#I've been less actively bitchy about it but my stance has stayed the same

[poopingonthefloor]

I would just like to thank you because your post on the subject of proshipping was what allowed me to firmly take a stance against proshitters. My blog is non confrontational and I don’t want to argue with people so I unfortunately had to remove the tags and block replies on my post when people started replying to argue with me but still it was your post which gave me the confidence to make this post in the first place and for that I thank you.

Although I've been particularly avoidant to any sort of discourse lately, I am glad I could have helped you (or anyone in general) have confidence to express themselves and try to speak out on issues that constantly infect fandoms and make unsafe spaces for basically anyone. Sorry that your post got dogpiled by a bunch of chronically online people LOL! Trust me, those people got literally no argument that they werent CONVINCED into believing LMAO.

#ask #I've been less actively bitchy about it but my stance has stayed the same #adults into that should not be allowed in the internet and they are backhandedly gr**ming children into embracing that creepy shit #and then children (who i dont blame for being into that stuff its not usually their own fault) desensitize themselves and actively LOOK - #-for creepy pe/do//ince//sty ships to ship because children just have a natural desire to “fit in” - #-which some children find that in following a contrarian crowd #so when they see art they like and dont yet understand the issues with it and then see the artist getting flack for it they jump to- #prxshitty defense and then that just causes them to grow up embracing that shit bec they think it makes them cool or unique or something!!! #and then that causes a spread bec then obviously impressionable minors attract other impressionable minors T_T #trauma response I dont doubt is true to some degree and i pity those for that but 1. keep that shit private im sorry but venting doesnt- #-excuse romanticising that shit and basically CONVINCING other impressionable children that its fine when you must KNOW its not okay if you #-KNOW its based on trauma and thats all you have to validate it #and 2. like thats unhealthy on its own right...... but like ok..... #((though i dont promote harrassing kids or telling them to hurt themselves like that doesnt rlly do much esp if theyre already traumatized) #I believe young people like that should try to strive to at least keep that stuff private esspecially if theyre an adult because idk how- #-adults DONT see the gr**my aspect behind it (bec from what ik most adults dont care about being surrounded by minors T_T)