#I wanna get married and have kids but NO

[kingkatsuki]

Mother Mitsuki, who despite Masaru’s pleas, is way too invested in Bakugou and your relationship.

#pls I LOVE HER!!! #asking if you’re engaged yet every time you both visit for dinner #sending you wedding dress designs when you’re not even engaged #sending bakugou texts telling him to wife you up before you realise your mistake in choosing him and pick Deku instead #gifting the most inappropriate presents to try and get you pregnant #becoming the real bridezilla when you’re finally engaged and she isn’t even the one getting married #he turns up at your hen do to find you and his mum drunk as FUCK together #and he can’t help but shake his head at the sight as he tries to get you both back to his car because he loves you both so much #and he’s so glad you like each other too😭 #she’s at the hospital holding you in her arms whenever Bakugou is hurt like you just share the same pain #but god if she sends bakugou one more text with your ovulation schedule he’s blocking her #(he’ll never admit that it’s because of that text that he bends you over— just in case) #and it fills him with so much warmth when he watches you both share memories of him as a kid— even though he was an ugly fucking baby #and like when you both fight Mitsuki always checks up on you too🥺because she knows her son can be brash like her #but she knows that he’s so in love with you and wouldn’t wanna lose you #she’s definitely caught you both having sex in his childhood bedroom too tho

[nashvillethotchicken]

Sometimes I think about how loustat are in a placage marriage and make myself insane.

#placage is a system of concubinage prevalent in pre 1804 Louisiana where wealthy white men would take black partners and oft have kids #who would then become the free black elite in the south especially in NOLA #it stems from french/ catholic “progressive” views on race mixing that made it ok in french/spanish colonies vs english colonies #so when i say louis is lestats concubines in canon do not get mad at me #they cant get married legally but everyone regards them to be in some type of relationship #lestat then leaves louis at home to cavort publically with white society #its so interesting #like this was my major in college i wanna talk about it so bad but you people cant handle someone saying lestat was dead wrong so i caint #like i love loustat #in canon yhe show is pulling from that history of interracial relationships in nola #and some of them genuinely loved each other but that racialized dynamic was always there even though the black person was 'free' #the white partner could always sell them or their kids into slavery so there was always that dynamic over the black partner #and then louis is most likely a descendants of one of these relationships like theres levels to this shit #interview with the vampire #iwtv #amc iwtv #louis de pointe du lac #lestat de lioncourt #iwtv 2022 #ldpdl #loustat

[carmenlire]

rewatching the first episode of bloodhounds and the instant connection between gunwoo and woojin has struck me all over again! I adore that gunwoo just genuinely loves boxing. This hobby-turned-passion may have started to protect his mother but it’s something he finds such solace and joy in. He truly embodies the heart-of-a-boxer mentality that he mentions on the rooftop.

You can see gunwoo be a little taken aback at the showmanship of woojin. I’d like to put a little bit of intrigue there too because it’s so different to his own serious, by-the-book style. And then after the match, when gunwoo is waiting outside the locker room and his puppy energy is just off the charts!!! he says that everyone else left :( but I think he secretly he was just waiting for woojin. And he is so eager and woojin is just staring at this kid like what the fuck? shouldn’t he be annoyed at this rookie who KO’d him? but nah how could he be when it’s so glaringly obvious that the kid loves boxing for boxing’s sake and he’s such a sweetheart.

so they get dinner!! at the barbecue buffet!! and it’s at this part that woojin’s interest is well and truly piqued. He wants to know more about gunwoo and his rapid-fire questions are his way of getting the information. the two of them bond and i gotta love sangyi’s and dohwan’s  chemistry because you can literally see their friendship come together, that bond unbreakable.

And then the next morning! I could write an entire thesis about that first morning after the match! Gunwoo immediately calls his new friend woojin and woojin answers and even when he’s so tired and he doesn’t understand just why gunwoo would go to the gym, he still picks up the phone and his little amused-- and already so fond!!!!-- “gosh, you’re so clingy in the morning” is immediately nullified whenever he tells gunwoo to come over! 

and i love that woojin rapidly and without missing a beat understands and reworks his potential first impression of gunwoo. you can literally see him decide that “idk how this kid has managed this long without me but now i’m here and i’m not letting anything hurt him.”

and just the moments later-- their married couple ass bickering the second time they go to the buffet with hyunju before they are once again a united front as they both bicker with her! 

the montage after the devastation of Episode Six-- the way gunwoo so totally loses it all, his driving need to save his hyung, the way he carried woojin’s drunk ass to bed the night before (and if i hc that woojin wasn’t as drunk as it showed? that maybe there’s a conversation that happens in that moment?). his sheer relief. the way that in the wake of everything falling to pieces, they have each other and nothing will ever come between them-- the way they’re stronger than ever.

and don’t even get me started on their time in the granddaughter’s apartment?! it’s so obvious??? the way she tells them not to be creepy old men and they’re so confused but as soon as they realize what she’s alluding to, their faces wrinkle in disgust and they’re like “lmao wtf absolutely not u don’t have to worry about that” the way they’re talking one morning and??? they don’t realize she’s in the room???? and that’s because she was ON THE TOP BUNK AND THAT NECESSARILY MEANS THAT THEY SHARED THE BED ON THE GROUND FLOOR BECAUSE HOW ELSE WOULD THEY NOT KNOW SHE SLEPT THERE??????????????

#i'm going to write a fic and it's going to be titled the heart of a boxer #i want to see them in those quiet moments of the show #i want to see them happy and secure post canon #i KNOW that gunwoo's mom sees more than she lets on and she's very happy for her son #they get married idc and the granddaughter makes a joke that she knew all along #i wanna see woojin get jealous of someone flirting with gunwoo bc his man is so oblivious #i want to see them with kids #they make a nice little fortune boxing for a few years #and the rich guy i forget his name #he gave them a lot more money than the show said #and they keep that connection #because him and his cousin weren't kidding when they were drunk and said they have to take care of these kids #man i love woojin and gunwoo #bloodhounds #bloodhounds kdrama #my writing tag #fic ideas

[sailforvalinor]

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#well. I did it. talked to The Boy. it went fine he took it just fine and we intend to stay friends and keep in touch #I just feel so awful about it you know? like I know I’m not but what if I made a mistake??? I can’t help wondering if that was my only shot #you know?? but I refuse to date him just because I want a boyfriend. that’s cruel. I just wanna get married and have kids and have a house #and a life of my own you know? like as much as I am a reclusive introvert I don’t want to do life on my own. #currently having to fight this voice in my head that’s wondering how likely I am to find anyone again who’s willing to put up with me #anyway. well. that’s an eventful chapter of my life closed

[francy-sketches]

I hateeee how asoiaf has just become the "incest books lol" to so many people. what a dumb and reductive way to look at a series that has so much more like. of all the things you could say are the central themes of asoiaf incest in not one of them lmao.(yes obviously it's present, but not nearly as much as people make it out to be) And this isn't about people who havent read it and are just judging from the outside bc who gives a shit about them. But I see this mostly from fans and its just??? what the fuck did you read/watch lmao. I mean even hotd which centers around thee incest family isnt about the incest and you'd have to have negative media literacy to think it is.

Also it's fucking insane how being uncomfortable with incest shipping gets you ridiculed in this fandom lmao. like I'm not here to be the morality police ship whatever the fuck you want idc. but dont be surprised when it makes people uncomfortable??? "ummm if you dont like incest why are you reading the incest books/watching the incest show??? weirdo" I dont fucking know man maybe all the other 348593 interesting things it's about. just a guess. And these are the same people who go on about "well just bc you write something fucked up doest mean you agree with it" which. yes! true!! then why do you uncritically endorse targ incest blood purity 😭 do you think maybe that's one of the things grrm wrote that he doesnt agree with? of course not, hotd is a cautionary tale about the dangers of not doing incest and what happens when you let your pure valyrian blood be contaminated by gross peasant genes from outside your family ^_^ obviously ^_^ and anyone who's not into your incest ships is a bigot <3 "but it's normal in their world!1!11!!!" no its not lol. and even if it was. marrying children is also normal in their world what's your point

#.txt #asoiaf #incest cw #'the gods hate incest. Look how they brought down the Targaryens' <- chracter who clearly thinks incest is normal #btw with incest i mostly mean siblings here. bc cousins seems to be pretty normal for them. but there's a big difference lol #its normal for the targs and that's it #and even then. man it would have been so interesting to explore targ incest as psychological horror rather that 'perfect uwu babies' #like imagine being a kid showing normal affection to your sibling and your parents are like. omg someone's in love <3 #thats so fucked up and interesting to me!! but no instead we get 'and baegel married his sistercousin and they lives happily ever after <3' #btw i wanna make it clear im not clutching my pearls at people who think incest in asoiaf is interesting #or like it in a 'wow that's fucked up. more' kinda way #but man the 'uwu incest romance' people are so annoying lol. daemon is a malewife sure whatever make everything boring #also i think its gross lmao but again ship what you want idc #especially when its not canon like. why do you want extra incest 🤨 #im so tired of seeing helaemond everywhere jfc leave them aloneeee. aemond is a freak but not in that way -_- #lucemond also. die #cringe ass ship names btw -_- #sorry for the rant i dont like to get too serious but this annoys me so baddd #anyway f&b was a mistake

[shima-draws]

There’s nothing quite like getting a wedding invitation from the guy you used to have a crush on in high school

#Hmm. Feels awful!! #Me to me: Maybe. I'm not quite over this. #IDK IT FEELS WEIRD MAN. I'm very happy for him. But also kinda bummed at the same time. #I think I'm more just dreading showing up and being like aha yeah! Here I am! #I haven't changed at all since we last spoke! Not at all!! #Nothing new or exciting going on with me ever. No accomplishments. No partner I can brag about. NOTHIN #Hey anybody wanna show up as my fake date. Fake dating to lovers AU /j #Idk it just feels wrong to keep hearing from my friends in high school who are all getting married and having kids #Meanwhile me. Who has never dated anybody ever. And has nothing to show from the past five years: #SORRY I'M JUST HAVING A MID-LIFE CRISIS I GUESS. AT THE RIPE OLD AGE OF 26. #Me: I've been dealing with my anxiety and depression on the daily for years now and yeah that's it how are you #My friends: I got my dream job and I'm marrying the love of my life and I'm going to buy a house soon!! #I WANT TO CRAWL INTO A HOLE. AND DIE. YEAH. THAT SOUNDS GOOD #Sorry I need to sit here and feel pathetic and hate myself for a second. Then I'll get overe it #*over #Shima speaks #Maybe I can lie and say I've been backpacking through Europe for the last five months. LMAO

[dykedragons]

all i want is to have a bed in a nook. like 3 sides around the bed are all walls except for the foot of the bed. put a curtain by the foot of the bed. nook. a cave, even. with fairy lights and posters. a little shelf. wistful sigh

#ramblies #in my future house wishlist… #in addition to the gamer/dnd dungeon (optional) #slanted roofs… cute decorative tiles in the kitchen/bathroom #aaand a garden and perhaps a hot tub #ill probably not be able to afford the hot tub but like whatever all im saying is it would be cool #man… one day…! very excited to have my own little place and partake in various DIY projects #i rlly wanna get into diy furniture restoration one day #and gardening. and expanding my baking recipes #get really good at making pies and jams… #giggling kicking my feet at the thought of the Projects ill get up to one day #stressed abt having money and time but life is long and i wont have to worry about any damn kids <3 so ill be alright #and if anyone is insane enough to marry my ass then hooo we are in business dual income babeeyy hot tub here i come #on a tangentially related note if any cute furry girls r interested hmu /hj

[godlovesdykes]

my academic plan (god willing etc etc)

BA (4yrs) -> diploma (you are here) (was supposed to be 2yrs but i’m doing extra courses so 3) -> either 2nd diploma or masters depending on the school i choose (2yrs) -> break to work in my field/have kids maybe -> france for 2nd masters (2-3yrs)

#topics in order: classics costume conservation and then specifically textile conservation #i like c subjects evidently #and i wanna marry my sweetheart after this degree is done 💕 #i think it would be nice to have young kids in france so they can get a bilingual education for a few years but idk if we’ll be ready for #them by then. we’ll see! #screams into the void

[bryndeavour]

thinking about how the true conflict between morse and the partners paired with him, is really how its FAMILY above all else. Its the same with Thursday as it will be with Lewis - a man with a family that he doesnt give as much attention as he should because of The Job - but also because of Morse’s needs. Now, Morse doesn’t think he has those needs, but everyone around him knows it. And it inevitably gets to the point where the family can’t be ignored anymore. And sorry for Morse - he isn’t their spouse or son or cousin. He’s truly a guy who wants to just work and work and work and be left alone until it’s not convenient for him to be. Everyone is going to prioritize their own son’s upset over him. Their wife’s. Their daughter’s. I dont think it’s a coincidence either that Thursday and Lewis have the same family set up (wife - one son - one daughter). These families are always made open to him but he will never ALLOW himself to be one of them they way he could be - and there will always be some reminder that he ISNT one of them. It takes him years to even be an active part of his own sister’s life (and mad props too for being a part of Gwen’s even into old age when he helps provide for her). TBH i think this is more familiar for a modern audience, especially us in specific generations who have gone the ‘chosen family’ route or just arent the types to settle down and get married and have kids. It’s just those options weren’t considered to be mainstream or standard, or even advice that anyone would think to give Morse - that its okay to pick your own family and no you dont have to get married actually. I think Morse hit a specific age where he HAS realized marriage isn’t for him and so he thinks hes a failure at Life Things and Milestones. I GENUINELY DONT THINK HE WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN. I dont for a second think he really wanted Joan at the point of the recent seasons. Her moving on is just a bittersweet punctuation on something he already knows and feels. That life isn’t for him. Maybe when he was younger he wanted it. Maybe 5 years ago. But now? No. He just hasn’t been given societal permission to feel that way.

I have some thoughts about how this carries through into s9 but since this isn’t a spoilery post I’ll either discuss that elsewhere or in another post. 

#itv endeavour #endeavour morse #i think its a more familiar feeling for a lot of us than unrequited love #and a disservice to morse to act like he doesn't know his own mind enough #to realize he's hit the point in his life that alot of us hit - everyone around him is getting married and having kids and hes not #and he doesnt want it #but he also doesnt wanna be excluded

[no-mercy-bby]

I kind of just want to drop out of college and crochet and write books and

#get married (i don't have a boyfriend) #and have kids (i am not in a relationship or stable enough for a family) #i kinda wanna sell crochet stuff but it takes me like a month to make any and everything #plus i suck at reading and understanding patterns #and all ik is single crochet and double crochet and even then i think i do them wrong as well #Tunisian stitch is fun but i don't have a hook long enough and it hurts my hand #idk if it was just my sinuses and lack of sleep but ive felt so bad all day #and my back hurts cause i sit like a shrimp and don't know how to stand i guess #im so tired. genuinely. #and my mouth is fucked up again with sores because of stress and biting at my own lips #and its so lonely being in college #which is kinda funny cause i have more people i would actually consider as friends than ever #but i kinda just feel like im *there* #and i have a million projects to do but i played fortnite with my sis and her husband and my brother instead #and my dad taught my sis and i to play solitaire #and then i beat them both at black jack (it was actually a tie of how many matches i won but shhh) #and i know im blessed that im basically getting paid to go to college by my college but #it just doesn't feel right. like it feels isolating and lonely #and i have gone to some events btw they are not that great

[todayisafridaynight]

‘The worst thing she can say is no’ and its the proposal scene from LAD8

#snap chats #HELPPPP THATS SO SAD #im an asshole for not posting the vid but if anyone asks ill share it #im just on mobile and im lazy LMAO BUT ANYWAY #NOOOOOO LIKE. I CANT TELL IF THIS IS BETTER OR WORSE #i thought saeko blew up or would have a volatile reaction #like i was holding my breathe waiting for her to hit him or yell because thats so typical innit #but no she just. Lets Go Home :) My Answer? Uhh Let’s Go :) #LIKE MISS MA’AM???? DAMNN poor ichi #twelve bucks saying they get married at the end #BUT GOD DAMN THATS LIKE.. SOMEHOW WORSE THAN JUST SAYING NO #ichi pouring his whole heart and soul out… ALSO THIS ISNT A DIG AT SAEKO AT ALL NO NEVER #JUST… MAN… i wanna know what shes thinking…. #shes shown shes not used to having friends so never mind the thought of marriage and a KID #i mean presumably they mustve been dating a while but either way…. wow….. #jan 26th get here soon. im having a horrible day just please distract me #i told yall going to my moms is always a nightmare i wanna leave but i cant go until monday #anyway bye……. im gonna just. sit here LMAO

[nukenai]

Tonight I went to my friends' wedding where they played lofi video game music for a large portion of the time, had pokemon and other nerd figures all over the tables, gave me a rock with my name hand painted on it, and cut the cake with a sword.

I have the coolest fucking friends on earth.

#all the friend weddings i've gone to have kicked ass #now i feel like i actually wanna get married #to also have a cool wedding #but i don't want to invite any of my family members so that may be an issue #if you make me dance with my father i will fucking drop dead. do not. #no het stuff at all. none #it would just be an excuse to have a weird party with my friends honestly #dogs welcome no kids #(but this wedding was extremely lovely lol i don't mind that stuff when i GO TO someone's wedding) #(bc i am being fed and i love my friends and it's fine) #(but for me???????? no) #(i mean it would also depend on what my probable wife would want. she can have whatever she wants i don't care)

[dandelioncore]

Everyone wish me luck I'm installing Sims 2 ultimate collection

#I'm a menace for sims 2 ngl #i have all the expansions on disk from when my sister and i were kids except for university #but only ever had a couple stuff packs #no more!! now i shall have everything hehehehehehehe #ive never attempted cc or mods before bc my game was already relatively unstable and i didn't wanna risk it but i might now #i heard someone pnline talk about a mod that makes finances more difficult so i might grab that #bc good god does it get too easy when you play on a family for a while and suddenly this 3 person family have over 100k simoleans #mine #sims 2 #i also never play the pre-mades bc i only recently leared you can turn aging off and i dont like progressing their stories #cos im incapable of intentionally adding drama 😭 it makes me feel guilty #so everyone just ends up happily married with good jobs and no enemies lmao

[scrambledslut]

i was bored so here’s my stardew valley farmer Remy in all her different outfits using my favorite picrew :3

#she’s married to Harvey and spends almost all her days in the mines fighting monsters #they’re gonna have their first kid soon too 😊 #i’m on year 2 winter😛 #mutuals and non mutuals (basically everyone) pls do this with your stardew farmer OC #and pls tag me if you do i wanna see so bad😛 #OMG ALSO i finally got to level 100 in the skull cavern for the first time ever😛 #been so locked in i accidentally ghosted my boyfriend💀💀 #the first outfit is the with the dinasour hat and pants + a red shirt that matches the red in the hat 😊 #the blue outfit is her winter outfit with the blue bonnet and some random blue pants and a gray shirt #the one with mouse ears is self explanatory imo #and then the last one is almost exactly like her outfit in the game #black cowboy hat and black overalls with a purple shirt 😊 #just started taking my new adhd meds and hopefully i get my will to be creative back so i can make actual art of her 😊😊😊 #stardew valley #picrew

[genreawareness]

my roommate’s in the bathroom so i cant brush my teeth and go to bed. time to soapbox on tumblr. very very curious what it would take to make living in a suburb emotionally sustainable for me because the genuine comedic overwhelming joy at coming home is actually crazy.

#from the desk #literally have been jumping around happystimming like its THAT insane out here #however. #get out of the bathroom pleaseeeee i dont want to be eepy tomorrow. okay? im trying to be good and go to bed on time!! #ANYWAY. #i think like. hm. okay. in a hypothetical future where i am married with kids WOULD that be enough to make suburbia survivable? #does it work fine if i just have a car and a license and can get to people easily? #i am never ever ever going to be capable of living in my hometown its too spread out #hm. i dont know. #i think the concept of a community space is apparently genuinely really critical for me #is what i love about living in this specific apartment that its kind of the community space? #i mean certainly yes but could i go without it. what WILL i do with my one wild and precious life #im sure i could? it’s difficult to say any of this for sure bc its almost 1 (LEAVE. PLEASE.) and im just saying shit but man #craaaaazy how much better i feel #not the community space the living in it. #i still feel like zooming around but also im tiiiired i wanna go to beeeeed

[alexa-crowe]

big giveaway that i’m a screenwriter i feel is that i was like genuinely afraid that quinta was gonna have janine and gregory kiss already and i was like no!!!!! it’s only been 2 seasons!!!!! they’re not ripe yet!!!! but the shipper in me was also like 🥵🥵🥵🫠🫠🫠🫠🥴🥴🥴🥴😘😘😘😘🤪🤪🤪 yk

#i don’t want them to be msr level slowburn #bc the opportunities to see them like get married and have a kid i feel are too big to pass up #like janine and gregory trying to plan their wedding but they literally have no time #and so everyone has to remind them that they’re doing way to much work and it’s okay to change the date #or ask for help bc they’d love to #or janine being like i’m really not in labor like i’m not. there’s a district-wide exam and the kids need me. i’m not having a baby #but also them knowing that they do wanna make their committment to each other via a wedding #and gregory realizing that his mehhhhhhhhhhhheeeehhhg??? feelings towards fatherhood (from his own dad) he does actually want to be a dad #anyways i trust quinta she is a queen 👑 #abbott elementary #abbott elementary spoilers