#ask answers that might get me excommunicated from the fandom lmao

[cellsshapedlikestars]

You don't need to know anything about Sophie Turner or Joe Jonas to know that he is a jerk and that he and his crew are playing dirty and running a smear campaign against Sophie. It's a pity for Sophie and her children, I hope she will have full custody.

Once again, this may come out harsher than intended, but I guess I should have put in that ask/answer that it wasn't a call for people to tell me about it.

I've spent a while here trying to come up with a non-bitchy-sounding way to respond to this, because I don't mean to be. I get people like Sophie and hate seeing someone be a dick. But you also do not know what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. All you see is what the celebrities & their PR teams choose to put out.

And it's a hard line for me to walk sometimes. Because I look at men like Johnny Depp & Marilyn Manson and I think - yeah. Bring that abuse into the public and let the women get justice. But everything I've seen so far, before I had to block the Sophie Turner tag (sorry girl, not your fault) is that he's a jerk who might have cheated and is trying to get the public on his side. If the public stopped paying attention, then that part wouldn't even be an issue. Couples that divorce do this all the time even without a public stage - making the other person out to be a monster to their families and friends and children - and while that sucks, it's also not really any of my business if I don't know them personally.

If he's a jerk, that sucks, and it sucks for her and her kids. But it's also not really any of my business, nor anyone else's. If the public didn't get so hyped up and involved in celebrity lives, there would be no need for a smear campaign. And yet here we are, with everyone rabidly speculating about the private lives of two people and their children. Meanwhile, Sophie put out a statement asking for privacy.

In ten+ years when their children learn to use the internet, when they inevitably Google their mom & dad, they'll find people posting horrible things about their parents and that sucks. They didn't ask for that, and yet here we are.

#cellsshapedlikeasks #file this under #ask answers that might get me excommunicated from the fandom lmao #i even sent my response to a friend to make sure it wasnt too bitchy lmao #also I won't be responding to any other asks about this