sunsetselfship

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sending love to all trans selfshippers, nb selfshippers, GNC selfshippers, unlabelled selfshippers, selfshippers with confusing/nonconventional genders, ect! we love you guys!!

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Imagine dancing and singing in the kitchen with your f/o while making dinner. You sing off-key and do weird poses, stopping only to occasionally check on the cooking food, and you have the time of your lives just acting like total dorks.

proship/comship DNI

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Imagine your F/O crawling into bed next to you while you’re half asleep.

They try not to disturb the blankets or mattress too much as they slide themselves under the covers, letting out a slow breath while they do.

They turn towards you, assume you’re asleep, and give you a gentle kiss on your cheek. They sigh, and finally settle down with their arm around you.

They fall asleep first, and you soon follow their lead with a soft smile on your face.

#this means so much to me

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Imagine you and your f/o are out on a date. You go into a store and find a stuffed animal that reminds you of them. Your f/o ends up buying it for you, so you can always think of them when you look at it.

proship/comship DNI

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Oh, your f/os are so in love with how you look. You don’t even have to do anything special! No amount of makeup, specific clothes or hairstyles are needed for them to view you as the most attractive person they’ve laid eyes on. The way you captivate them so effortlessly never fails to make them feel butterflies, and it’s all simply because you are just the way you are 💖

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f/os that need you as much as you need them. f/os that arent perfect or maybe not even good. ones that are recovering and healing and trying hard to get better. ones who rely on you and your support and are still so willing to give everything to you even when theyre not at their best. who promise to you and themselves that they will strive to get better no matter what. and more than anything they want to be there for you, with you, have you there with them through it all because you are a part of their healing process and even when its hard they know theyll have you to tell them it is going to be ok.

pr*ship c*mship dni.

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SOME of you are saying your f/os wouldn't love you. Stop that. They are thinking about you in a positive way as we speak. They love you because you are lovable, for all your unique talents and flaws and inner beauty, ok?

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Me when my F/Os

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All you aros with F/Os, and all you aces with F/Os as well, we take arms together, I hope ya'll having a great day, and remember, your F/O is gonna be there for you, gonna be what you need them to be! Whatever that may be in that moment, they'll be it for you!

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I love details I love linking elbows I love to hold my f/o's hand when I haven't seen them in a long time and we're talking to each other with excitement in our eyes I love walking down the street laughing at absurd inside jokes I love being able to change conversation topics easily I love feeling comfortable around my f/os I love I love you platonic f/os

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Imagine holding your f/o in your arms and make them feel warm and loved

proship/comship DNI

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imagine your F/O affectionately engaging with and/or otherwise replying to your happy stims

whether they be vocal or otherwise, your F/O naturally replies to them in little ways that make you smile

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imagine your romantic!f/o realizing they're in love with you for the first time. maybe you're not even doing anything in particular, but they're completely unable to tear their eyes away from you, or maybe they're alone with nothing but their thoughts and realize they're full of nothing but you. they find themselves thinking of you whenever something happy happens to them, wishing you were there by their side to share the memory. they think of you when they see anything even remotely related to you ― something in your favorite color, a picture of an animal you like or they feel would be you as an animal, a specific scent. whatever it is, their cheeks heat up at the realization as they whisper to themselves, "i love them."

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💞 shout out to self shippers that do a lot of research into the lore of the source material for their s/is

💘 shout out to self shippers that do absolutely no research for their s/is

💖 shout out to self shippers who actively break the lore for their s/is

💗 shout out to self shippers who pull from adaptations of the source for their s/is

All of you & your s/is are very cool and I hope you have wonderful days :)

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this happens to me. every time

#me

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it's okay if self shipping is a placeholder for you. some people want to and will self ship forever and that's beyond beautiful. but it's okay if, for you, it's just until something else comes along. it's okay if you self ship romantically until you find yourself in a real life romantic relationship. it's okay if you self ship platonically until you find yourself in a solid friend group. it's okay if you find these things and you don't feel the need to self ship anymore. it's okay if you lose feelings or lose focus for your f/os because of your real life relationships. it doesn't mean that the love you have for these characters isn't or wasn't real. it doesn't mean that it was lesser than real life relationships. it's exactly what you needed when you needed it.