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I write this as a joke but we found someone new this morning.

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when we're done booping i think tumblr should bring back porn

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Reblogging this as someone who has an angel headmate tbh

do any other otherkins ever feel like they’re undercover in a way? like omg my coworkers don’t even know they’re working with an angel………

#actually angelic #actually plural #plural system #system things #actually traumagenic #traumagenic system #headmates

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Coming back to this, not to argue cause clearly some opinions can't be changed, but just to say that I love when the examples write themself. Also, reminder this blog is neutral and I won't feed in any syscourse beyond this point.

- Esme

Gentle reminder that if you're anti-endo (which is okay) because you claim you want to protect "traumagenic safe spaces" but go out of your way to hate on traumagenics who are neutral or- god forbid- pro-endo (which is also okay), you are NOT protecting traumagenics and actively excluding the people you claim to protect.

You are not the hero you think you are. You're a self-righteous hypocrite. If you claim you want to protect traumagenics, you protect ALL traumagenics, not only the ones that fit your idea of what a traumagenic should be or think like.

#syscourse

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This blog is safe and does NOT participate in April Fool's. Also happy autism awareness month ♾️🌈

#april fool's day #actually autistic #autism #actually disabled #invisible disability

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Sorry Ive been quiet. The dissociative disorder has been dissociating lately.

#relatable

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i suppress my headmates / mask their behaviour & then im surprised when i feel like im faking because i dont notice switches and we dont have major behavioural differences in public… hello??

not to mention im a control freak host who needs to be forcefully ripped away from front or else i dominate front 99% of the time

#system posting

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Plural culture is saying “hey can you take care of the body” and quickly realizing that you sound like a murderer

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friendly reminder that fakeclaiming isn’t cool because you literally never know what’s going on in someone else’s brain. just because you can’t relate to another system’s experience doesn’t mean they’re automatically faking.

to those that have been fakeclaimed before: i’m sorry, and i hope you know that i see your system for what it is, and i support you <3

#exactly #if you don't like being fakeclaimed then don't do it to others #end of story

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Credits to @siffrin-enthusiast

#userboxposting #system things

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That moment when another alter said something really out of pocket and you reread the messages

#eden please stop yapping about how being evil is cool please #i'm cringing #actually you can continue ily

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tag the headmate that has a hard job, and you're so thankful for everything they do.

#every single one tbf #having to keep this body & brain running? #terrible task so congrats to all of us

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Omg who did this to him

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Smeeking on my flower

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- Eden reposting

Host culture as a persecutor is interesting. Never stopped being a persecutor, just learned the where the limits are; I will very happily crush anyone if given the chance. But for the most part, being a host is a nice change in pace.

I don't mind holding all the nasty stuff for the other host. Makes me feel useful. Alive. I get to exist in a way I didn't let myself for years. Somehow, I have multiple partners that are all comfortable with me being me, and I get to talk to them.

I have my moments still. But everyone here, they trust me to keep them alive, even if I have to get messy. They know I won't just do that for no reason.

This system is my home now. A place where I'll never be taken advantage of again. I'd fight to the death to keep it, and I have, and will continue to.

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Gentle reminder that if you're anti-endo (which is okay) because you claim you want to protect "traumagenic safe spaces" but go out of your way to hate on traumagenics who are neutral or- god forbid- pro-endo (which is also okay), you are NOT protecting traumagenics and actively excluding the people you claim to protect.

You are not the hero you think you are. You're a self-righteous hypocrite. If you claim you want to protect traumagenics, you protect ALL traumagenics, not only the ones that fit your idea of what a traumagenic should be or think like.

#syscourse #speaking from personal experience as a traumagenic system #traumagenic system #actually traumagenic #system