#and your constant scolding is not helping but actively making my anxiety about commenting WORSE

[rhodey-rhudert-rhodes]

People on here hit reblog on every post about how difficult phone calls are then call people who have difficulty commenting on fics assholes and say "there are no excuses"

Do you not understand how anxiety works?

#ao3 #anxiety #look. i GET that it's frustrating but insulting people is not how you do it and actively makes it worse #anxiety does not make sense. at all. which you obviously KNOW #first time i ever commented on a fic was in the ffnet days. author stopped updating immediately after #could it have been in any way my fault? no. but i also have severe anxiety #even worse OCD with all the intrusive and obsessive thoughts that come with #and enough self loathing that i will blame myself for anything #and your constant scolding is not helping but actively making my anxiety about commenting WORSE #I'm not talking about people who say how much they appreciate comments or the ones who give templates of how to comment. i love those people #@ whoever said <3 is a good enough comment i will kiss you if i ever see you #actually ocd #actually anxious #i feel bad about adding those but fuck it this counts as anxiety struggles #and they might be too far down to search either #please stop guilt tripping people