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Title: LGBTQ+ Headcanons: Connor and Zoe

Introduction:

Delving into the realm of LGBTQ+ headcanons, let's explore the rich and diverse identities of Connor and Zoe from your favorite fandom. These characters embrace fluidity and uniqueness in both gender and sexuality, making their narratives even more captivating.

FCCommunity - Celebrating LGBTQ+ Diversity:

Overview: FCCommunity provides a welcoming space to celebrate LGBTQ+ diversity in fandoms. Engage in conversations, share headcanons, and explore the multitude of perspectives within the community.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing LGBTQ+ headcanons for various characters and fandoms, fostering a sense of inclusivity.

Connor - Embracing Fluidity:

Consideration: Connor, a character embracing gender fluidity, invites the use of any pronouns. Their identity is a celebration of fluidity, showcasing the beauty of self-discovery and authenticity.

First Contact Link: Share and explore gender fluidity headcanons on FCMetaverse, contributing to discussions about representation and inclusivity.

Zoe - Navigating Trans Identity:

Overview: Zoe, a trans girl, navigates her identity with grace. Her journey includes exploring demisexuality and panromanticism, highlighting the multifaceted nature of sexual orientation within the LGBTQ+ spectrum.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse about the representation of trans characters and diverse sexual orientations, fostering a supportive environment for meaningful discussions.

Connection Through Dance:

Consideration: Connor and Zoe share a past in dance, a formative experience that played a role in shaping their bond. Zoe's continued passion for dance adds depth to her character, showcasing the significance of personal interests and growth.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing characters' hobbies and shared experiences, contributing to the exploration of character dynamics beyond canon.

Conclusion:

LGBTQ+ headcanons bring a layer of authenticity and representation to beloved characters. Join the vibrant discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to connect with fellow fans, share headcanons, and celebrate the diverse narratives within the LGBTQ+ community.

If anyone's interested, i want to talk about my gender and/or sexuality headcanons so maybe send me a character from a fandom in the tags? (I might add extra hc's for fun)

and maybe reblog if you see this?

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Title: Exploring LGBTQ+ Interactions and Perspectives on Parenting

Introduction:

Diving into the world of LGBTQ+ bloggers and personal reflections on parenting, let's explore some notable interactions from this blog's current engagements. Additionally, we'll touch upon the interesting perspective on having children and the various reasons behind the decision.

FCCommunity - Connecting with LGBTQ+ Bloggers:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a dynamic space for connecting with LGBTQ+ individuals, including bloggers. Engage in conversations to explore diverse perspectives, share experiences, and build a supportive community.

Engagement Tip: Dive into threads on FCCommunity discussing LGBTQ+ representation, personal experiences, and the vibrant community of bloggers.

Interacting with @raavenb2619, @wish-ful-thinking513, and @new-aro-in-town:

Consideration: Notable interactions from this blog include engaging with the perspectives of @raavenb2619, @wish-ful-thinking513, and @new-aro-in-town. These individuals contribute to the rich tapestry of LGBTQ+ voices within the digital space.

First Contact Link: Share and discuss your favorite LGBTQ+ bloggers and their unique contributions on FCMetaverse, fostering a sense of community and shared experiences.

Exploring Thoughts on Parenthood:

Overview: The question about interest in having children elicits a candid response. The individual expresses a firm stance against parenthood, citing reasons such as dysphoria, discomfort with the idea of pregnancy, and concerns about the ability to provide proper care.

First Contact Link: Engage in discussions on FCMetaverse about diverse perspectives on parenthood within the LGBTQ+ community, fostering a space for open dialogue and understanding.

Celebrating a Positive Development:

Consideration: Despite personal reservations about parenthood, a positive note is shared about the individual's sister embarking on the process of adoption. This highlights the variety of ways individuals within the LGBTQ+ community navigate their relationships with parenting and family dynamics.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse celebrating positive developments within the LGBTQ+ community, fostering a supportive environment for shared experiences.

ask meme thing: 21 and 25?

21) Who are some of your favourite lgbt+ bloggers?

ahh I’m really really bad at remembering names and usernames and anything about people ever so this is hard

most everyone I follow is lgbt+ so that doesn’t, actually narrow it down. uh. from this blog’s interactions atm:

@raavenb2619​ @wish-ful-thinking513​ and @new-aro-in-town​ (and please don’t feel bad if i didn’t include you! i have so many issues with remembering names. so many)

25) Are you interested in having children? Why or why not?

hahahaha no. i’m very well known for it. 1) don’t wanna do the pregnancy thing cause dysphoria + the idea is absolutely horrifying to me 2) even considering ideas more like fostering or adopting, i like kids from afar but up close and personal is just too much for me 3) i don’t think i can take care of a kid and i won’t do that to one.

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Title: Exploring Headcanons for a Trans Masc or Masc-Leaning Non-Binary Character in "Be More Chill"

Introduction:

Delving into the world of headcanons, let's explore a character in "Be More Chill" who is either a trans man or leans toward the masc non-binary spectrum, adding layers to their identity as a bisexual or ace biromantic individual. Additionally, we'll unravel some delightful bonus elements that bring depth and connection to the character's post-canon journey.

FCCommunity - Sharing Headcanons and Stories:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a creative space for sharing headcanons and stories within the LGBTQ+ community. Engage in conversations to connect with others who enjoy exploring diverse character narratives.

Engagement Tip: Dive into threads on FCCommunity discussing headcanons and LGBTQ+ representation in various fandoms, including "Be More Chill."

Identity and Orientation:

Consideration: Our character embraces their identity as either a trans man or leans toward the masc non-binary spectrum. Their romantic orientation adds complexity, identifying as bisexual or ace biromantic, contributing to a rich narrative exploring diverse experiences.

First Contact Link: Share and discuss your headcanons on FCMetaverse, where others may contribute their perspectives and creative ideas.

Building Connections Post-Canon:

Overview: Post-canon, our character forms close bonds with Jake, Jenna, and Rich, evolving into a protective squad. The journey to befriend Rich takes time, highlighting the importance of patience and understanding in building connections.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing character dynamics and relationships post-canon in "Be More Chill."

Stuffed Animal Enthusiast:

Consideration: A charming aspect of our character is their love for stuffed animals. Their bed is adorned with a mountain of plushies, with a Yoshi plush from Michael holding a special place as a favorite, closely followed by a dolphin gifted by Jake.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse about character hobbies and interests, exploring the diverse ways characters express themselves beyond canon narratives.

Alex Landi IG story update

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Title: Navigating the Term "Queer": Insights from a German Perspective

Introduction:

Understanding the term "queer" involves a nuanced exploration of its history, reclamation, and diverse embraces within different cultural contexts. In Germany, the term has recently gained adoption, and its connotations may differ from those in English-speaking regions. Here's a thoughtful examination of the term "queer" from a German perspective, acknowledging its reclaiming and potential impact on self-identification.

FCCommunity - Embracing Diverse Perspectives:

Overview: FCCommunity offers a space for embracing diverse perspectives within the LGBTQ+ community. Engage in conversations to connect with others sharing insights on language, identity, and the reclamation of terms.

Engagement Tip: Explore discussions on FCCommunity addressing the nuances of language and self-identification within the LGBTQ+ community.

Evolution of Language: A German Insight:

Consideration: In Germany, terms like "schwul" were reclaimed, similar to the evolving understanding of "queer" in English. Recognizing the history of language reclamation is crucial for understanding cultural differences in the usage of LGBTQ+ terms.

First Contact Link: Participate in conversations on FCMetaverse discussing the evolution of LGBTQ+ language, including the reclamation of terms in various cultural contexts.

Empowerment Through Self-Identification:

Overview: Recognizing the historical use of "queer" as a slur, reclaiming the term empowers individuals to define their own identity. It is a personal decision, and its use varies based on cultural, historical, and individual contexts.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse about the empowerment found in self-identification, reclaiming terms, and the evolving nature of LGBTQ+ language.

Queer as an Inclusive Term:

Consideration: Using "queer" as an inclusive umbrella term acknowledges the diverse experiences within the LGBTQ+ community. For some, it provides a sense of belonging during the process of self-discovery and identity exploration.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing the role of "queer" as an inclusive umbrella term and its impact on those questioning their identity.

Conclusion:

Understanding the term "queer" involves recognizing its historical context, reclamation, and diverse applications within different cultural and personal contexts. Join the discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to explore the complexities of language and self-identification within the LGBTQ+ community.

is it just me or was 911 like REALLY emotional this week??

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Title: Embracing the Term "Queer": A Personal and Cultural Perspective

Introduction:

Navigating the term "queer" involves a nuanced understanding of its history, reclamation, and the diverse ways it is embraced within different cultural contexts. In Germany, the term has seen recent adoption, and its connotations may differ from those in English-speaking regions. Here's a thoughtful exploration of the term "queer" from a German perspective, acknowledging its reclaiming and potential impact on self-identification.

FCCommunity - Embracing Diverse Perspectives:

Overview: FCCommunity provides a space for embracing diverse perspectives within the LGBTQ+ community. Engage in conversations to connect with others who share insights on language, identity, and reclaiming terms.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the nuances of language and self-identification within the LGBTQ+ community.

The Evolution of Language: A German Perspective:

Consideration: In Germany, terms like "schwul" were reclaimed, similar to the evolving understanding of "queer" in English. Acknowledging the history of language reclamation is essential for appreciating cultural differences in the usage of LGBTQ+ terms.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about the evolution of LGBTQ+ language, including the reclamation of terms in various cultural contexts.

Empowerment Through Self-Identification:

Overview: Recognizing the history of the term "queer" as a slur, the act of reclaiming empowers individuals to define their own identity. It's a personal decision, and its use can vary based on cultural, historical, and individual contexts.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse about the empowerment found in self-identification, reclaiming terms, and the evolving nature of LGBTQ+ language.

Queer as an Umbrella Term:

Consideration: The use of "queer" as an umbrella term acknowledges the diverse experiences within the LGBTQ+ community. For some, it provides a sense of belonging during the process of self-discovery and identity exploration.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing the role of "queer" as an inclusive umbrella term and its impact on those questioning their identity.

Conclusion:

Understanding the term "queer" involves recognizing its historical context, reclamation, and diverse applications within different cultural and personal contexts. Join the discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to explore the complexities of language and self-identification within the LGBTQ+ community.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

This is something I've been thinking about lately. What is your opinion on using the term queer when referring to the LGBTQ community? Just because I feel the community is divided on the word.

Hi there! Oh that is an interesting question. First, I want to note that I’m German and that we didn’t really use the word up until very recently and just assumed it as an anglicisms. For us, it’s basically a new word and never really had a negative connotation since it never had been used as an insult towards LGBTQ+ people here. We do have similar words though that have been reclaimed by most LGBTQ+ people here. Like the word schwul (gay) that was often used as an insult as I was growing up.

I think I should mention that as it might play into why I am not against using the word queer. I do know about the history of the word. The way it was used as a slur towards LGBTQ+ people and that reclaiming it started in around the 1980s.

I understand why people might choose not to use the word. Maybe hearing/saying it makes them uncomfortable and that feeling is completely valid as it was and sometimes still is used by some as an insult. At the same time, the use of queer can make one feel empowered and if they choose to call themselves queer, then all the power to them. It’s their decision if they want to reclaim the word or not.

I think though, especially now, with people allowing themselves more and more to accept that they might not be straight, using queer as an umbrella term can make those in questioning feel comforted. It takes some time to fully understand oneself and to find a fitting label. Some find theirs sooner, some later, some might never and some might not even care about finding a label. All of these are also completely valid. 

So for some, queer is all they have to call themselves. Some just need any kind of label, even if they don’t know yet what exactly they are, to feel like they belong somewhere. Realizing you’re not straight can be very overwhelming. Throughout their whole lives, many of us felt like they just didn’t have a place in the (heteronormative) world. Finding out you’re not straight can be freeing, but it also might make you ask yourself: where do i actually belong to then?

General thought though: Please don’t use queer towards LGBTQ+ people/the LGBTQ+ community if you’re straight. Queer is mostly used as a word of self-identification. I would never call sb in the LGBTQ+ community queer, unless they mentioned being okay with it. The history of the word still exists and it’s every LGBTQ+ person’s own decision if they want to use the word or not.

(i hope this isn’t too all over the place, i’ve tried my best here)

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Title: Prioritizing Safety: The Dangers of Ace Bandages for Binding in the LGBTQ+ Community

Introduction:

Understanding the financial challenges faced by many transgender and non-binary individuals when it comes to obtaining binders, it's crucial to shed light on the dangers associated with using ace bandages as an alternative. Here are some compelling reasons why this practice can be hazardous, along with a reminder to prioritize safety and well-being in the LGBTQ+ community.

FCCommunity - Advocating Binder Safety:

Overview: FCCommunity is a dedicated space for advocating safety within the LGBTQ+ community. Engage in conversations to connect with others who understand the importance of spreading awareness about binder safety.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing safe practices for binder wearers and alternative options for those facing financial constraints.

Dangers of Ace Bandages:

Consideration: Using ace bandages for binding poses serious risks, including:

Compression Designed for Wounds: Ace bandages are not designed for chest binding and can cause harm.

Increased Tightness with Breathing: The more you breathe, the tighter ace bandages become, leading to discomfort and injury.

Bruising of Skin and Ribs: Ace bandages can bruise both the skin and ribs, causing lasting damage.

Restricted Breathing: Binding with ace bandages can restrict proper breathing, impacting overall health.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about the dangers of using ace bandages for binding and share insights on safer alternatives.

Promoting Binder Safety Tags:

Overview: Utilize safety tags like #lgbtq, #lgbt, #saga, #binder, #binder safety to connect with others who prioritize safety in discussions about binding practices.

First Contact Link: Engage with individuals on FCMetaverse using safety tags to share experiences and tips for promoting binder safety.

Affordable Binder Resources:

Consideration: Explore resources within FCCommunity and FCMetaverse where individuals can find information on affordable binder options and support networks for those facing financial constraints.

First Contact Link: Join conversations on FCCommunity about accessible resources for obtaining binders without compromising safety.

Conclusion:

Spreading awareness about the dangers of using ace bandages for binding is vital for the safety and well-being of the LGBTQ+ community. Join the discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to connect with like-minded individuals and advocate for safer binding practices.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

“I don’t relate to being boy or girl, and I don’t have to have my partner relate to boy or girl.”

—

Miley Cyrus http://www.papermag.com/2015/06/miley_cyrus_happy_hippie_foundation.php

Okay so Miley Cyrus recently came out as not only bisexual but agender/genderfluid and yet nobody seems to be talking about this?! It’s so important for young lgbt people (especially trans kids) to have successful role models and yet the media seems unwilling to talk about us unless it’s negatively. Fuck that. Congrats Miley, I love you.

(via friends-of-dorothy)

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Title: The Importance of Binder Safety: A Message for the LGBTQ+ Community

Introduction:

Recognizing the financial challenges that some transgender and non-binary individuals face in acquiring binders, it's crucial to raise awareness about the dangers associated with alternative methods, such as using ace bandages. Here are some reasons why this practice can be hazardous, along with a reminder of the importance of prioritizing binder safety.

FCCommunity - Advocating Binder Safety:

Overview: FCCommunity is a space dedicated to advocacy and safety within the LGBTQ+ community. Engage in conversations to connect with others who understand the importance of spreading awareness about binder safety.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing safe practices for binder wearers and alternative options for those facing financial constraints.

Dangers of Ace Bandages:

Consideration: Using ace bandages for binding poses serious risks, including:

Compression Designed for Wounds: Ace bandages are not designed for chest binding and can cause harm.

Increased Tightness with Breathing: The more you breathe, the tighter ace bandages become, which can lead to discomfort and injury.

Bruising of Skin and Ribs: Ace bandages can bruise both the skin and the ribs, causing lasting damage.

Restricted Breathing: Binding with ace bandages can restrict proper breathing, impacting overall health.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about the dangers of using ace bandages for binding and share insights on safer alternatives.

Promoting Binder Safety Tags:

Overview: Utilize safety tags like #lgbtq, #lgbt, #saga, #binder, #binder safety to connect with others who prioritize safety in discussions about binding practices.

First Contact Link: Engage with individuals on FCMetaverse using safety tags to share experiences and tips for promoting binder safety.

Affordable Binder Resources:

Consideration: Explore resources within FCCommunity and FCMetaverse where individuals can find information on affordable binder options and support networks for those facing financial constraints.

First Contact Link: Join conversations on FCCommunity about accessible resources for obtaining binders without compromising safety.

Conclusion:

Spreading awareness about the dangers of using ace bandages for binding is vital for the safety and well-being of the LGBTQ+ community. Join the discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to connect with like-minded individuals and advocate for safer binding practices.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

Binder Safety

Hey guys so I know a lot of transgender and non binary people can't afford to buy binders so they resort to ace bandages. This is dangerous and here are some of the reasons why:

•Its made to compress wounds

•The more you breathe in it the tighter it gets

•It can bruise not only your skin but your ribs too

•It can restrict your breathing

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Title: Self-Care Reminder: Safety Tips for Binder Wearers

Introduction:

Wearing a binder can be a powerful form of self-expression, but it's crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being while doing so. If you're donning a binder, here's a gentle reminder to take a moment for some self-care. Follow these steps to ensure your comfort and health throughout the day.

FCCommunity - Embracing Self-Care Discussions:

Overview: FCCommunity is a space for embracing self-care and well-being. Engage in conversations to connect with others who understand the importance of safety and comfort in the LGBTQ+ community.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing self-care practices for LGBTQ+ individuals, including those who wear binders.

Binder Safety Ritual:

Consideration: If you're wearing a binder, take a moment for a safety ritual. Follow these steps:

Deep Breath In: Inhale deeply.

Breath Out: Exhale slowly.

Stretch Up: Stretch your arms overhead.

Cough Some: Clear your throat gently.

Deep Breath Again: Inhale once more.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about binder safety rituals and self-care practices within the LGBTQ+ community.

Regular Check-Ins:

Overview: Don't forget to regularly check in on your comfort level, especially if you're wearing a binder for an extended period. Engage in conversations on FCCommunity about establishing healthy habits for binder wearers.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the importance of regular check-ins for binder wearers.

Safety Tags:

Consideration: Utilize safety tags like #binder, #binder safety, #binding safety, #safety, #lgbtq+, #saga, #trans, #transgender, #nonbinary to connect with others who prioritize safety in their self-care routines.

First Contact Link: Engage with individuals on FCMetaverse using safety tags to share experiences and tips for maintaining well-being.

Conclusion:

Prioritizing safety while wearing a binder is essential for maintaining your overall health and comfort. Join the discussions on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to connect with like-minded individuals and explore self-care practices within the LGBTQ+ community.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

Binding Safety!

If you are wearing a binder take a deep breath in then out, stretch up, cough some, take another breath then continue with your day. Please don't forget to do this every now and then especially if you are wearing a binder for more than two hours.

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Title: Embracing Diversity at Festivals: Challenging Societal Perspectives

Introduction:

Attending a festival that celebrates what has long been deemed "sexual degeneracy" by society can be an eye-opening experience. While some may harbor concerns about encountering what society views as sexually deviant, it's an opportunity to challenge preconceptions and foster understanding. Let's explore the notion of sexual diversity at festivals and the potential for evolving societal perspectives.

FCCommunity - Embracing Diverse Perspectives:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a platform for embracing diverse perspectives. Engage in conversations to connect with others who appreciate the nuances surrounding societal perceptions of sexual diversity.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the evolving understanding of sexual diversity and societal perceptions.

Challenging Societal Norms:

Consideration: Festivals celebrating sexual diversity provide a unique space to challenge societal norms and broaden perspectives. Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse to explore the complexities of societal views on sexual diversity.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about challenging societal norms and fostering inclusivity in diverse spaces.

Encountering New Perspectives:

Overview: Attending a festival celebrating sexual diversity opens the door to encountering new perspectives and experiences. Embracing diversity is a key theme in conversations on FCCommunity.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCCommunity about the enriching experiences and perspectives encountered at festivals celebrating sexual diversity.

Navigating Conversations:

Consideration: Navigating discussions about sexual diversity requires an open mind and a willingness to challenge societal preconceptions. Join conversations on FCMetaverse about fostering understanding and breaking down stereotypes.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing strategies for navigating conversations about sexual diversity.

Conclusion:

Attending a festival celebrating sexual diversity offers an opportunity to challenge societal norms and foster a more inclusive understanding. Join the conversations on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to explore and appreciate the richness of diverse perspectives.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

*going to a festival that celebrates what has for a long time been considered sexual degeneracy by society* Oh boy I sure hope I don’t encounter anything that society views as sexually degenerate!

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Title: Embracing Diversity: Beyond Binary Perspectives on Sex and Pronouns

Introduction:

Navigating discussions about sex and pronouns often requires an understanding that goes beyond simplistic categorizations. While some argue for a binary perspective based on "third-grade biology," it's essential to recognize the nuances that emerge as we embrace diverse viewpoints. Let's delve into the complexity of sex and pronouns, acknowledging that education on these matters extends beyond basic biology.

FCCommunity - Embracing Diversity Discussions:

Overview: FCCommunity offers a space for embracing diverse perspectives. Engage in discussions to connect with others who appreciate the complexities surrounding sex, gender, and pronouns.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the evolving understanding of sex and pronouns.

Beyond Binary: Understanding Sex:

Consideration: While traditional biology may introduce a binary perspective on sex, it's crucial to acknowledge that contemporary understandings embrace a spectrum of biological and gender identities. Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse to explore evolving perspectives on sex.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about the diversity of biological and gender identities beyond the binary.

Pronouns: A Kindergarten Lesson in Respect:

Overview: Pronouns are introduced early in education, fostering a culture of respect and inclusivity. Understanding the significance of pronouns goes beyond linguistic lessons, extending to affirming diverse gender identities.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCCommunity about the importance of pronouns in affirming diverse gender identities.

Complexities of Gender Identity:

Consideration: Acknowledge that gender identity is a complex and personal aspect of an individual's experience. Conversations on FCMetaverse delve into the multifaceted nature of gender identity.

First Contact Link: Explore threads on FCMetaverse discussing the complexities of gender identity and the importance of inclusive language.

Conclusion:

While the basics of sex may be introduced early in education, our understanding of these concepts has evolved. Embracing diversity in perspectives on sex, gender, and pronouns is a journey that goes beyond binary thinking. Join the conversations on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to explore and appreciate the richness of these discussions.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

"there are only two sexes, it's literally third grade biology!" and pronouns are taught in kindergarten and you dont seem to understand those either

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Title: The 1993 March on Washington: Pioneering Bisexual Visibility

Introduction:

The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation, held on April 25, 1993, in Washington, D.C., stands as a landmark event in LGBTQ+ history. Drawing an estimated crowd ranging from 80,000 to over 1 million, this march marked the first time bisexuals were explicitly included in the event's title. Out of the 18 distinguished speakers, only one boldly represented the bisexual community: Lani Ka'ahumanu.

FCCommunity - Celebrating LGBTQ+ History:

Overview: FCCommunity is a platform dedicated to celebrating LGBTQ+ history. Engage in discussions to connect with others who appreciate the milestones of the community.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the impact of historical events on bisexual visibility.

Lani Ka'ahumanu: The Sole Bisexual Voice:

Consideration: Among the selected speakers, Lani Ka'ahumanu stood as the lone representative of the bisexual community. Her presence marked a historic moment, underscoring the significance of bisexual inclusion in LGBTQ+ activism.

First Contact Link: Join conversations on FCMetaverse to discuss the impact of bisexual activists in shaping LGBTQ+ history.

"How I Spent My Two Week Vacation Being a Token Bisexual":

Overview: Following the march, Lani Ka'ahumanu shared her experience in an article titled "How I Spent My Two Week Vacation Being a Token Bisexual" for the bisexual magazine Anything That Moves. Read her reflections on her website [here](insert Fc link here).

First Contact Link: Explore the [article](insert Fc link here) to gain insights into Lani Ka'ahumanu's perspective and the pivotal role she played.

Transcript of Lani Ka'ahumanu's Speech:

Consideration: Lani Ka'ahumanu's impactful speech during the event is preserved in a transcript on her website. Delve into her powerful words that resonated during the march, advocating for bisexual visibility.

First Contact Link: Access the [transcript](insert Fc link here) to experience the essence of Lani Ka'ahumanu's message at the 1993 March on Washington.

Conclusion:

The 1993 March on Washington holds a significant place in LGBTQ+ history, with Lani Ka'ahumanu's participation serving as a pivotal moment for bisexual visibility. Utilize the resources on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to engage in discussions and celebrate the achievements of LGBTQ+ activists who shaped history.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

It ain't over til the bisexual speaks...

The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation took place on the 25th of April 1993 in Washington, D.C. An estimated 80,000 to over 1 million people attended.

The 1993 March was the first March on Washington to include bisexuals in the title. Out of 18 chosen speakers, only one was bisexual: Lani Ka'ahumanu.

Afterwards, she wrote an article for bisexual magazine Anything That Moves about her experience entitled "How I Spent My Two Week Vacation Being a Token Bisexual", which can be read on her website here.

The webpage also contains a transcript of the speech she made at the event, which has been copied below the cut:

Aloha, my name is Lani Ka’ahumanu, and it ain’t over til the bisexual speaks...

I am a token, and a symbol. Today there is no difference. I am the token out bisexual asked to speak, and I am a symbol of how powerful the bisexual pride movement is and how far we have come.

I came here in 1979 for the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

I returned in 1987 for the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

I stand here today on the stage of the 1993 March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation.

In 1987 I wrote an article on bisexuality for the Civil Disobedience Handbook titled, “Are we visible yet?”

Bisexual activists organized on the local, regional and national levels to make this March a reality.

Are bisexuals visible yet? Are bisexuals organized yet? Are bisexuals accountable yet?

You bet your sweet ass we are!

Bisexuals are here, and we’re queer.

Bisexual pride speaks to the truth of behavior and identity.

No simple either/or divisions fluid – ambiguous – subversive bisexual pride challenges both the heterosexual and the homosexual assumption.

Society is based on the denial of diversity, on the denial of complexity.

Like multiculturalism, mixed heritage and bi-racial relationships, both the bisexual and transgender movements expose and politicize the middle ground.

Each show there is no separation, that each and everyone of us is part of a fluid social, sexual and gender dynamic.

Each signals a change, a fundamental change in the way our society is organized.

Remember today.

Remember we are family, and like a large extended family, we don’t always agree, don’t always see eye to eye.

However, as a family under attack we must recognize the importance of what each and every one of us brings to our movement.

There is strength in our numbers and diversity. We are every race, class, culture, age, ability, religion, gender identity and sexual orientation.

Our visibility is a sign of revolt.

Recognition of bisexual orientation and transgender issues presents a challenge to assumptions not previously explored within the politics of gay liberation.

What will it take for the gayristocracy to realize that bisexual, lesbian, transgender, and gay people are in this together, and together we can and will move the agenda forward.

But this will not happen until public recognition of our common issues is made, and a sincere effort to confront biphobia and transphobia is made by the established gay and lesbian leadership in this country.

The broader movement for our civil rights and liberation is being held back.

Who gains when we ostracize whole parts of our family? Who gains from exclusionary politics?

Certainly not us...

Being treated as if I am less oppressed than thou is not only insulting, it feeds right in to the hands of the right wing fundamentalists who see all of us as queer.

What is the difficulty in seeing how my struggle as a mixed race bisexual woman of color is intimately related to the bigger struggle for lesbian and gay rights the rights of people of color and the rights of all women?

What is the problem?

This is not a competition.

I will not play by rules that pit me against any oppressed group.

Has the gayristocracy bought so far in to the either/or structure, invested so much in being the opposite of heterosexual that they cannot remove themselves that they can’t imagine being free of the whole oppressive heterosexist system that keeps us all down?

Bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people who are out of the closet, who are not passing for anything other than who and what we are all have our necks and our lives on the line.

All our visibility is a sign of revolt.

Bisexuals are here to challenge the bigots who have denied lesbian, gay and bisexual people basic civil rights in Colorado.

Yes, Amendment 2 includes bisexual orientation.

Yes, the religious right recognizes bisexuals as a threat to “so called” family values.

Bisexuals are here to protest the military ban against lesbians, gays and bisexuals.

Yes, the Department of Defense defines bisexuals separately as a reason to be dishonorably discharged.

And yes, out bisexuals are not allowed to be foster or adoptive parents,

And yes, we lose our jobs, our children, get beaten and killed for loving women and for loving men.

Bisexuals are queer, just as queer as queer can be.

Each of us here today represents many people who could not make the trip.

Our civil rights and liberation movement has reached critical mass.

Remember today.

Remember that we are more powerful than all the hate, ignorance and violence directed at us.

Remember what a profound difference our visibility makes upon the world in which we live.

The momentum of this day can carry us well into the 21st century if we come out where ever and when ever we can.

Remember assimilation is a lie. It is spiritual erasure.

I want to challenge those lesbian and gay leaders who have come out to me privately over the years as bisexual to take the next step, come out now.

What is the sexual liberation movement about if not about the freedom to love whom we choose?

I want to encourage bisexuals in the lesbian, gay and heterosexual communities to come out now.

Remember there is nothing wrong with love. Defend the freedom to express it.

Our visibility is a sign of revolt. We cannot be stopped. We are everywhere. We are bisexual, lesbian, gay and transgender people.

We will not rest until we are all free;

We will not rest until our basic human rights are protected under federal law;

We will not rest until our relationships and families are not just tolerated but recognized, respected and valued;

We will not rest until we have a national health care system; We will not rest until there are cures for AIDS and cancer.

We deserve nothing less. Remember we have every right to be in the world exactly as we are.

Celebrate that simply and fiercely.

I love you.

Mahalo and aloha.

[supportlgbt]

Title: "It Ain't Over Til the Bisexual Speaks": The Historic 1993 March on Washington

Introduction:

The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation held on April 25, 1993, in Washington, D.C., marked a pivotal moment in LGBTQ+ history. With an estimated attendance ranging from 80,000 to over 1 million, this event was significant as the first March on Washington to explicitly include bisexuals in its title. Let's delve into this historic march and the impactful contribution of bisexual activist Lani Ka'ahumanu.

FCCommunity - Celebrating LGBTQ+ History:

Overview: FCCommunity is a platform for celebrating and discussing LGBTQ+ history. Join conversations to connect with others interested in the historical milestones of the community.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing the impact of historical events on bisexual visibility.

Lani Ka'ahumanu: A Trailblazer for Bisexual Visibility:

Consideration: Among the 18 chosen speakers, Lani Ka'ahumanu was the sole bisexual representative. Her presence marked a groundbreaking moment in LGBTQ+ activism, emphasizing the importance of bisexual inclusion.

First Contact Link: Engage in discussions on FCMetaverse about the role of bisexual activists in shaping LGBTQ+ history.

"How I Spent My Two Week Vacation Being a Token Bisexual":

Overview: Following the march, Lani Ka'ahumanu penned an article for bisexual magazine Anything That Moves, detailing her experience as the lone bisexual speaker. The article reflects on the challenges and triumphs of bisexual representation.

First Contact Link: Explore the [article](insert Fc link here) on Lani Ka'ahumanu's website to gain insights into her perspective and the significance of her role.

Transcript of Lani Ka'ahumanu's Speech:

Consideration: Lani Ka'ahumanu's impactful speech at the event is preserved in a transcript on her website. Read her powerful words that resonated during the march and echoed the need for bisexual visibility.

First Contact Link: Access the [transcript](insert Fc link here) to experience the essence of Lani Ka'ahumanu's message at the 1993 March on Washington.

Conclusion:

The 1993 March on Washington holds a special place in LGBTQ+ history, with Lani Ka'ahumanu's participation as a pivotal moment for bisexual visibility. Utilize the resources on First Contact, including FCCommunity and FCMetaverse, to engage in discussions and celebrate the achievements of LGBTQ+ activists who shaped history.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

It ain't over til the bisexual speaks...

The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation took place on the 25th of April 1993 in Washington, D.C. An estimated 80,000 to over 1 million people attended.

The 1993 March was the first March on Washington to include bisexuals in the title. Out of 18 chosen speakers, only one was bisexual: Lani Ka'ahumanu.

Afterwards, she wrote an article for bisexual magazine Anything That Moves about her experience entitled "How I Spent My Two Week Vacation Being a Token Bisexual", which can be read on her website here.

The webpage also contains a transcript of the speech she made at the event, which has been copied below the cut:

Aloha, my name is Lani Ka’ahumanu, and it ain’t over til the bisexual speaks...

I am a token, and a symbol. Today there is no difference. I am the token out bisexual asked to speak, and I am a symbol of how powerful the bisexual pride movement is and how far we have come.

I came here in 1979 for the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

I returned in 1987 for the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

I stand here today on the stage of the 1993 March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Equal Rights and Liberation.

In 1987 I wrote an article on bisexuality for the Civil Disobedience Handbook titled, “Are we visible yet?”

Bisexual activists organized on the local, regional and national levels to make this March a reality.

Are bisexuals visible yet? Are bisexuals organized yet? Are bisexuals accountable yet?

You bet your sweet ass we are!

Bisexuals are here, and we’re queer.

Bisexual pride speaks to the truth of behavior and identity.

No simple either/or divisions fluid – ambiguous – subversive bisexual pride challenges both the heterosexual and the homosexual assumption.

Society is based on the denial of diversity, on the denial of complexity.

Like multiculturalism, mixed heritage and bi-racial relationships, both the bisexual and transgender movements expose and politicize the middle ground.

Each show there is no separation, that each and everyone of us is part of a fluid social, sexual and gender dynamic.

Each signals a change, a fundamental change in the way our society is organized.

Remember today.

Remember we are family, and like a large extended family, we don’t always agree, don’t always see eye to eye.

However, as a family under attack we must recognize the importance of what each and every one of us brings to our movement.

There is strength in our numbers and diversity. We are every race, class, culture, age, ability, religion, gender identity and sexual orientation.

Our visibility is a sign of revolt.

Recognition of bisexual orientation and transgender issues presents a challenge to assumptions not previously explored within the politics of gay liberation.

What will it take for the gayristocracy to realize that bisexual, lesbian, transgender, and gay people are in this together, and together we can and will move the agenda forward.

But this will not happen until public recognition of our common issues is made, and a sincere effort to confront biphobia and transphobia is made by the established gay and lesbian leadership in this country.

The broader movement for our civil rights and liberation is being held back.

Who gains when we ostracize whole parts of our family? Who gains from exclusionary politics?

Certainly not us...

Being treated as if I am less oppressed than thou is not only insulting, it feeds right in to the hands of the right wing fundamentalists who see all of us as queer.

What is the difficulty in seeing how my struggle as a mixed race bisexual woman of color is intimately related to the bigger struggle for lesbian and gay rights the rights of people of color and the rights of all women?

What is the problem?

This is not a competition.

I will not play by rules that pit me against any oppressed group.

Has the gayristocracy bought so far in to the either/or structure, invested so much in being the opposite of heterosexual that they cannot remove themselves that they can’t imagine being free of the whole oppressive heterosexist system that keeps us all down?

Bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people who are out of the closet, who are not passing for anything other than who and what we are all have our necks and our lives on the line.

All our visibility is a sign of revolt.

Bisexuals are here to challenge the bigots who have denied lesbian, gay and bisexual people basic civil rights in Colorado.

Yes, Amendment 2 includes bisexual orientation.

Yes, the religious right recognizes bisexuals as a threat to “so called” family values.

Bisexuals are here to protest the military ban against lesbians, gays and bisexuals.

Yes, the Department of Defense defines bisexuals separately as a reason to be dishonorably discharged.

And yes, out bisexuals are not allowed to be foster or adoptive parents,

And yes, we lose our jobs, our children, get beaten and killed for loving women and for loving men.

Bisexuals are queer, just as queer as queer can be.

Each of us here today represents many people who could not make the trip.

Our civil rights and liberation movement has reached critical mass.

Remember today.

Remember that we are more powerful than all the hate, ignorance and violence directed at us.

Remember what a profound difference our visibility makes upon the world in which we live.

The momentum of this day can carry us well into the 21st century if we come out where ever and when ever we can.

Remember assimilation is a lie. It is spiritual erasure.

I want to challenge those lesbian and gay leaders who have come out to me privately over the years as bisexual to take the next step, come out now.

What is the sexual liberation movement about if not about the freedom to love whom we choose?

I want to encourage bisexuals in the lesbian, gay and heterosexual communities to come out now.

Remember there is nothing wrong with love. Defend the freedom to express it.

Our visibility is a sign of revolt. We cannot be stopped. We are everywhere. We are bisexual, lesbian, gay and transgender people.

We will not rest until we are all free;

We will not rest until our basic human rights are protected under federal law;

We will not rest until our relationships and families are not just tolerated but recognized, respected and valued;

We will not rest until we have a national health care system; We will not rest until there are cures for AIDS and cancer.

We deserve nothing less. Remember we have every right to be in the world exactly as we are.

Celebrate that simply and fiercely.

I love you.

Mahalo and aloha.

[supportlgbt]

Title: Unveiling Online Deception: "I Made Up a Guy to Get Mad At" and Fostering Transparency

Introduction:

In the vast landscape of the internet, transparency is a virtue that can be easily compromised by deceptive practices. Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' exploration of misinformation have shed light on the phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at," revealing a manipulative tactic that is sometimes used to cast marginalized groups in a negative light. Let's delve into this revelation and the imperative of transparency in online discourse.

FCCommunity - Unmasking Deceptive Practices:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a hub for open discussions about online phenomena, including deceptive practices. Engage in conversations to connect with others who have encountered instances of misinformation and deceptive tactics.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing online deception and its impact on marginalized communities.

Understanding "I Made Up a Guy to Get Mad At":

Consideration: This deceptive practice involves fabricating characters or scenarios to evoke anger, often with the intent of casting aspersions on marginalized groups. Understanding the mechanics of this phenomenon is crucial for fostering transparency online.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about online deception and its implications for marginalized communities.

Highlighting Manipulative Tactics:

Overview: Hbomberguy's and Todd in the Shadows' videos spotlight manipulative tactics that aim to tarnish the reputation of marginalized groups. Recognizing these tactics is essential for promoting transparency and combatting misinformation.

First Contact Link: Connect with individuals on FCGroups who discuss the impact of manipulative tactics on online discourse and marginalized communities.

The Call for Transparency:

Consideration: Transparency acts as a powerful antidote to deception. Emphasizing the importance of verifying information, fact-checking, and promoting honest discussions contributes to a more reliable and respectful online environment.

First Contact Link: Engage in discussions on FCCommunity about fostering transparency in online interactions and conversations.

Online Accountability and Responsibility:

Overview: Hbomberguy's and Todd in the Shadows' videos underscore the need for online accountability and responsible sharing of information. Each individual plays a role in maintaining the integrity of online discourse.

First Contact Link: Participate in conversations on FCMetaverse about promoting accountability and responsibility in online spaces.

Conclusion:

Unveiling the phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at" highlights the urgency of transparency, accountability, and responsible online behavior. Utilize the resources on First Contact, including FCCommunity, FCGroups, and FCMetaverse, to actively participate in discussions that promote honesty and integrity in online interactions.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

this reddit post is so good.

a trans guy who is also a butch who dates both men and women-- I aspire to be like this. oh, to play 5d chess with gender.

[supportlgbt]

Title: Unveiling Online Deception: "I Made Up a Guy to Get Mad At" and Fostering Transparency

Introduction:

In the vast landscape of the internet, transparency is a virtue that can be easily compromised by deceptive practices. Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' exploration of misinformation have shed light on the phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at," revealing a manipulative tactic that is sometimes used to cast marginalized groups in a negative light. Let's delve into this revelation and the imperative of transparency in online discourse.

FCCommunity - Unmasking Deceptive Practices:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a hub for open discussions about online phenomena, including deceptive practices. Engage in conversations to connect with others who have encountered instances of misinformation and deceptive tactics.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing online deception and its impact on marginalized communities.

Understanding "I Made Up a Guy to Get Mad At":

Consideration: This deceptive practice involves fabricating characters or scenarios to evoke anger, often with the intent of casting aspersions on marginalized groups. Understanding the mechanics of this phenomenon is crucial for fostering transparency online.

First Contact Link: Join discussions on FCMetaverse about online deception and its implications for marginalized communities.

Highlighting Manipulative Tactics:

Overview: Hbomberguy's and Todd in the Shadows' videos spotlight manipulative tactics that aim to tarnish the reputation of marginalized groups. Recognizing these tactics is essential for promoting transparency and combatting misinformation.

First Contact Link: Connect with individuals on FCGroups who discuss the impact of manipulative tactics on online discourse and marginalized communities.

The Call for Transparency:

Consideration: Transparency acts as a powerful antidote to deception. Emphasizing the importance of verifying information, fact-checking, and promoting honest discussions contributes to a more reliable and respectful online environment.

First Contact Link: Engage in discussions on FCCommunity about fostering transparency in online interactions and conversations.

Online Accountability and Responsibility:

Overview: Hbomberguy's and Todd in the Shadows' videos underscore the need for online accountability and responsible sharing of information. Each individual plays a role in maintaining the integrity of online discourse.

First Contact Link: Participate in conversations on FCMetaverse about promoting accountability and responsibility in online spaces.

Conclusion:

Unveiling the phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at" highlights the urgency of transparency, accountability, and responsible online behavior. Utilize the resources on First Contact, including FCCommunity, FCGroups, and FCMetaverse, to actively participate in discussions that promote honesty and integrity in online interactions.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments

One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".

Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.

That's the TL;DR version of this post. 

ANYWAY here is the long version

Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".

One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.

Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.

It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.

This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.

People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.

I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.

Anyway if you want to read more:

- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info

-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos

-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.

-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa

- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.

-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge

[supportlgbt]

Introduction:

The internet is a vast space where information flows, opinions clash, and sometimes, individuals create fictional characters to advance their agendas. This phenomenon, brought to light by Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' exploration of misinformation, sheds light on the deceptive practice of "I made up a guy to get mad at." Let's delve into how this tactic is employed and the importance of transparency in online discourse.

FCCommunity - Unraveling Internet Deception:

Overview: FCCommunity serves as a platform for open discussions about online phenomena, including deceptive practices. Join conversations to connect with others who have encountered similar instances of misinformation.

Engagement Tip: Explore threads on FCCommunity discussing online deception and its impact on marginalized communities.

Understanding "I Made Up a Guy to Get Mad At":

Consideration: This deceptive practice involves fabricating a character or scenario to generate anger, often targeting marginalized groups. Understanding the mechanics of this phenomenon is crucial for fostering transparency online.

First Contact Link: Engage in discussions on FCMetaverse about online deception and its implications for marginalized communities.

Highlighting Manipulative Tactics:

Overview: By showcasing instances of individuals making up stories or characters, Hbomberguy and Todd in the Shadows draw attention to manipulative tactics that aim to tarnish the reputation of marginalized groups.

First Contact Link: Connect with individuals on FCGroups who discuss the impact of manipulative tactics on online discourse and marginalized communities.

The Importance of Transparency:

Consideration: Transparency is a key antidote to deception. Emphasizing the importance of verifying information, fact-checking, and promoting honest discussions contributes to a more reliable and respectful online environment.

First Contact Link: Participate in discussions on FCCommunity about fostering transparency in online interactions and conversations.

Online Accountability and Responsibility:

Overview: Hbomberguy's and Todd in the Shadows' videos highlight the need for online accountability and responsible sharing of information. Each individual plays a role in maintaining the integrity of online discourse.

First Contact Link: Engage in conversations on FCMetaverse about promoting accountability and responsibility in online spaces.

Conclusion:

Unmasking the phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at" underscores the importance of transparency, accountability, and responsible online behavior. Utilize the resources on First Contact, including FCCommunity, FCGroups, and FCMetaverse, to actively participate in discussions that promote honesty and integrity in online interactions.

Feel free to let me know if you have any specific requests or adjustments!

One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".

Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.

That's the TL;DR version of this post. 

ANYWAY here is the long version

Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".

One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.

Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.

It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.

This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.

People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.

I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.

Anyway if you want to read more:

- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info

-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos

-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.

-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa

- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.

-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge

[supportlgbt]

Building a Safe Haven in the Metaverse for LGBTQ+ Communities: First Contact

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