#Pushy guys are not attractive when we barely know eachother

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#Why do guys who you only go on two casual dates get so invested? #we barely know eachother! #I do not owe you anything #the whole point is for us to figure out if we like eachother enough to then move onto the stage of figuring out if we are to be married #i don’t think i’m picky #but i have high standards on what a husband/father should be #and i am able to tell pretty quick if someone meets the 4 criteria i have for a boyfriend/husband #(a man after God’s own heart; attractive in personality/body to me; makes me want to be a better person; gets along with my family) #and i have found lots of guys who meet the criteria but sometimes it doesn’t work out #Pushy guys are not attractive when we barely know eachother #maybe it is because i am no attracted to him and do not want things to progress that makes the eagerness unattractive #but i have always thought it was weird and offputting #i know i am called to marriage #But i have a family/career/church community/hobbies that i am dedicated to #i can follow Christ and be a saint on my own #so anyone who i date/marry needs to be a man who can make me even a better saint and bring the best for family/career/parish #anyways i need to figure out how to let this gentleman down gently because he is very nice