#and yet somehow im still on the fence abt calling myself nonbinary. in technical terms i always have been but in terms of wanting a label..

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not a man or a woman but a secret third thing (girlguy)

#incoherent turtle noises #remember when i said i wouldnt have any more gender breakthroughs cos i got it all figured out? ‘twas hubris. #having gender thoughts is fun and nice its way better than being anxious about the reality of living #im like. man doesnt rly describe me like ill go with it but i rly prefer saying guy. and im def not a woman but ill call myself girl #im just a lil weirdo normalguy girlgenderthing. im an ikea shark. im a quagsire. im a tiger keychain. #and yet somehow im still on the fence abt calling myself nonbinary. in technical terms i always have been but in terms of wanting a label.. #ehhh… i dont rly feel…like yes nonbinary is an umbrella term comprising all kinds of identity and pronouns but um. just being fr. #i dont wanna get they/themmed by randos more than i already do. sry but like u know its true! it already happens & i got he/him in the bio!