i see so often people talk about how labels like lesbian or gay are limiting and are boxes into which they do not fit and I wonder if this is because people turned sexualities into personalities and they no longer see lesbian as a woman who is attracted to woman but as a set of characteristics in which they do not fit. no one ever says that calling themselves blue-eyed is limiting even though being blue-eyed and a lesbian are both innate things which are just. there. I hate sexualities being called labels or identities for that reason, like it does a good job in separating our sexuality from us
Y'all complain about how men don't believe women to be capable of making a joke, and then you turn around and act the same way toward Taylor Swift. She's a brilliant lyricist, and she's also fucking hilarious! Y'all think her lyrics are cringey because you think she's being serious 100% of the time. She's not! Sometimes, she is being funny and silly!
every time I see a post about taylor lyrics I can't help think that she's being funny on purpose but ppl don't think women can't be funny. like tortured poets department is a funny name like that could be a douglas adams bit and ppl keep taking these "cringe" lyrics out of context and saying how dumb she is to think she's a tortured poet. I don't think she thinks that I think maybe she is funny on purpose...