#'i made some jewellery' thats ugly and i think you shouldnt wear chains itll catch on something

[calamitys-child]

Thank u all for being so niceys abt my little activities cs not to sound lit a whiny bairn but every time I tell my dad anything I've been up to he just immediately tells me the negatives of it and I may be an adult but it still sucks ass every time

#'i went to try some sports!' eugh i dont get that sport its dangerous and its not a real sport anyway #'i made some jewellery' thats ugly and i think you shouldnt wear chains itll catch on something #like idk maybe hes trying to be protective but could he at least say SOMETHING nice #like #'did you have fun? thats an interesting activity! make sure and wear your safety gear it sounds scary to me' #'you made that? nice! it might be worth adding a safety breaker link just in case it gets snagged but the wristband is really cool' #like the way i was always taught in school to give feedback was to put nice things at the outside and misgivings in the middle #honestly i think the core of the problem is that my dad and i are just fundamentally incompatible flavours of neurodivergent tbh