#I‘m totally ok with people having ace headcanons in general but connecting it SPECIFICALLY with people drawing boundaries in regards

[frillyfacefins]

I‘m not putting this in the main tag but I‘m so annoyed by people taking Fizz being uncomfortable with Mammon‘s insistence on people fucking toys with his likeness as a sign that he‘s ace… I mean, I don‘t know any allo-sexual person who would be cool with this and it feels strange that people are conflating somebody who‘d like to have agency over his own image and not be a literal sex object with somebody who doesn‘t experience sexual attraction…. (It also comes pretty close to the whole thing with victims of sexual abuse or orientation being portrayed as sexless and/or sexually broken)

I mean, sure, there are plenty of kinky asexual people, just like there are aromantic people who write love stories (*cough*), but it makes me feel weird to think people believe allosexual people would be ok with the shit mammon is pulling…

#text #might give this a tag later so it doesn‘t show up in the actual fandom/character tags but I can still find it on my blog #but honestly no hate to my ace siblings but this is weird #like seriously what kind of opinions do you have about allosexual people? #I‘ve been seeing this for a while - as soon as a character expresses discomfort with the way other characters sexualize or sexually exploit #them here come the ace headcanons #I‘m totally ok with people having ace headcanons in general but connecting it SPECIFICALLY with people drawing boundaries in regards #to their bodies or their sex life…. no #just no