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lunarsilkscreen · 7 months

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Gaslighting, Psychosis, and Bipolar Disorder

Some people think that getting upset or angry at something is a sign of psychosis, BPD, or many other mental disorders.

So much so that your average person develops a mask so that others can never see when they're angry or upset. A painted smile, or a poker face.

They say: You can diagnosis somebody for any number of mental illnesses, but you can diagnose somebody with being an asshole. And you're wrong Dr.

It's important to ask questions when somebody is accused of being psychotic, BPD, or crazy, or any number of things. Because it may be a tactic used to isolate an individual from the group.

People with NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) do this for a few reasons, either they're malicious, or they're worried about losing their own friend group when the group learns that they are in-fact, an Asshole.

Or, they just want to control that person, and the best way to do so is to isolate them from other people. It's important to be able to recognize when somebody is being isolated, or when a person close to you is you to be isolated.

Because to the individual, it can look like this person is their only lifeline until it's too late. And to the group, it's a person self-isolating because "depression or whatever".

And if that person who you may assume is their best friend and routinely checking up on them, probably isn't doing that at all. They may even tell the group at large that they have checked in on them and either "they're fine" or "I don't know they won't tell me." Or "I don't know they keep acting crazy."

Psychosis isn't something that comes out of the blue. It comes from gaslighting. A person is antagonized to the point that they "act out". Either they yell or or do some other action because their nervous system has to react to destress.

Note: that if, when two people are routinely brought together, and this happens routinely; it's probably the relationship and these two shouldn't be around each other. Potentially because one of the two in the relationship is NPD, or because the relationship just isn't a healthy one, or even because they're acting out against each other because of societal pressures they can't otherwise control.

These things are hard to talk about because it's often framed that "the angry person" is the problem. But if you had a mosquito in the house, wouldn't you smack the mosquito?

There's a rash, and this is oftentimes women, who want people to feel sorry for them. They play the victim a lot. Because this happens, Men who actually do victim blame get to be covered by the Men who have been in their own shitty relationships where they themselves were the victim in such a relationship.

I'm gonna get so much shit for that, but it's a yin-yang thing. There's assholes on both halves. The black asshole, the white asshole. You've seen a yin-yang, I'm sure of it.

I'm saying: it's the victims on either side that get blamed and shamed.

This comes down to those masculine stereotypes. And even autistic stereotypes. Have you've ever seen a B* (and I mean B*, not a women) "catch" their partner in a "trap". And then just look at her friends like "See what I have to deal with?"

It's her friends that go along with it that cause the problem to metastisize.

Sorry, I used a gendered pronoun. Have you ever seen a D* (and I mean a D* not a men.) "Catch" their partner in some "trap" look at his friends and go "see what I have to deal with?" His friends are the problem.

F* I did it again.

Have you ever seen a... What's a negative slur against "theybys" cuz #notalltheybys. F* it. If I'm going to hell, might as well go in a hand basket.

Have you ever seen a Fa*t (and I mean a Fa*t and not a queer looking individual.) "Catch" their partner in some sort of "situation" and then look at their friends like "Can you believe this shit?" And then their friends go along with it without further comment.

And then the story *becomes* the theyby's partner was an edgelord that threatened to commit suicide? But as you learn more about that Fa*t, D*, or B*, that it was really them who were trying to get brownie points for being the... f*.

I think black people call it being a "White Savior" or whatever.

"yeah they're all sorts of mentally ill, but I put up with it, and I suffer for *their* sake... "

D*B*Got pls.

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leptonyx-constellate · 2 months

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heglo. main blog is @werebeastlybutchboy where we post sillies and where you can find our selfship blog. this is our plurality blog. a blog for us being plural. collectively, our pronouns are it/its and ze/hir. do not use they/them for us.

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(sidenote: here is a link to collective identities we either already have in the #id hoard tag, or that we're looking for! if you find any of the ones that we're looking for, please please please send us a link to the coining post, we'd appreciate it much)

we're mixed origins spontaneous-adaptive, and we're a mediple gateway collective; we as a whole do not consider ourselves a system due to the semantics of "many parts that make up a whole"; we do not feel like we make up a whole anything, and are simply connected by being (A) having dropped into this headspace and (B) being able to control the body. our headspace is seen as a real, physical place, and it's separate from us--it existed long before we did, and it will exist long after we cease to. as such, natives of the world--Yhine--are never and will never be forced to consider themselves as "part of Us" (although they're free to do so if they wish)

there is a small group, however, that does consider itself to be a system: Wolf, made up of Oakley, Matty, Dave, Inti, Junie, and Twitch. it also considers itself to be a disordered system, specifically via ASPD; here is how that works (tl;dr: unlike how most of us form, Wolf is made up of a bunch of ASPD masks who split off of the original, and they are specifically disordered because their functioning as masks instead of individuals makes it more difficult to handle symptoms related to our ASPD and the trauma that caused it). when talking about themselves, they'll frequently switch between i/me/my/mine/myself and wei/meus/myur/miurs/myursel[f/ves], as opposed to how the whole collective is referred to as we/us/our/ours/ourselves.

we are very big according to most folks' standards at 500, nearly halfway to 600. about 85% of that is made up of introjects, from fictives to factives to songtives to dreamtives to octives, etc etc etc. the vast majority of those are fictives from our SpIn, both of canon and non-canon characters.

we like talking about ourselves please send asks :3 (outside of the plurality stuff: we're physically disabled + a mobility aid user; we're autistic, ADHD, ASPD, NPD, and schizophrenic; and we're a physical werebeast, which you can see more of on our main)

no DNI (other than "anti-endos and those willing to be friends with them, shove off" and "if you believe in thought crimes--in ANY fashion--shove off". + if you're exclusionary in any way, we're the mspec alloaro transsexual male ambonec butchgendered lesbian the exclus are afraid of), we use the block button liberally. tag list below

#original post - original posts made by us

#[name].txt - posts by specific headmates who are making it known that it's from them specifically

#reblog - reblogged posts #self reblog - posts made by us that we're reblogging #id hoard - for (plural) terms that we identify with #off-topic - posts not about us being plural

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#on Wolf - posts (whether original or reblogged) related specifically to Wolf #on Yhine - posts (whether original or reblogged) about Yhine and how it works/how we fit into the mix #silly goofies - fun, good things that happen within us that we'd like to share #syscourse - syscourse #plural positivity - general positivity!

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#asks - all asks #sweethearts - nice asks :3 #ambiguous mail - we're very bad at tone, this is for asks who we can't tell if they're intended as hate #hate mail - hate asks (probably won't post many, if any of these unless we're proving a point) #ask games - both reblogged posts for the ask games and asks for those games!

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#vent - vent posts #werebeastliness - anything regarding us being a physical werebeast (note: will not ever be tagged as unreality; it is, at the very least, real for us, and tagging it as unreality would be reality checking if not just entirely false. if this makes you uncomfortable, block the tag or block us) #queerness - anything regarding our queerness #other neurodivergencies - anything about our other neurodivergencies #physdis - anything about our physical disabilities

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