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this is exactly how male dominance worked and works throughout the history - they were always much better in silencing women than in improving the quality of life for all the human kind.

(They’re ready to pay even the highest price possible for that. Remember how they were surprised that WW1 soldiers had hysteria, a “woman’s issue”, before they finally realized it was all along the symptoms of PTSD which they ignored while studying female patients with severe psychological traumas. They made up a whole fake scientific concept just to silence women, even if it was crucial for the human kind itself.)

the “op is a terf” and the fact that it works only makes it clear how much influence men still have over women, because silencing woman is so easy nowadays, and actually, there’s no similar concept that would boycott a man with such ease and efficiency. men, especially famous men in power, can get away with the most violent crimes possible and still get adored and respected - the rapists, pedos and wife beaters. but a woman says “I don’t like men in skirts in our bathroom” and she is silenced as quick as possible. this patriarchal system works and worked so well throughout the centuries. but nowadays, as soon as we gained the possibility to spread and share information as quick as them, we can fight back.

“op is a man in a wig and makeup claiming to be a woman to get access to girls’ changing room”, how about that?

it is really astounding to me how much power the phrase "OP is a terf" holds. like the post could be "women are being killed so their bodies can be sold to men" and everyone will ignore it if "OP is a terf." it could be "women are more likely to die in car crashes because car safety is only tested on males, and the same goes for medications, which are only tested on males" and if someone comments "OP is a terf" suddenly all those women don't matter. suddenly all the trafficked, murdered, abused, women don't matter because "OP is a terf." it's so transparent that modern liberal "feminists" don't give a flying fuck about actually addressing women's real issues and that their only form of activism is sending rape threats to women who call Jonathan Yaniv a he.

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I remember being horrified when Billie turned 18 and her era, look and songs changed IMMEDIATELY. She was a teenager, wearing comfy clothes, behaving “nonchalantly” (sorry for the term, but she was way more free in her expression, postures, actions when performing etc, like she was allowed to be quirky) but then… the whole internet counted days before she became “legal”. This was so disgusting. I am a couple of years older than Billie and I wasn’t that into radical feminism, but I was so horrified by it. And when I saw her in these lingeries, in Marlyn dress, her “adult” look and sexualized era, her “I am proud to be a wh#re” things she said, I was so horrified. It’s like the whole industry paid to undress the you g female celebrity as soon as it became legal. It’s like the whole world said “look, girlies, you can jump around the stage in oversized shorts and t-shirt when you’re a teen, but as soon as you turn 18, you belong to us. No more comfort. No more childlike carefree behavior. You are a public property now. Your free time is over.”. I was so disappointed, disgusted and saddened that I stopped listening to her and even checking what’s happening, because it was another “young female celebrity gets harassed and brainwashed into sexdoll as soon as possible” case in media. To me, it was such a traumatizing and horrible thing to witness, when a woman I enjoyd to look at and a woman I admired publicly changed into lingerie, eroticism and assumed she “enjoys being a wh#re”. I don’t blame Billie in anything, I’m just saying what if felt like to see this.

it really showcases how quickly young people develop and change when just two years ago, billie eilish did her infamous happier than ever album cycle, which was highly sexualised, blonde Marilyn Monroe style, and she swore up and down that that was her, she was confident about herself, and that she knew what she was doing.

Now for this new album cycle, when talking about her previous era, she says that that wasn't her, she lost who she was and felt like a different person, that everything got to her, she couldn't see herself objectively, and that her first album was so much more of who she is and she wants to return to that girl again.

It took just three years. Which I and anyone can heavily relate to, feeling like you know who you are in the moment, but every single year you look back and feel like that you a year ago was too young to understand, but then the you now will be in the same position in a year.

That's why though I have criticized her, I still feel a ton of empathy for her and her position, and try to support her. She's having to go through that societal grooming we all go through on a much bigger scale and on the public stage.

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who. who the hell says it looks bad. oh my god. It looks OKAY. It looks GOOD.

I spent so many years in my life learning that I’m not supposed to have a flat masculine chest to look good in hoodies/shirts/sweaters, that the existence of my breasts are as normal as the existence of my ears, or my hair, or my legs and arms. That I’m not « less cool » and « less myself » with small bulging area on my chest. that it’s just the way I am. the basic biological fact that I’m a female. and there’s nothing « not trendy » « not cool » in that, I’m not bad because I don’t look like yaoi anime genshin twink boy. holy crap this TikTok is so upsetting. And you tell us it’s not a cult…

Binder company untag.com posts shit like this to deliberately trigger young girls body dysmorphia just so they can sell some more fucking binders

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me when cave pictures

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Caves are weirder and more varied than you think

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It’s just so surprising how we are not allowed to feel hatred at all.

I tend to burn out from time to time, get tired and annoyed. I block my notifs, I quit my accounts, I get distracted or I get into online discussions with people who obviously are not worth spending my time on, just because I want to let the steam out. I rant, I vent, I let myself feel the consuming hatred from time to time, look at someone and sigh “Damn, you’re so fucking annoying. Damn, you men are such trash. Damn, this country is such a nightmare for women like me.”. I’m a human being and I tend to get tired and irritated from time to time to feel down, but hatred is what helps me cope with it, because if I openly hate it, I know I’m not “accepting it the way it is”, I’m fighting with it.

“Damn, you’re so fucking annoying. I won’t be listening to you no more, get lost. Damn, this country is such a nightmare for women like me. I hope I will witness a day when you will openly whine about women massively ruining your economy and refusing to participate in your development by ignoring men and their needs like they do in Korea rn. Damn, men are such trash. I’ll never let them near me as close as I’m letting women near me and I’ll never stop talking about the way they behave to other women, I’ll never stop showing men the consequences of their actions, I’ll spend my life on keeping them alert and nervous because someone finally speaks back.”

Feeling angry and hateful makes me know I want and I can defend myself. Seeing people react negatively on the way I behave makes me realize how powerful I actually am if you piss me off and get on my nerves. Who says it’s bad to use your anger to get what you want? It’s not that bad, actually. I’m not commuting war crimes, I’m just saying to the annoying college guy to get the fuck off me, and I won’t deny it, I feel good when someone who was rude with me becomes confused and retreats. I enjoy the good emotions in my life, the pride of my achievements, the happiness of seeing someone I love, the calmness. But I also enjoy the dark sense of joy and victory when I allow myself to protect myself in a «rude» way.

Hatred is that makes me feel good from time to time when I allow myself to feel it. Yet I still have something to learn about.

I remember even my mother teaching me that If I want to live happily and without anything on my heart I should stop hating people that hurt me. I mean, maybe she was right at some point, constantly feeling hatred might be tiring and upsetting in a long term period, and causing much suppressed stress and trauma, but damn, you can’t just NOT hate/feel suspicious about men for the things they’ve been doing with us???

Maybe it’s just that I’m young and I have much emotional resources that a woman older and more experienced than me, but i can’t imagine giving up my feeling of self safety just to stop being stressed at all. I can’t close my eyes to the things what were done to me and that were done and are done with women, just to “feel harmony with the world and my life”, I can’t put my head in the sand like that.

Maybe I really just don’t understand something, the doubts are still eating me, because as a human being, I just want a happy life without constantly thinking about the way the world hates me and I can’t let that bad feeling affect the quality of my life. On the one hand I want to live without any back thoughts and stop spending my time on suspicion and fear and let men constantly upset and anger me the way they are upsetting and angering me with horrid things they do, because I only live once, but on the other I’m afraid that as a woman, I’m simply not allowed to relax and let my guard down even once in my life, and moreover, hatred is that helps me cope with that, eh?

Being constantly alert seems safer, than hiding my head in the sand, but it doesn’t feel right either. Maybe because I’m still young, self-doubting and I didn’t figure it out yet, and maybe I’ll get to my own sense of harmony someday.

Or maybe I should ask my parents, relatives, women I know, about how they cope. They seem careless and ignoring, but they actually lived through all of this, and they learned to survive in the world full of hatred towards women. Maybe some of them never paid attention to the problem, but recently, maybe because of my own words and the way I speak with my family, I seem to hear more often from them about their difficulties with men and how to deal with them and protect myself. Because… even those women who wear pink glasses, they have a survival experience. They know how to protect themselves, physically and mentally, they know roads to pick, drinks to avoid, words to get alerted on, and they learned to cope with that feeling of despair through ages, either with ignoring it or feeling hatred.

I can’t hide from the truth like some older women tend to, I already cannot, but I can’t let this horrid truth poison my life and make me constantly scared and hurt as well. I’ll have to figure out how to live with the fact of men’s existence.

It’s just funny how I have to “find a way to both live happily and allow myself such strong hatred” and figure it out almost myself, because even advices from older women and the therapy won’t show the exact way. Not only because the whole society tends to keep women away from openly expressing hatred and constantly teaches young girls about “harmony, peace and happiness”. But because it’s just a part of life, and it’s a thing that no ally can teach me. They can show the way, the paths they followed, but I’m up to finding it out myself.

Sounds messy and this post is basically rambling and thinking, but I think someone will relate to that constant dilemma of “being happy” and “being safe” when it’s about letting women feel and express their rage or hatred.

they don't really want women to know how energizing feeling hatred really is

#radical feminism #radblr #feminism #ramblings

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Puking and shitting

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Western responses to the Korean radical feminist movement:

TL:DR - criticising men is evil and refusing them our bodies and labour is evil

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It’s stupid & dangerous to promote medical transition as a solution for a child’s discomfort in his/her body.

Feeling uncomfortable with your body is a part of growing up. The experience is far too subjective to be a basis for life-altering choices.

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holy fuck have y'all seen the terf page on the lgbtqia+ wiki im losing my shit

ah yes the EEVIL EEEEVIL TERFS INDOCTRINATING YOUNG LESBIANS 💀💀

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Eclipse posting

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wow, thanks for a radfem blog recommendation by the way! turns out I can even profit from an attention seeking TRA blog.

like yeah you literally reblogged my post calling me a “chaser” despite this post being flagged and not even showing in feed and tags. how did you even find me. TRA’s are really getting crazy with that witch-hunt of theirs. who’s actually a chaser xd

From r/fourthwavewomen by u/fishbethany

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Trans women don’t owe us activism… but women owe you their spaces, their sports, their bodies, they owe you letting you humiliate and silence them, not allowing raped women to have an abortion but allowing them to mutilate their bodies with injections and hrt from since they’re vulnerable depressed kids with deep self hatred.

when women fight for their freedom, it’s always “men suffer too! and what about these people! and what about those people? and tropical forests? and fishes? and stuff?!” women always OWE you to solve all your fucking problems, or “it’s not a feminism if it doesn’t include men’s rights to harass girls in public restrooms” shit. but when a man has a possibility to make it easier for women who’ve been fighting for the abortion right for so long? “Nah, we don’t owe you activism”.

Your male nature. That fucking shows. Men always ask for stuff and services, and for activism to profit from women’s voices and efforts, but they won’t do shit for us. A man with a power of freeing thousands of women from dehumanizing laws will never use this power to help them.

Because powered men don’t have any compassion.

Men are NOT feminists’ allies.

Thinking about how abortion rights were overturned, then 4 months later, Dylan Mulvaney got to meet Biden, and how he could have denied that request and made a public statement telling the US Government that he would only meet the president when abortion was reinstated. That would have been a HUGE feminist ally moment. It would have put more social pressure on the government.

Instead, he agreed and talked about how plastic surgery should be OK for minors.

This was a crucial point proving that the trans movement exists to derail women's rights and real political action.

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TW: men

why tf is “trans rights” hashtag on tumblr is full of uncensored pics of men showing off their genitals/bulges, sexualizing humiliating women and describing the “womanhood” with slurs like “sissy, wh*re, daddy’s girl”, and everyone is chill about it? a man can show off d-pics and just say that “true womanhood is being slutty and craving to be used” without being called out for that just because this man wears a wig, a bra and makeup? what the actual hell tumblr, it’s on the “trending” page, and in popular posts. my goddess, we’re still letting men satisfy their exhibitionist fetishes and just show off their genitals to random women.

screenshots under the cut (still a TW)

#radfem #radblr #radical feminism #radical feminist community #radical feminists do interact #radfems please touch

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there was a trans march in mexico city days ago where this man, after lifting his skirt and flashing his underwear, yelled "hope your daughter gets raped, b*tch!" at a female cop.

TRAs and their obsession with sending rape threats to anyone that dares to disagree with them... nothing new.