Being close with a tough f/o may include…
Deep talks with them, being vulnerable when you least expect it, and trying to be open. Even if it's hard, they do their best to try because they want to show you how much they trust you.
They bond with you their own unique ways. Maybe you both relax together in the same room, doing your own thing. Maybe you two have a particular activity you engage in, they could have a specific way of showing their interest in your bond that isn't necessarily traditional.
Their protective, helpful energy. If someone is hurting or upsetting you, they'll listen and remind you of your worth, letting you know that you deserve better. They could even stand up for you, if the timing or circumstance is right. They can't stand to see someone they care for so much being mistreated, so they'll absolutely do what they can to defend you.
Being close with a playful f/o may include…
They're always sending you memes, telling you jokes, and showing you things they think are hilarious. They do this partially to show your their sense humor, but they mostly do it because they want you to laugh and have a great time too. It makes them feel good when you laugh, so they're always down to help bring more silliness in your life.
Asking weirdly (but hilariously) absurd questions such as, "S/I, if I shower and I'm clean, then how does the towel get dirty after I'm done using it? I was clean after the shower!" and trying to make sense of it. Both of you have funny conversations about it, almost as if debating for 45 minutes about why something happens and how it makes sense. It's mostly entertaining and sometimes can make you both feel like you're sharing braincells.
Having them cheer you up when you're upset. Showing you things to make you feel better, uplifting you and trying to build your self esteem, comforting you by being fun and also kind. They want you to feel okay, but also want to support you and show you that it's alright to feel upset without shame.
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idk man if it was me i just would have exposed my torrid love affair in front of the whole studio audience right there on live tv
or: i needed to redraw That One Scene but it's jackharl. 🫶
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Do you and your F/Os plan dates or hang outs, or do yall just show up at each other's doors? Or does it turn into a date or hang out session cause you two end up turning a casual moment into it?
Do yall plan it for each other as surprises? Or discuss it together and pick out something that sounds nice together?
Any particular ones you're fond of or that yall have repeatedly done?
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Hey selfshippers, interact with this post if it's okay to send you asks or interact with your posts about your f/os! I love seeing specific ship content for you guys along with general selfship imagines/content and wanna support and join in on the fun of community :)
Please no pro.shippers please and thank you
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interact with this post if you selfship with your own OCs, or someone else's OCs! i'd love to bring the oc selfshipping community together more.
proship/comship dni.
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