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#and they’re more concerned with using the Correct™ label instead of the one they feel most comfortable with
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i feel like the queer community lost when we started policing labels and making sure everyone used the Correct™ labels instead of letting a person decide what feels right for them
#caique posts
#inspired by a post a trans guy made asking if it was okay for him to keep identifying as a lesbian even though he’s now a man
#and all the comments telling him no because lesbians can’t be men
#and also all the other posts of people asking if they’re ''allowed'' to use certain labels
#why do you need permission?
#who are you even asking permission from?
#we’re not cops
#do whatever you want forvever
#also inspired by an article in a zine in the 80s/90s of two FtMs in a T4T relationship
#one of them described the relationship as being between a butch and his sissy boy
#i cannot ever imagine anyone calling themselves that nowadays
#because of ''only lesbians can be butches'' and ''sissy is offensive'' discourse
#i’m sure there are people out there who would want to describe their relationship like that but don’t feel they’re ''allowed'' to
#anyway lots of baby queers are tying themselves in knots trying to figure themselves out
#and they’re more concerned with using the Correct™ label instead of the one they feel most comfortable with
#yeah i just don’t like it
#knowing you’re queer should be a liberating feeling
#instead of something anxiety-inducing because you’re worried if you’re using labels wrong
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