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Okay but Maladaptive daydreamers with shit imagination.

Just doing the same scene over and over but with different characters. Needing to watch lots of media so they have tons of Ideas. Their daydreams are like a mash up of all the different types of media they take in every day. Maladaptive daydreamers who’s paracosms are filled with fictional characters, because they have a hard time coming up with their own. 

#hi this is also me lmao #I do have original paras and paracosms but they’re rare #most of them are based off of my current hyperfixations (ie final fantasy and kingdom hearts)

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ANOTHER FUCKING and yet necessary REMINDER FOR MY FELLOW MADDERS

If you didn't get seriously traumatized

If you're close to your family

If you don't have suicidal tendencies

If you don't pace until your feet bleed

If you have good, real friends

If you're okay with talking to people and strangers

YOU CAN STILL HAVE MADD AND YOU'RE VALID. AND YOU'RE NOT LESS GOOD. DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT NOT BEING SAD OR HURT ENOUGH TO BE A REAL MALADAPTIVE DAYDREAMER.

We love you and you're still part of this.

#madd #maladaptive daydream #maladaptive daydreaming

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is it just me or does madd almost feel like living two separate lives? sometimes my daydreams are so vivid that i honestly forget that it isn't a part of my actual life. i forget that it isn't an actual part of me. if this makes any sense

#yeah sometimes I get really disoriented and like #I have to remind myself where and who I am lol #it isn’t too bad but I notice it a lot #madd #maladaptive daydreaming #actually madd

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does anyone else have a plot in their daydreams but they have like different routes like “okay but what if this happened instead” and u pause the main plot… kinda like choice based video games 💀

#hi that’s me #I literally acted shocked about it too like I didn’t just make that shit up 💀 #madd #maladaptive daydreaming #madd memes #actuallymadd

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there are some autistic “traits” that people find really annoying but that are inherently kind

#DUDE THIS IS EXAXTLY WHAT I WAS TALKINH ABOUT ON ONE OF MY OTHER POSTS

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So I found out that the thing I've been indulging for literally as long as I've been forming memories is called immersive daydreaming (the more serious version of which is called maladaptive daydreaming disorder or MADD) and now I've been obsessively stalking communities for it and collecting their memes for the past few days lol

If any of this strikes a chord with you, you might be an immersive daydreamer or have MADD like me!

#I’m back bitches

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oqaiahjahajqjq so many of my paras are war criminals whoopsies-

#me putting all of them through trauma #also sorry it’s been a while since I’ve posted- #madd

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mcdonalds gave me the boys toy in my happy meal and ive been transgender ever since

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madd culture is thinking no one will ever actually love you the way ur paras love u

#🥲 #madd

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Me planning out every single daydream before I get home be like

my ass excitedly planning to daydream right after school instead of doing my homework like a normal person

#madd

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I have a few characters that are way too much like me and they include;

Cassandra Monroe (haven’t posted bout her yet)

Jin Utada (haven’t talked about him either)

Beatrice (hardly talked about her haha)

Beau/Zaahir (I talk about him all the time to my friends haha)

Calling all maladaptive daydreamers: I have a question for you.

I know a lot of maladaptive daydreamers have a self-insert, but is there anyone else out there who doesn't have a self-insert? Like yeah, maybe there's that one character who's a little too much like you for comfort, but they're still not you. Both me and one of my friends have no self-insert and I have a couple of theories about why so I wanted to see if anyone else related.

#madd

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“It’s not my fault he ripped the map!”

“Please don’t eat the plants.”

“Have you seen the size of his nostril?? He could probably smell me from a kilometer away!”

“Do you think that Beatrice is jealous that her husband has bigger tits than she does?”

“Staring at my pretty features?” “No, you have an insect on your face.”

“I don’t wanna be a compass!”

Reblog with something your paras said/did that perfectly describes them but makes no sense out of context

"Flowers for you!!" *kills someone*

"Am I responsible for the actions of the people I accidentally wrote into existence?"

"The fun part of writing the code that keeps an entire dimension running is that sometimes the only thing separating you from the end of the world is a single semicolon"

"I did NOT sign up for ANY of this. And stop nagging me, no, I will NOT sing an entire 3-hour musical with you"

*staring at the results of a failed experiment* "I'm pretty sure this defies all known laws of physics"

#my paras are cursed #also you can ask about any of these lmao

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I was just notified by my landlord that they can't continue my lease. That means I have two months to find a new place.

If you could support my Patreon or maybe buy a print from me - that would be awesome and would lessen my financial anxiety while I handle this.

Would also be thankful if you could share this post around!

Thank you for reading!

https://www.patreon.com/lethendralis

https://lethendralis-paints.tumblr.com/post/657515838342037504 - prints post.

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Whenever I see people say:

“Maladaptive Daydreaming isn’t fun” I get a little confused, like I get it, in the long run it isn’t fun. But like… It also is.

I get to chill I’m worlds other people only dream (no pun intended) of going. I don’t have to be uncomfortable in my body anymore, I can have relationships that actually mean something, omfg its fun!!! its amazing, I love it…

I’ll say it again and again, ‘I just wish I had control over it’ I wish i wasn’t in a constant state of daydreaming, but at the same time if I wasn’t I would probably never leave the house… Are you kidding me? Social interaction and dealing with live people isn’t my thing. But being in this slight constant state of daydreaming I can walk with a para, I don’t have to he alone.

It sucks having MaDD but I’m gonna face the fact that I have had more harmful ways of coping then this, it may not be healthy but I also don’t want to let it go… I’d be miserable, I’d be more suicidal.

I get you’re feelings that’s its not ‘fun’ or ‘cool’ or anything like that, and I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy, but… I guess I wanted to make this to say its okay to like you’re MaDD… And think its fun, hell its okay to like and hate your MaDD at the same time… don’t let anyone tell you its wrong to…

#OQJJAAH #I posted this on the wrong account FUCK-

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🌟 tasty madd ask game 🌟

another madd ask game, because i wanted to make my own and you can never have too many!!

candy 🍬 - what’s your para’s fondest memory?

cake 🍰 - where is your para from? (bonus: do they speak another language?)

burger 🍔 - where does your para usually hang out in their spare time?

doughnut 🍩 - if your para had to be stuck on an island with one other para, who would they choose?

chocolate 🍫 - what’s your para’s signature outfit?

pizza 🍕 - where does your para live?

ice cream 🍦 - what skills does your para have?

wine 🍷 - does your para drink alcohol? (bonus: what’s their fave drink?)

fries 🍟 - is your para more of a lover or a fighter?

cherry 🍒 - does your para have any regrets?

grapes 🍇 - is your para in love with anyone? (bonus: what’s their relationship like?)

lollipop 🍭 - is your para more optimistic or pessimistic?

beer 🍺 - does your para strongly dislike anyone/anything?

sundae 🍨 - when you think of your para, what’s the first thing that comes to mind?

coffee ☕ - does your para read much? (bonus: if they do, what type of books do they like?)

apple 🍎 - what can’t your para live without?

orange 🍊 - what’s your para’s occupation?

pineapple 🍍 - what are your para’s hopes for their future?

#this looks so fun ahhhh! #ask meme

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I was bored so I made those… Ask anyway!

1🧚‍♀️ If your para had a fairy godmother/godfather, what will happen to them?

2🦄 Write your parascom and it’s story like a fairy tale

3🖥 What is the favourite tv show of your para?

4🏳️‍🌈 What is/are the sexuality(ies) of your para?

5😂 What makes your para laughs?

6😤 What could upset your para?

7😋 What is the favourite dish of your para?

8😱 Does your para get easily scared?

9😳 What scare your para the most?

10🧥 What your para usually wears (this could be visual)?

11🐶 Does your para have a pet?

12🏺 In which period of time your para live?

13🎨 What is the special talent of your para?

14🔥 What is/are the powers of your para?

15🎶 What are the themes songs of your para?

16⚔ What are the fighting skills of your para?

17✖ What language does your para talk?

18🤝 If your para could meet a character or someone in the real life, who would they meet?

19💎 What is your para most prized possession?

20✔ What is the job of your para?

21👥 What are your favourite couple/pair of paras in your parascom?

22🌐 Where does your para live (can include visual)?

23🌼 Describe the aesthetic of your para (can include visual)

24😶 How does your para look?

25🏈 Does your para enjoy playing sport?

26💶 How rich is your para?

27👑 Is your para royalty/a deity?

28💌 Type/write a letter that your para could write to another para

29✍ Write headcanons/imagine about your para(s)

30🎙 Write a poem/song/or a story with song verses about your para or parascom

31✏ Draw your para

32📣 What cause your para campaign for?

33🏖 What will be the dream vacation for your para?

34🍒 Does your para have children?

35🚗 Does your para have it’s driver licence (including motorcycle)?

36📱 How often your para uses it’s phone?

37💃🕺 Does your para know how to dance?

Edit: I added numbers in case someone has difficulties with finding the emojies!

#OOO #ASK ME #ask meme

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While I love joking about my MaDD, it is serious. I’m only really okay with people within our community joking about it, but when others that don’t even have it go ‘haha funny’ I just get annoyed. It isn’t a joke, and it isn’t okay to spread misinformation. I get disoriented at times, I get confused i where I am or what I was going, i struggle in school, etc.

maladaptive daydreaming DISORDER. It is a DISORDER. It is not all fun and games and genuinely fucks with our lives. I wish people would stop acting like it doesn’t and wishing that they had it.

#there’s a reason that ‘maladaptive’ is in the damn name #maladaptive behavior isn’t okay at all #don’t treat it like it is #madd