind of caregiver is he like?

15 -> one random daddy fact!

fun based questions 💗

16 -> favourite songs at the moment?

17 -> current hyperfixation? from either p or d!

18 -> childhood confession!

19 -> favourite colours & comfort things! from either p or d!

20 -> one thing to tell future selves or past!

a bit more of a serious vibe questions 💗

21 -> tips on autism

22 -> tips on bpd

23 -> bad days? what are they like?

24 -> triggers?

25 -> anything you want to ask regarding that section?

breaking the barrier based questions 💗

26 -> what are d & p doing right now?

27 -> phone battery percent?

28 -> closest thing?

29 -> last message sent?

30 -> last song played?

some little pumpkin & luna based questions too! 💗

31 -> whose luna’s favourite?

32 -> luna’s favourite treats

33 -> luna’s favourite things

34 -> baby pumpk’s favourite things!

35 -> baby pumpk’s safe space!

36 -> baby pumpk’s comfort things!

37 -> baby pumpk’s routines? any in particular?

38 -> baby pumpk’s new things? or things waiting to get!

39 -> last small session, how did it go?

40 -> baby pumpk’s favourite moments

some likes n fears based questions💗

41 -> current favourite foods?

42 -> dislikes!

43 -> fears!

44 -> current favourite drinks?

45 -> favourite tv / youtube / movies etc!

final cute questions to finish it off! 💗

46 -> personality type?

47 -> believe in luck?

48 -> bubble baths or showers?

49 -> forts or nests?

50 -> one thing that makes you smile :)

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Hello,hope ur having a good day! I know this is random but I always wondered have u ever used a ouija board before and if so was it good or bad spirits u interacted with? 🌙

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

ooooh witchy talk! how exciting! teheh <3.

i haven't actually used an ouija board before- i'm still to scared to even now, pft. to me- they’re evil evil :3

spirits i've encountered? hm, that's a good question! my family actually think that i'm some sort of psychic as i can pick up on energies very very quickly. all the spirits i've spoken to though or have communicated with have been nice though- aside from one but they had gone through a lot when they were living.

i mainly interact with my deities when i do my witchwork though, not spirits <3.

big big hugs! & i hope you have a lovely day!

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(edit: as informed below 👇 ouija bored aren’t toys- they can be really harmful so please don’t mess with it if you don’t know anything about it💛. )

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Mother? Father? Parent? (I’m not entirely sure what you’d prefer)

may I be a gun? (🔫) also…here have a bit of wild Kratts fanart

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

um- i prefer just pumpkin! or like big sis! <3

& yes of course! i'll add you now! welcome aboard! <3

also adorable fan art! i wish i could draw :< i'm honestly so terrible- daddy is the artist of the family, he draws all his characters for the games he makes <3.

have a lovely day! & big big big hugs from me <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

So my Boyftiend and I watch a show where one of the characters is first seen as though theyre really young. And later you find out that it's a different form they take and i like both for different reasons, (she's smol n adorable and i wanna protect her then she gets strong and fierce and gorgeous and i adore her and i can kinda relate to that)

My boyfriend and i were talking and then he says "yeah i feel weird about age regressed characters like her. I dont really like them"

And it kinda stung? And hurt? And i havent been able to regress properly since and don't really try around him anymore. Idk how to bring it up to him or if i shouldnt bother and just try to regress alone, its not like i actively need a caregiver, itd just be nice to be able to do it without having to hide it.

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

oh, i am sorry honey :<

i can understand why it stung :<

well it's completely up to you love and what you're comfortable with, that's all i'm concerned about <3. maybe he is just viewing age regression from a clouded window? we all know what normies think of age regression and their sick & twisted perception of it- so maybe he's commenting on that and not age regression itself (if that makes snese).

but if you're not comfortable bringing it up then that's okay too! we can just work around it. you could plan your little time for when he's at work or for when you're not together <3. you have an entire community here too that will support you until you're ready to do anything <3.

we've got your back honey <3.

big big big hugs from all of us! & i hope you feel a little better soon <3.

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Bad appetite again… My mom thinks it’s the meds. I made myself a whole meal and could barely eat it. Been dealing with bad dreams too and I’m worried the meds are causing it, if that’s even something meds can do…

I just wanna feel better. 😞

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

it's okay honey, i suffer with this too <3.

some days are just better than others <3

if it's badly affecting you though, i would suggest asking a doctor to alter your mediciation and find one that could suit your body and your bodies needs a little bit better <3.

you deserve to feel healthy without having other things taken away from you <3.

big big big hugs honey & i hope the side effects fade away soon :<

we're all here supporting you <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

hi punkin.. !

m sowy havnt been talkin lotss, buh m sicky agins ! :( has bad immun so m get sicky lots, an had dis thing calld anemia an its ickyy

hopps u doin guds tho !! m jus realy bored an don kno wha to do !

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

oh no honey! :<

i'm so so sorry, have you been

honey, i'm so so sorry :<

i did a quick google for you & eating things like these could help!:

dark-green leafy vegetables like watercress and curly kale

cereals and bread with extra iron in them (fortified)

meat

dried fruit like apricots, prunes and raisins

pulses (beans, peas and lentils)

i'm doing well though honey, thanks for asking <3.

why not have a movie marathon! or a gaming marathon if you're bored, or you could even write a short story? maybe some fan fiction if you're part of any fandom? <3.

big big big hugs & i wish you the speediest recovery! <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

I got an enrgy drik an mah mama tol me it was a big boy drik :<

She is riht tho cuz mm only thwee.. But is oki! She jus tol me to put it awy fow tha niht so mm able to seep<33

Mama says my speling is also getin beter!

I luv how she alwys tris to make sur mm safe an oki! <333

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

i'm so proud of you honey for listening so well to your mama! <3

& she is right, that is a big boy drink! <3.

sometimes daddy lets me have some, but only when i can be monitored, heheh <3

& i'm happy to hear your spelling is improving too! such a superstar! <3.

big big big hugs to the both of you! <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Hello 👋 I suffer from terrible anxiety attacks lately that make me feel like I can't breathe. I have this feeling that I'm choking and can't get any air in my lungs. I decided to write down some things that help me in the worst moments and I thought ,,why not post them here in case anyone else might need it?"

Here are things I do that help me with nervous shortness of breath:

First and most important thing: calm down.

Sometimes this feeling comes out of nowhere and it is difficult to locate its cause. Try to stay calm! Panic only makes it worse. If you're panicking really bad you might start to feel how your muscles tense up and kind of squish everything inside of you. Your head might start to hurt and your vision can get blurry. If you're in a really bad state like this and you can't seem to calm down here's what I'd recommend to do 👇

\→ try thinking about your favourite thing like a favourite colour/movie etc. but when you're thinking about it try to describe everything in EXTREME detail. For example: my favourite show is Sherlock BBC and my favourite character is Mycoft Holmes who's Sherlock's older brother. He's a middle aged man with short dark hair etc. Saying it out loud helps a lot.

\→ I've realised recently that an adrenaline shock can really help when you're panicking really bad so my recommendation is a cold shower. Turn the water as cold as it can get and jump in. This gives you kind of a shock wave and your body will hopefully kind of ,,reset". Now you're mad because you're cold but the panic should be over.

\→ if you're afraid that ,,what if I'm actually suffocating and I should go to the hospital?" Stay calm!!! I've been in ER many times because of my breathing but everything had always turned out to be just fine. What you're gonna do is try to find a pulse oximeter if you have one and if you don't check if your phone has a function of checking your blood oxygenation level. You should find it in a system health app. Remember to remove any nail polish you have on one of your fingers before the test! If your oxygen percentage is above 94% you're most likely not suffocating and have to calm down. Soon everything should go back to normal.

Now you might be wondering... ,,Why is it happening?"

Humans have something called autonomic nervous system which controls our heart rate and blood pressure, breathing, salivation etc. The most important thing is it can not just stop working out of nowhere. You can have a feeling like you're suffocating or your heart isn't working right but try to stay calm. It's probably just your stress that makes you feel this way. The more you think about it the worse it gets. Your nervous system can be calmed through stress and tension-reducing activities such as exercise, including stretching, yoga, and meditation. It's nothing dangerous when you know how to deal with it :)

But how to breathe properly in this situation?

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Inhale - 5 seconds

Hold - 5 seconds

Exhale - 9 seconds

Repeat until you've calmed down.

Try distracting yourself!

Thinking about it will only make it worse so it's best to distract yourself. Personally taking with my friends or family members really helps. Try to do something that causes your breathing to go in ,,autopilot" mode. Singing or talking might help - you kind of start to breathe automatically when you're speaking. Try eating something or if you're feeling well enough you can even try to go for a walk. Don't force yourself to do that though if you're still panicking!!! Regulate your breathing manually first using the 5-5-9 method from above.

Fresh air!!!

Open the windows or even go outside. Find yourself a fan. That helps a lot too. Try to lay down on your back and bring your legs to your chest. Tilt your head slightly backwards. This will help clear the airways in your body.

Things to remember

If you don't have any basis to think that cause of your shortness of breath is related to any illness don't panic! It's most likely caused by stress. It can be sudden and have no particular cause but as long as your oxygen level is above 94% you're fine. Try to calm down!!! Distract yourself and try not to overthink it. Use the 5-5-9 method to regulate your breathing. Remember it's nothing dangerous when you know how to handle it, and as I hope - now you do :)

I hope this helps. Stay safe littles ❤️‍🩹

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

thank you so much for sharing these tips!

anxiety & panic attacks can creep up on anyone when they least expect it! at least knowing these key things will help you tackle it when it gets too much <3.

big big big hugs to you & any littles who are struggling right now <3,

you've got this i promise! <3.

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Oh my god oh my god oh my god!!!!!!! I have to share this with more than one person!!!

You know the lalaloopsy dolls? They also had a tv show (kinda) and a YouTube web series!

I just got one of the expensive dolls from an op shop (thrift store) AND SHE HAS ALL HER PIECES!!!!!! Including all her hair accessories (she's a silly hair doll) her pet and even her 'How To Play' instructions!!!! And elastic bands!!!!!! She's Jewel Sparkles if you'd like to google or you know the dolls/characters!

I'm still so excited about her!!!! I also have an Ember Flicker Flame but she doesn't have her pet :( (I also got her at an op shop!)

- a very excited M💚

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

oh! yes, i know lalaloopsy! they were released a little after my time but were super popular with little ones! <3

woah!! that is a rare find, congradulations! <3.

i hope you have so so so so much fun playing with them! gosh i miss dolls :< i might start investing in some to play with again! <3

big big big hugs honey! & congraduations again! <3

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[pumpkzsafeplace]

Hii pumkin o⁠(⁠(⁠*⁠^⁠▽⁠^⁠*⁠)⁠)⁠o

Any tips on recognizing when you're in a headspace / partial headspace? I sometimes notice that I act little around my sister and i dont really want to since she doesnt know anything about that sort of stuff. It's really nice to be partially little around her but i just wish i had more control

Any idea how to keep up the partial littlespace but still recognize it and be in control so you dont out or embarrass yourself? :/

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hihi lil bug’ 🌼

hmm, good question little one! <3

when i was learning how to control mine, i would note down any time i would regress involuntary. i would make a note of what made me regress and why. once you've done it for a bit, you'll start to notice a bit of a pattern which will then help you have ammo to stop/or control it a little bit better <3.

i will say though that it does take practice! so don't get any or upset at yourself if it doesn't work first time around! <3

you'll get there, i promise!<3

big big big big hugs! <3

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