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Make new friends, love the old

one is silver and the other GOLD as I grow each older, the more appreciative I’ve become of so many wonderful experiences to be blessed with, never for a moment taking any of it for granted. working one’s self to the core doesn’t do anyone favors (p.s. in Canadianese the American favors is favored by spell check, but we Canadians taught articulation in the late 60s and the early 70s were blessed with the very big gift of expression. ….. :: anywayyyyyyyyyyyyyys [an 80s term for those yuppies still out there, and the Millennial wannabes ::…. how things have evolved eh? In the folds of being born of the 60s like wallflowers to the Baby Boomers, we observed, we absorbed the best parts, we have held our composure, and now we are parents of the gift to our generation: the gift of the Millennial Bloom. We’re pretty lucky even though if you paid attention to statistics and stereotypical behavior, those born in the 60s were pre-packaged to lean towards failure. If you think stereo-typing is dangerous, especially to mental health, think of the resilience and tenacity of anyone you know, been lucky enough to have met, or heaven help you if you’re an offspring. A beacon of light to the Millennials is their embrace of the 80s culture. Is it because there is a soul connection of what those of us in our 20s in the 80s aligned with what our own Millennials are facing. Where optimism can be restored when you think of what great things, events, game-changers occurred in the 80s, introduced back then, every day now. Boxers who come out of the corner jumping into the obstacle ahead, head of, crouched in readiness to take the offensive with hardly a sniffle and long before a drop of sweat. That would define those who lived their 20s in the 80s. I graduated from college in the 80s and it was a great platform to launch a career. Not limited by the restrictive curriculum, more persevering to land beyond the world of conformity, censorship, polite manners, poise and abloom with everything is impossible, we may as well make the impossible possible.

I notice some really talented folks out there. Some that mere names crossed paths with me. What a crazy, crazy CRAZY time, when I think back to it. With gurgling reflection caught and captured from my conversation with my mother this afternoon. Being the parent of a Millennial is a worrisome, full board, attentive preoccupation. You revel is the brilliance shining from your child born, first in 1989, with the others to follow in the 90s. We’re lucky so they are lucky as well. Like skipping stones across a glass-like lake or quietly lapping ocean shore. We may have been born in inopportune times, faced some pretty insur-mountable odds. What we share is that grasp of not expecting anything for free, without commitment, not always sacrifice [ often by choice ] understanding the basic rightful work ethic:

* work hard * work honestly * work with integrity * be known for your word without all the numerous * be committed to quality

* whatever you do, do it with pride

* love who you do it with, who you’re surrounded by

* do your best always, it always pays off in spades

A dog eat dog world began with the Baby Boomers with entitlement mastered by GenX. Where those born of the 60s, grew in the 80s, parents of the Millennials >> skipped >> over the hay days and landed in the middle of the first recession since the 1929 stock market crash [ if you do not know anything about this historical event, pause this article and go find out about it …. as my commitment to you as a blogger, you read ] we had to survive. Really not much opportunity to learn as funds dried up and kids had to go leave post-secondary because their was some sort of crisis in their lives, with their family, that took more important measure instead. Learn from your elders as much as you can. No time will be wasted. I can guarantee that! Talking to my mother, with so many wise words shared. I even said to her: “I hope I remember all of this for when I write later”. The gift of her wisdom was shone brightly upon me, like a face of a flower blooming forward towards the sun. I was a sponge in the 80s that was my greatest gift. I only had a college diploma, not even a university degree. It was enough to teach me discipline and that anything worthwhile doesn’t come free, without commitment and stick-to-it-ness that is just emerging within the Millennial generation. Millennials have faced fear reflected in their parents eyes. A strong, tough upper lip, and a straight spine. We weren’t even considering weakness, with goals clearly defined in our line of vision. Dedication, optimism ~ contagiously positive attitudes were bestowed upon our offspring. Whether they grasped those sprinkles of enlightenment and hung on to the best qualities we shared. Nobody is perfect and neither is anyone who defines themselves as a Yuppie. [ Or admits in select company and trusted members ] Who wear it as an emblem of pride, saying “who cares?” if they still have enough hair left to grow a mullet, why not? As the Millennials groan and tsk tsk with embarrassment to their very influential peers. What their peers think of them is more important than their parents, their boyfriend, or their employer slash / boss could ever dream. A peer sets the benchmark and the height of the peddle stool they are awarded, acclaimed, worshiped or refrained. Be still thine parental heart it is just a mutation of your chromosomes, evolved and collided with nature and environment to form an independent being, an individual. I know it is very hard. Like a moth does to a butterfly without the loss of the moth, is the butterfly allowed to form. Be glad, be proud and be boastful toward anyone who’ll listen. Those are the ones you want to be around. They can relate, or your words resonate with them. Unlike my mom’s words this afternoon. They were so wise, so enlightening … almost as though I was leaving a cocoon. While I’d been living these 55 years, I was enclosed in a small outlook, not looking far beyond to where flowers bloom and the sun’s flower is warm with a gentle wind, with an iced tea at my elbow. I’m careful I don’t give it a nudge to topple it over as I tap, tap, tap with the rhythm of my 1979 typing class on an electric typewriter. Graduating exceeding 120 clicks minutes ::…. now WHAT was it called back in those days when we took our speed tests on a manual typewriter? Hmmmm I think it was … nope not characters per second, or any variation of the Times New Roman font that was the only letters to be had, to write a letter, draw up an agreement or a contract. Some of us grew up with carbon copy yet how many know what that material is? What it is like to try to avoid staining your fingers on the sticky substance on its back with a wrapping-paper thin or thinner-than-onion paper thin [ I’m sure Google can show you what either of those things are …. if not, Wikipedia for sure ]. This is a story for those who remember the glory of being a yuppie. Bringing in the 80s as we all turned 20. That is a pretty unique identifiable experience, a uniqueness we can own. A significant contribution to our society came from our decade. [ you may have to dig back to my other INBETWEENERs blog (before we evolved to be called “YUPPYDOM” ) mere weeks ago I wrote about those who graduated from the 1960s and became icons of our time. Across borders, beliefs, colors, race or country, the class of the 1960s born are unique with much to boast about. Keep steady on the present. Slam the door or gently close the past. Forget about the future because it isn’t anything you can touch right now. So you may as well be aware of the present and make every moment count!

where everything is impossible,

we may as well make the

impossible possible

~Jeannette Marshall

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