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Hauntober prompt Crystals
Nalu requested by @p-r-i-d-e007 AU story with POV switch.
It was a little nerve wracking to bring Natsu back to her home for the first time since they’d started dating two months ago. Up until now, they’d taken things slowly to test out the potentials of a relationship. Dinner dates, movies, walks in the park, just the typical stuff young people do, and yes they passed first base last week when he’d invited her to his apartment.
Lucy really liked Natsu. He was sweet and caring, a bit goofy and silly, but fun to be around. There was never a dull moment whenever they were together. The man was also— hot, like legit firefighter, well built, smoking hot! How he was still single, she had no clue, but Lucy was happy to have landed someone like him when she hadn’t even been looking. Talk about when a blind date goes, right!
“Well, this is it.” Lucy holds the door open for Natsu as he walks in. “It’s not very big, but I loved some of the old architecture of the place.”
He’s immediately greeted by an excited, medium sized white dog. “And who’s this guy?”
“That’s Plue, don’t worry he’s harmless.” Lucy closes the door. “Would you like a tour?” She questions, holding down the nervous energy bubbling inside of her.
“Sure!”
Lucy walks them around the place, showing him each room. The house was a two bedroom, one bath with a living room/dining area, and kitchen separated by an island countertop. It had wood paneling for walls and hardwood flooring except in the kitchen and bathroom which had tile floors. One bedroom had been turned into an office space where she worked on her novels. There, shelves were covered with books of all kinds.
“That’s a lot of books,” he chuckles. “You read them all?”
“Most of them. Some of it I picked up for research, but these,” Lucy shows him a special area, “are my published stories. It’s not much yet, as I build up a name for myself.”
“That’s already a lot considering you made your dreams come true.”
The blonde blushes at his sweet words. “Thank you, Natsu.”
Back in the living room, Lucy shows his her most prized collection. “And this is the real reason I bought this house.” She runs her hand on the edging. “When I saw it had this built-in recessed spot, I knew it would be perfect for my stones. I put up the glass display shelves and hired a carpenter to put up the glass doors.”
“Wow, that is a cool collection! Wouldn’t have pegged you for a rock collector,” he chuckles.
“I know, it’s kinda weird, but I’ve always loved finding interesting stones and crystals.”
Natsu pulls her close and kisses her on the lips, “it’s not weird at all. Better than my old Magic card collection.”
She giggles, “I don’t know, aren’t those worth a lot now?”
“Not in the condition I left them in,” he laughs.
“Oh,” Lucy giggles again, her anxiety slowly melting away. “So, um do you wanna watch a movie or something? I could make us dinner too.”
He rubs his stomach with a silly grin. “Mmm, a home cooked meal? You don’t gotta ask me twice!”
When Natsu leaves Lucy’s home later that evening, he returns to the fire station riding on a mental high. What lucky star had he wished upon to catch such a beautiful and smart woman like Lucy? They were different yet complimentary, her book smarts to his street smarts. But the best part was how comfortable he felt around her. In just two months Natsu felt like they’ve been friends for years and there was nothing he wouldn’t already do for her.
The life of a firefighter had its ups and downs, one of which was the schedule. Four days on, three days off takes time to adjust to, but it made sense to make sure they didn’t burn themselves out; no pun intended. He spends the down times searching Google with an image in his head of the perfect gift to give to Lucy. He wasn’t exactly sure what he was looking for but when he finds it, he’ll know it’s the right one.
‘Perfect!’ Click purchase. Done.
A month later, he takes her out to an expensive restaurant in town. At first Lucy had balked, it was too extravagant! But he’d persuaded her that he just wanted to do something special for their third month anniversary. That made her chuckle. Who celebrates a third month of dating? He did, that’s who when it comes to a woman he was head over heels for.
The night goes well and the meal divine as expected of the place. Natsu places a wrapped box in front of Lucy. “Don’t worry, it’s nothing fancy. Just a small gift for you.”
Lucy’s eyebrow raises as she reaches into her purse and pulls out a small wrapped box of her own. “Jinx! I got you something too.”
Natsu laughs. “Then we’re even.”
They both take their boxes and open them. Natsu being the first. “Wow, this is pretty awesome!” He holds up the flame shaped pendant. “Does it mean anything?”
“It’s called red tigers eye. Supposed to be good for energy and vitality, you know cause your job can get pretty demanding.”
“So, it’ll be my lucky Lucy charm?” He winks.
Lucy blushes, “you goof!” She finishes opening her gift, chuckling dying away the moment her eyes come to rest on its contents. “Oh my! You got me rose quartz?!” It was a beautiful, uncut piece too!
“I think you already had it, but when I was searching it said this one was all about love and new beginnings so I figured one coming from me would be more meaningful.”
She shifts over to hug him excitedly and plant a big kiss on his lips. “I love it!”
“You really love it?” He smirks.
“I really, really love it,” Lucy grins back. “In fact,” she runs her finger down his chest, “I think you’ve earned your home run...”
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What do you usually drink at meals?
Just water. I can’t finish my meals drinking anything else.
Does your washer make a lot of noise?
I’m not sure for the most part because our washing machine is isolated on the rooftop so I never get to hear it, but I don’t think it’s noisy.
How many hair straightners/curlers/dryers are in your house?
Three in total, I think. My mom has a hair dryer and a straightener; I have my own hair dryer.
Which side of your face do you like better?
I like them the same amount?
Do you think that was a weird question?
I wasn’t weirded out too much by it; I know there are some people who really prefer a certain side of their face.
Did you pull any pranks on April Fool's day, or vice versa?
No I hate pranks.
Do you wave when you see people from your classes outside of school?
Depends how close I got with them. Most of the time I would ignore them.
Would you prefer a black or white cellphone, or a bright colored one?
Definitely just a plain black or white one. I don’t really like my stuff colored unless it’s pink.
When you believe in the Easter Bunny, what did you picture him/her like?
The Easter Bunny was never as big a deal here as Santa Claus is, so I was never familiar with it up until I was a little older. I don’t really have a vivid image of the Easter Bunny other than it being a bunny carrying a basket of eggs.
Does your mom, dad or silbings play any instruments?
My dad plays some guitar. My sister had piano and guitar lessons but she never quite learned either haha.
Are you allowed to eat meals in the living room?
We’re allowed to eat anywhere in the house as long as we clean up the mess if we make one.
How many people could fit comfortably to sleep in the room you're in?
I’d say 5 if I put some mattresses on the floor.
Around how much do you spend on Christmas presents?
Too much. Idk, I like spoiling my friends.
Your last ex: how did you two get together?
We’re best friends. We just ended up liking each other and it solidified after a trip to a museum and a cute dinner date.
Do you always have an ice cube in your drink?
I prefer having them when I eat out, but it’s not like I religiously pay attention to ice cubes at home or anywhere else.
Does the last person you spoke to have any siblings?
Yes, my mom has two brothers.
What's the best food for sleepovers?
Pizza, wings, and chips.
If you skip class, what one do you skip most?
This sem, it’s econ. I used to have perfect attendance because the class has an incentive for not having absences (+5 on the finals) and I used to be obsessed with following it. By mid-April I started to get fucking sick of that class so I ended up having 3 cuts in one week LMAAAAAOOOOO. That class can go fuck itself. I hate it too much to care.
Do you have any pictures of yourself on your bedroom walls?
I have my Prep graduation portrait up on my wall, yeah.
Does your mom dye her hair?
She used to have brown highlights for her old job, but she hasn’t done it in like ten years.
If yes, does she deny that she does?
What do you do for fun when the power goes out?
Honestly, there is nothing fun when we get a blackout. It gets really hot and everyone becomes cranky, rightfully. I end up fighting Meralco on Twitter and demanding when they’ll respond to the power outage lmao.
Are 'personal response' essays painful to write for you?
I don’t see why they should be. I appreciate essay reqs that just make you write about your own experiences and opinions; they make it so much lighter on the rest of the workload I have.
Do you say 'skip', 'pip off', or something else?
I have no idea what this is referring to. Are we just talking about skipping?
If you had to, would you rather marry your English or math teacher?
I’m taking neither.
About how many books are in the room you're in?
Probably around 20-30. The rest of the books I own are in my sister’s room; I just ran out of space in mine.
What number do you ignore when it comes up on the display?
???
What is the best restaurant in the mall? What do you typically order there?
We have several malls in the area but my favorite is either Yabu or Torch. I’ll normally have a katsu set from Yabu; I forgot what my usual in Torch is called but it’s a maki roll that’s deep fried, has mayonnaise, and I think it has salmon in it.
Do you find history interesting?
Ugh I love history more than anyone I know. I didn’t need to take a history elective but I’m taking one right now and will probably take up some more in the next semester.
Think of a friend whose name starts with any letter between A and M.
Got it.
How would you react if this friend kissed you?
Slap them, ask them what the hell they were thinking, and tell her boyfriend and my girlfriend.
If you were to a throw a party, would you invite them?
She’d be the first person invited.
Do you text this person?
Pretty often.
Have you ever had a sleepover with them?
Yes, a few times.
Does your best friend ever wear fake nails?
I don’t actually pay attention hahaha.
What's the last thing you searched on google?
‘Pip off’ from the last few questions above, because I had no idea what it meant. Still don’t.
Have you read all the books on your bookshelf?
I’ve read them all but I haven’t finished them all.
Would you ever go on a date with the last person you spoke to through IM?
God no. She’s too overbearing for me.
Harry Potter or Twilight?
Twilight.
Would you be okay living on your own?
I most definitely would be.
How far can you run without breaking a sweat?
I wouldn’t know what to tell you as I haven’t tried this in a while haha.
After swimming, do you just strip or go into a change room?
I...go into the changing room and take a shower?
Would you rather date an older man/woman, or a younger one?
I haven’t experienced dating either so I might have to take a pass. I still prefer seeing someone my age.
Have you ever seen the last person you hugged naked?
Yes.
What about in their underwear?
Yep.
Where did you get your favorite shirt?
We got it in one of the indie stalls at the mall. It was a buy 3 shirts for P200 promo so we got two for Gabie’s siblings and the other one for me.
How much was it?
~P65 for one shirt if we’re considering the promo that came along with it.
Do you/your parents have any creepy pictures or painting up on the wall?
No. I think my siblings and I would let them know if it were too creepy.
What's the best kind of video game? (Adventure, shooting, etc)
Not sure if this is a legit genre but I can always ride with open-world games.
How young is too young to date?
Idk, 14?
How old is too old to date?
I don’t think there’s such a thing as being too old to date.
Does your mom swear?
Hahahaha yup.
What was your biggest fear as a child?
Cockroaches and bungee jumping.
Your biggest dream?
Work for WWE.
Do you know anyone who has road rage?
ME HAHAHAAHAHAHAHA. It’s safe road rage anyway. My friends all point out that I have really short patience when driving but still prefer to ride with me than with anyone else who also drives since for them, I’m the only one who hasn’t tried to kill them lmaooo.
How would you react if your mom got a lip piercing?
I’d probably say ‘cool’ and asked if it hurt.
What animal is really common to see in the woods where you live?
Stray dogs :(
Would you like to follow in one of your parents' footsteps?
Not really. I was never interested in what their degree requires or their subsequent career choices.
Where did you get your favorite pair of pajamas?
I don’t have a favorite pair.
Do you know anyone named Desmond? Do you like that name?
I don’t think so. Not really a fan.
What/who do you take the most pictures of?
My dog and my girlfriend.
What's your screensaver?
I don’t have one on my laptop.
Do you prefer your hair in a bun or ponytail?
Bun!
Have you ever kissed someone who had reallllllllllllly dry lips?
Mmm no.
What is the last thing you celebrated?
My birthday, though it didn’t feel like celebrating it.
What were you last Halloween?
I wasn’t able to celebrate Halloween last year :( I think I just stayed in that day.
Have you ever suspected that your last ex was cheating? Why?
No.
Has anyone ever told you they wanted to be with you forever?
No.
And are you still with them?
I’m still with my girlfriend after three years, but we don’t really tell each other lines like that.
Was this survey interesting?
I’m sure I haven’t taken it yet so yes, it was pretty interesting for me.
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12 Bollywood Actors And Their Secret Tattoos Here are 12 celebs who decided to get inked and we can’t help but fall in love with their tattoos. Priyanka Chopra PC’s tattoo expresses her love for her father and we think it’s super adorable. ‘Daddy’s lil girl’ is what her tattoo says and we think it’s the best thing that a daughter could for her father. Alia Bhatt Alia’s tattoo reads ‘Pataka’ in Hindi and we think it goes with her personality. ‘Pataka’ translates to firecrackers and we think she definitely has the spark in her! Deepika Padukone Deepika initially had Ranbir Kapoor’s initials inked on the back of her neck while they were dating but she now has a modified version of it where the ‘K’ has been turned into a flower while the ‘R’ remains. Did you think of Ranveer too? Akshay Kumar Akshay is B-town’s ideal family man and the Khiladi got his son’s name tattooed on his back when Aarav was born in 2001. Don’t we all love this adorable dad? Ajay Devgn Ajay is a devotee of Lord Shiva and the tattoo on his chest is a symbol of his faith and devotion towards ‘Shiv’. That’s certainly a majestic tattoo! Kangana Ranaut The ‘Queen’ of Bollywood has tattoos that show the kind of poise and grace she happens to have in reel life and real life. A glorious winged sword and a cherubic angel are inked on Kangana’s body and we think they are totally legit! Sushmita Sen Sushmita’s tattoo is a Latin saying and she seems to have definitely lived up to it. Her tattoo reads ‘Aut Viam inveniam aut faciam’ which translates to ‘I shall either find a way or make my own’. Saif Ali Khan Saif’s tattoo needs no explanation. This man loves his woman and his tattoo shows how he is clearly not going to hesitate in showing that! Sonakshi Sinha The bubbly actress has a tiny little star on her collarbone and she believes that this symbolizes the guiding star that is going to stay with her forever. She got herself inked on her 27th birthday. Imran Khan The ‘Jaane Tu, Jaane Na’ star has a lot of tattoos but the story behind his recent one is extremely adorable. His latest tattoo on his chest is basically the footprint of his baby girl because Imran’s mother had kept his on a paper for a very long time when he was born. #bollywoodactor #secrettattoo #mptop10 ➜For More Videos : http://goo.gl/8NWCQ0 ➜Follow us on facebook- https://goo.gl/B2ZhyN ➥Hello, This is 𝕸𝖔𝖚𝖒𝖎𝖙𝖆 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖐𝖗𝖆𝖇𝖔𝖗𝖙𝖞 Here. Photos all are taken from Google Image search and using advanced image search option.All images were fairly used during the making of this video for entertainment purposes.
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Is Online Dating Safe? 14 Tips For Safely Finding Love Online
If you’re new to dating again after a divorce or breakup, your friends are probably pushing you to go online to find a man. But you wonder: is online dating safe? Is it something you should explore…or stay away from?
Maybe you’ve heard horror hookup stories about Tinder…
Or about a friend of a friend who met nothing but losers on dating apps…
Or simply are intimidated by the prospect of talking to a man online and then meeting him face to face.
Whatever your hangups about dating apps and sites, I want to help you navigate the world of online dating without fear for your safety.
The Lowdown on Online Dating and Dating Apps
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In general, dating apps and sites are perfectly safe, though of course there are exceptions (PLEASE don’t Google them. They will freak you out). They are just another channel to connect single people, just like a bar or a singles group.
The key is to be conscious of what you’re doing, both when you text a new guy and when you meet him in person. After all, you don’t know this man! Put your safety first!
At the start, you may feel like a fish out of water, but after talking to or even dating a few men you meet on dating apps, you’ll learn to look for certain signs that tell you that the dude is a good one.
Why You Should Consider Online Dating
A lot of women in their 40s or older find it harder to meet a man at this point in their lives. In college, men were everywhere. Now you may only interact with men at work (and you’re not going there) or in line waiting for your coffee. You feel like all the good ones are already taken.
If meeting a man the natural way is a challenge, you absolutely should try online dating…though realize that it’s just ONE tool in your toolkit for finding love. Yes, try online dating, but also go to singles events…ask your friends to set you up…do it all!
After all…what have you got to lose?
Is Online Dating Safe? It Is if You Follow These Safety Tips
Online dating can be really wonderful…if you keep safety tips in mind.
Your safety should be a priority. I don’t care how hot a man’s photos are online. He may not even be that guy (that’s essentially what catfishing is: someone posting photos that aren’t him and then lying about who he is). You have to go into online dating with a bit of skepticism, if only to ensure that you don’t end up with a bad — or even dangerous — guy.
I’m not trying to scare you, but I don’t want you to be naive in thinking that every man you meet through dating apps will be honest. So to answer the question, is online dating safe: it absolutely is…when you take certain precautions.
1. Stick to Quality Sites
Not all dating sites are created equal. Some put more focus on keeping you safe. Bumble, Tinder, Match, eHarmony, and a handful of others are reputable sites, and many have measures to prevent catfishing, though they’re not always foolproof. I’ve heard from many women I’ve coached that these sites tend to have higher-quality men, probably because they charge for their services.
Free sites like Badoo and Zoosk have a much higher instance of fake profiles. Don’t waste your time.
2. Learn the Signs of a Catfisher
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It’s crazy: more than half of online daters have seen dating profiles where they think the person lied about one thing or another. Sometimes these are small lies, like their age or height, but sometimes they are full-blown catfishing. They may steal someone else’s photo or completely make up a persona. Why? There are different theories. Sometimes catfishers are bored or lonely. Sometimes they’re too insecure to date as themselves and so they pretend to be someone else. Look for these signs that you might be the victim of catfishing.
He’s quick to be affectionate, though may not ask many questions about you. He texts several times a day and always asks how you are. He makes you feel good because, hey, this guy really likes you! And yet…he really hasn’t bothered to find anything out about your personality or history. I’m not saying a good man can’t fall for you quickly, but just go slowly until you meet him and get to know him.
He’s got his whole backstory down pat, and there’s usually some trauma there. I know a woman who talked to a man who, in the first five texts, told her that both his parents had died when he was little. I mean, it might be true, but is that really something you’d come out with so early in the game? In this case, he was looking for her sympathy to hook her.
He wants to get off the dating app and get your number. Probably because if you realize he’s catfishing you, you’ll report his profile!
He can’t talk on the phone. Naturally, if you’re dating someone, you want to talk to them. But this man always has an excuse. He can’t talk at work. His battery is dying. He’s at his mom’s house. After a few excuses, realize there’s something more going on.
He drags his feet to meet you. He’s all about texting you 24/7, but even after a few weeks, he’s not asking you out. Then you ask him out…and it’s one excuse after another. A lot of times, catfishers will claim to be deployed overseas, which makes it convenient, since they can’t meet for coffee.
He doesn’t have photos of his face on his profile. I advise women to never, ever start chatting with a man who won’t show his photos on his dating profile. He’s hiding something. Either he’s not who he says he is, or he’s married and doesn’t want to be caught.
3. Learn How to Reverse Image Search
Here’s a tricky little tool to see if you can find more photos of this guy to make sure he is who he says he is. Right click his photo on a dating site or screenshot it. On Google.com, click the camera icon in the search bar and upload the photo from his profile. If he’s used that photo anywhere else, it will appear in search results. You might find his Facebook page or other dating profile.
You’re looking to make sure that his image is on profiles with the name he’s given you! I know a woman who did this from a dating app for a man who said he was named Stefano, Italian, living in California. The search revealed that he was not Italian, his name was Pete, and he lived in Ohio! The guy didn’t even know that someone had stolen his photo to use on dating sites as a catfish. This trick can reveal a lot!
4. Do a Little Investigating
Is online dating safe? It is if you’re a super sleuth!
Is online dating safe? The more you know, the safer it is. I’m not saying you have to go all stalker on the guy, but Google his name and see what comes up. If there’s a warrant out for his arrest, block him!
Just be careful: it’s easy to get pulled down the rabbit hole here. You Google him and he turns out to be legit…so you start clicking on links and social profiles. In 10 minutes, you know far more about this guy than he’s actually told you. This can be a problem if you mention his recent sailboat race win…and he asks how in the heck you knew about it. Awkward….
5. Take Your Time Before Agreeing to a First Date
There’s not a lot to be gained by agreeing to go out with a man you’re chatting with through a dating app within a day or two of virtually meeting, and the more time you take before you meet, the more you can get to know him and be assured that he won’t chop you in a thousand pieces on that date. I kid!…mostly.
If he’s genuinely interested in you (and not just looking for a hookup), he’ll be patient and agree to wait to meet. If he asks within the first few minutes of texting whether you want to meet…and it’s 9 pm…he’s probably just looking for one thing.
You need to be comfortable with this man before meeting him. Talking just builds the relationship, so talk for several days or even weeks before you meet him.
6. Talk on the Phone Before a Date
I can’t really explain why talking on the phone can give you reassurance that he’s not a creep…but it’s true. In this era of texting, it takes a little commitment to agree to actually talk on the phone, so if he agrees (or even suggests it), it’s a good sign that he’s really interested in you.
Also, it’s hard to get to know someone via text. Even if you voice-to-text it, you have a delay between your question and his response. A phone conversation allows you to dive deeper into those getting-to-know-you questions and lets you see what kind of chemistry you have in conversation.
And I guess if he sounds like a complete weirdo…you can then block him and not worry about it.
Another of my female coaching clients moved from the dating app to a phone call, and the man sounded like he’d drunk 10 cups of coffee (or was on speed). Within five minutes, he told her he’d been diagnosed with mania…then asked her to meet up that night. She found an excuse to get off the phone…and blocked him.
7. When You Do Meet, Make it a Public Place
A coffee date is the perfect way to meet a guy for the first time.
“Come over to my house, baby,” he purrs, “I’ll cook you dinner.”
As sexy as a man who cooks is…you don’t need to accept this invitation for the first time you meet someone. The man should understand your need to feel safe. Choose a restaurant or bar. Make it a place you’re familiar with. Park under a street light if it’s night time.
DON’T meet at his house or anywhere remote. And if he tries to bully you into doing it, realize that this guy does not have good intentions!
8. Tell Your Friend Where You’re Going
Is online dating safe? The jury’s still out, but if you take precautions like telling a friend where you’re meeting this guy, you pretty much eliminate most of the risk.
Let one or more friends know where you’ll be, and at what time. You may even tell them to text you to check in…or ask them to send a fake emergency text if things aren’t going well!
I know some women who even download an app that will keep up with the location of their friend’s phone in case something goes wrong. You can’t be too cautious!
9. Read His Profile Carefully
Not all men fill out their online dating profiles thoroughly, but many do. Keep an eye out for any red flags you might otherwise miss if you focus on his handsome photos:
“Just want a hookup”
“In a polyamorous relationship”
“H/U only”
“The wife and I are looking for a third!”
You probably want to move on from these profiles (though, you might not. No judgment!). It pays to read!
10. Plan for the Date to be Short
“Look at the time! I’ve got to go!”
Meeting for coffee is a great first date, and should only last an hour or two. If you’re uncomfortable or don’t like the guy, you can make an excuse to leave. If you do have a good time, extend the date to dinner!
You could even tell him before the date that you have an appointment a couple of hours after the date. If you feel bad about lying, make plans with a friend to do a post-date dish so you actually do have plans. And even if the date goes well, being slightly unavailable will make him want you more!
11. Ask the Right Questions
It may seem silly, but even asking “have you ever been married” can lead to some interesting answers. Some men (certainly not all) will be completely open. They may even admit that they’re married…in which case you have the chance to get out before you get involved in a bad situation.
Scary but true: at least 30% of Tinder users are married! Some will openly admit it in their profiles (and some women are even into being the mistress). Others may admit it once they meet you, hoping you’ll understand. Still others will try to keep it under wraps permanently, so put on your Super Sleuth hat and do some investigating if you’re concerned that he might be keeping something from you.
And asking what he’s looking for before you meet can help you find out if he’s just looking for a hookup so you don’t waste your time.
12. Use Photos You Don’t Use Anywhere Else
Just like you can do that reverse image search on him, so can he do it on your photos. If your dating profile pics are the same ones you use on social media, he can easily find out a lot of information about you. Not cool.
Use a photo that you haven’t used anywhere online to keep your data safe.
13. Don’t Let Him Pick You Up on the First Date
You have no idea if you’re going to want to go on a second date, so why would you let this guy know where you live before you’ve met him? Even if he’s trying to be chivalrous, tell him that you’ll meet him at the venue. That way you aren’t relying on him for a ride home if you’re ready to go home…and you know you’ll get home safely.
14. Trust Your Gut
If he gives you the creeps by telling you he loves you after texting you for two days…block him.
If you meet him and he can’t stop staring at your breasts…run away.
If he asks for money…report him on the dating app.
(That’s a thing, by the way. All dating apps have an option to report and/or block a guy. You can specify that he’s not who he says he is, that he’s being vulgar or inappropriate, etc. Use that feature so that other women don’t end up being annoyed by the same man!)
Your instinct will tell you if you’re talking to a man who is not worthy of you. Listen to it. Even if your first online dating experience isn’t what you hoped for — whether you didn’t click or he turned out to be an utter d-bag — realize that the more effort you put into dating online, the better the results you’ll get. And I promise: there are some really great guys on dating apps! You’ll find one!
After all, 8% of people who are married or in serious relationships met online, and that number is growing every day!
Conclusion:
You can have a lot of fun on dating apps if you let yourself!
If you’re serious about meeting Mr. Right, you greatly increase your odds of meeting him sooner by doing everything you can to meet more single men. Commit to it like a part-time job. Sign up for meetups (if nothing else, you’ll meet other people who understand what it’s like to be out there dating). Go to bars and restaurants with friends. Go to parties where you don’t know everyone. See who your friends know.
And yes, try online dating.
It may be scary at first. After all, the last time you were single, dating apps didn’t exist. Your only option was meeting someone in person. But look at dating apps as a benefit: they can connect you to really cool people you wouldn’t otherwise run into.
Talk to me. Have you tried dating apps? Do you have any success stories…or laughable moments? Share them in the comments below!
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Is Online Dating Safe? 14 Tips For Safely Finding Love Online
If you’re new to dating again after a divorce or breakup, your friends are probably pushing you to go online to find a man. But you wonder: is online dating safe? Is it something you should explore…or stay away from?
Maybe you’ve heard horror hookup stories about Tinder…
Or about a friend of a friend who met nothing but losers on dating apps…
Or simply are intimidated by the prospect of talking to a man online and then meeting him face to face.
Whatever your hangups about dating apps and sites, I want to help you navigate the world of online dating without fear for your safety.
The Lowdown on Online Dating and Dating Apps
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In general, dating apps and sites are perfectly safe, though of course there are exceptions (PLEASE don’t Google them. They will freak you out). They are just another channel to connect single people, just like a bar or a singles group.
The key is to be conscious of what you’re doing, both when you text a new guy and when you meet him in person. After all, you don’t know this man! Put your safety first!
At the start, you may feel like a fish out of water, but after talking to or even dating a few men you meet on dating apps, you’ll learn to look for certain signs that tell you that the dude is a good one.
Why You Should Consider Online Dating
A lot of women in their 40s or older find it harder to meet a man at this point in their lives. In college, men were everywhere. Now you may only interact with men at work (and you’re not going there) or in line waiting for your coffee. You feel like all the good ones are already taken.
If meeting a man the natural way is a challenge, you absolutely should try online dating…though realize that it’s just ONE tool in your toolkit for finding love. Yes, try online dating, but also go to singles events…ask your friends to set you up…do it all!
After all…what have you got to lose?
Is Online Dating Safe? It Is if You Follow These Safety Tips
Online dating can be really wonderful…if you keep safety tips in mind.
Your safety should be a priority. I don’t care how hot a man’s photos are online. He may not even be that guy (that’s essentially what catfishing is: someone posting photos that aren’t him and then lying about who he is). You have to go into online dating with a bit of skepticism, if only to ensure that you don’t end up with a bad — or even dangerous — guy.
I’m not trying to scare you, but I don’t want you to be naive in thinking that every man you meet through dating apps will be honest. So to answer the question, is online dating safe: it absolutely is…when you take certain precautions.
1. Stick to Quality Sites
Not all dating sites are created equal. Some put more focus on keeping you safe. Bumble, Tinder, Match, eHarmony, and a handful of others are reputable sites, and many have measures to prevent catfishing, though they’re not always foolproof. I’ve heard from many women I’ve coached that these sites tend to have higher-quality men, probably because they charge for their services.
Free sites like Badoo and Zoosk have a much higher instance of fake profiles. Don’t waste your time.
2. Learn the Signs of a Catfisher
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It’s crazy: more than half of online daters have seen dating profiles where they think the person lied about one thing or another. Sometimes these are small lies, like their age or height, but sometimes they are full-blown catfishing. They may steal someone else’s photo or completely make up a persona. Why? There are different theories. Sometimes catfishers are bored or lonely. Sometimes they’re too insecure to date as themselves and so they pretend to be someone else. Look for these signs that you might be the victim of catfishing.
He’s quick to be affectionate, though may not ask many questions about you. He texts several times a day and always asks how you are. He makes you feel good because, hey, this guy really likes you! And yet…he really hasn’t bothered to find anything out about your personality or history. I’m not saying a good man can’t fall for you quickly, but just go slowly until you meet him and get to know him.
He’s got his whole backstory down pat, and there’s usually some trauma there. I know a woman who talked to a man who, in the first five texts, told her that both his parents had died when he was little. I mean, it might be true, but is that really something you’d come out with so early in the game? In this case, he was looking for her sympathy to hook her.
He wants to get off the dating app and get your number. Probably because if you realize he’s catfishing you, you’ll report his profile!
He can’t talk on the phone. Naturally, if you’re dating someone, you want to talk to them. But this man always has an excuse. He can’t talk at work. His battery is dying. He’s at his mom’s house. After a few excuses, realize there’s something more going on.
He drags his feet to meet you. He’s all about texting you 24/7, but even after a few weeks, he’s not asking you out. Then you ask him out…and it’s one excuse after another. A lot of times, catfishers will claim to be deployed overseas, which makes it convenient, since they can’t meet for coffee.
He doesn’t have photos of his face on his profile. I advise women to never, ever start chatting with a man who won’t show his photos on his dating profile. He’s hiding something. Either he’s not who he says he is, or he’s married and doesn’t want to be caught.
3. Learn How to Reverse Image Search
Here’s a tricky little tool to see if you can find more photos of this guy to make sure he is who he says he is. Right click his photo on a dating site or screenshot it. On Google.com, click the camera icon in the search bar and upload the photo from his profile. If he’s used that photo anywhere else, it will appear in search results. You might find his Facebook page or other dating profile.
You’re looking to make sure that his image is on profiles with the name he’s given you! I know a woman who did this from a dating app for a man who said he was named Stefano, Italian, living in California. The search revealed that he was not Italian, his name was Pete, and he lived in Ohio! The guy didn’t even know that someone had stolen his photo to use on dating sites as a catfish. This trick can reveal a lot!
4. Do a Little Investigating
Is online dating safe? It is if you’re a super sleuth!
Is online dating safe? The more you know, the safer it is. I’m not saying you have to go all stalker on the guy, but Google his name and see what comes up. If there’s a warrant out for his arrest, block him!
Just be careful: it’s easy to get pulled down the rabbit hole here. You Google him and he turns out to be legit…so you start clicking on links and social profiles. In 10 minutes, you know far more about this guy than he’s actually told you. This can be a problem if you mention his recent sailboat race win…and he asks how in the heck you knew about it. Awkward….
5. Take Your Time Before Agreeing to a First Date
There’s not a lot to be gained by agreeing to go out with a man you’re chatting with through a dating app within a day or two of virtually meeting, and the more time you take before you meet, the more you can get to know him and be assured that he won’t chop you in a thousand pieces on that date. I kid!…mostly.
If he’s genuinely interested in you (and not just looking for a hookup), he’ll be patient and agree to wait to meet. If he asks within the first few minutes of texting whether you want to meet…and it’s 9 pm…he’s probably just looking for one thing.
You need to be comfortable with this man before meeting him. Talking just builds the relationship, so talk for several days or even weeks before you meet him.
6. Talk on the Phone Before a Date
I can’t really explain why talking on the phone can give you reassurance that he’s not a creep…but it’s true. In this era of texting, it takes a little commitment to agree to actually talk on the phone, so if he agrees (or even suggests it), it’s a good sign that he’s really interested in you.
Also, it’s hard to get to know someone via text. Even if you voice-to-text it, you have a delay between your question and his response. A phone conversation allows you to dive deeper into those getting-to-know-you questions and lets you see what kind of chemistry you have in conversation.
And I guess if he sounds like a complete weirdo…you can then block him and not worry about it.
Another of my female coaching clients moved from the dating app to a phone call, and the man sounded like he’d drunk 10 cups of coffee (or was on speed). Within five minutes, he told her he’d been diagnosed with mania…then asked her to meet up that night. She found an excuse to get off the phone…and blocked him.
7. When You Do Meet, Make it a Public Place
A coffee date is the perfect way to meet a guy for the first time.
“Come over to my house, baby,” he purrs, “I’ll cook you dinner.”
As sexy as a man who cooks is…you don’t need to accept this invitation for the first time you meet someone. The man should understand your need to feel safe. Choose a restaurant or bar. Make it a place you’re familiar with. Park under a street light if it’s night time.
DON’T meet at his house or anywhere remote. And if he tries to bully you into doing it, realize that this guy does not have good intentions!
8. Tell Your Friend Where You’re Going
Is online dating safe? The jury’s still out, but if you take precautions like telling a friend where you’re meeting this guy, you pretty much eliminate most of the risk.
Let one or more friends know where you’ll be, and at what time. You may even tell them to text you to check in…or ask them to send a fake emergency text if things aren’t going well!
I know some women who even download an app that will keep up with the location of their friend’s phone in case something goes wrong. You can’t be too cautious!
9. Read His Profile Carefully
Not all men fill out their online dating profiles thoroughly, but many do. Keep an eye out for any red flags you might otherwise miss if you focus on his handsome photos:
“Just want a hookup”
“In a polyamorous relationship”
“H/U only”
“The wife and I are looking for a third!”
You probably want to move on from these profiles (though, you might not. No judgment!). It pays to read!
10. Plan for the Date to be Short
“Look at the time! I’ve got to go!”
Meeting for coffee is a great first date, and should only last an hour or two. If you’re uncomfortable or don’t like the guy, you can make an excuse to leave. If you do have a good time, extend the date to dinner!
You could even tell him before the date that you have an appointment a couple of hours after the date. If you feel bad about lying, make plans with a friend to do a post-date dish so you actually do have plans. And even if the date goes well, being slightly unavailable will make him want you more!
11. Ask the Right Questions
It may seem silly, but even asking “have you ever been married” can lead to some interesting answers. Some men (certainly not all) will be completely open. They may even admit that they’re married…in which case you have the chance to get out before you get involved in a bad situation.
Scary but true: at least 30% of Tinder users are married! Some will openly admit it in their profiles (and some women are even into being the mistress). Others may admit it once they meet you, hoping you’ll understand. Still others will try to keep it under wraps permanently, so put on your Super Sleuth hat and do some investigating if you’re concerned that he might be keeping something from you.
And asking what he’s looking for before you meet can help you find out if he’s just looking for a hookup so you don’t waste your time.
12. Use Photos You Don’t Use Anywhere Else
Just like you can do that reverse image search on him, so can he do it on your photos. If your dating profile pics are the same ones you use on social media, he can easily find out a lot of information about you. Not cool.
Use a photo that you haven’t used anywhere online to keep your data safe.
13. Don’t Let Him Pick You Up on the First Date
You have no idea if you’re going to want to go on a second date, so why would you let this guy know where you live before you’ve met him? Even if he’s trying to be chivalrous, tell him that you’ll meet him at the venue. That way you aren’t relying on him for a ride home if you’re ready to go home…and you know you’ll get home safely.
14. Trust Your Gut
If he gives you the creeps by telling you he loves you after texting you for two days…block him.
If you meet him and he can’t stop staring at your breasts…run away.
If he asks for money…report him on the dating app.
(That’s a thing, by the way. All dating apps have an option to report and/or block a guy. You can specify that he’s not who he says he is, that he’s being vulgar or inappropriate, etc. Use that feature so that other women don’t end up being annoyed by the same man!)
Your instinct will tell you if you’re talking to a man who is not worthy of you. Listen to it. Even if your first online dating experience isn’t what you hoped for — whether you didn’t click or he turned out to be an utter d-bag — realize that the more effort you put into dating online, the better the results you’ll get. And I promise: there are some really great guys on dating apps! You’ll find one!
After all, 8% of people who are married or in serious relationships met online, and that number is growing every day!
Conclusion:
You can have a lot of fun on dating apps if you let yourself!
If you’re serious about meeting Mr. Right, you greatly increase your odds of meeting him sooner by doing everything you can to meet more single men. Commit to it like a part-time job. Sign up for meetups (if nothing else, you’ll meet other people who understand what it’s like to be out there dating). Go to bars and restaurants with friends. Go to parties where you don’t know everyone. See who your friends know.
And yes, try online dating.
It may be scary at first. After all, the last time you were single, dating apps didn’t exist. Your only option was meeting someone in person. But look at dating apps as a benefit: they can connect you to really cool people you wouldn’t otherwise run into.
Talk to me. Have you tried dating apps? Do you have any success stories…or laughable moments? Share them in the comments below!
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