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[radicallyles]

love ur mind !

much love!

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Hi! Just thought I would say it’s nice that you don’t let those (presumably) adult anons emotionally manipulate you into giving up your principles. To me it’s so obvious they’re trying to target the qualities women and girls “should” have under patriarchy like prioritizing the needs of others above ourselves to our own detriment, and kindness above all else even if it gets us hurt.

Glad to see you shut them down! Stay strong ❤️

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#radical feminist community #answered

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Same anon again I decided to be a copycat and started to listen rock bc of this manga 😭

aww im glad!

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can we get some momentum going against tumblr user patricia-taxxon please.... she's a trans woman who likes to sexually roleplay as a teenage girl and as a puppy in diapers and gets off to the idea of incestuous sexual abuse

i dont like looking at sexual tra stuff often but if anyone wants to check it out and or report it please do so!

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Omg is that one ask about married men getting asked to every radfem? I swear I’ve seen that same ask on at least 9 radfem blogs by now

yess it was so weird 😭 prob a kink thing

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omg this was fun thx

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This one isn't printable, but still. A little gif for when you feel like being mean 🤷‍♀️

[radicallyles]

TW- abuse, I will have to explain in a graphic way.

I have recently began to listen more to terf communities, as I found myself agreeing with everything completely I also began to question a situation I was in with a TIM. I have really wanted to express my feelings on what happened.

About two years ago I was completely excepting of transgender identities and as a bisexual woman I had seen no issue with dating a trans woman. After being asked out and beginning to date him I noticed he was extremely sexual and everytime I saw him we would have to have sex. He would also look at porn all the time, and constantly turn any conversation sexual.

From the beginning I started to feel uncomfortable and was questioning breaking up, but I didn't have much relationship experience and was afraid of breaking up and how to go about it.

During sex he would look at porn and had multiple times told me things he didn't like about my appearance. He knew I struggled with an eating disorder and had recently gained weight after recovering, but would comment on how he wished I was thinner. After seeing my old pictures from when I was sick I remember him saying, "You're cute now, but wow you looked so good back then." which hurt so bad.

He had a fetish for exposing himself publicly and forcing me to do so. I was uncomfortable with it and would constantly say no all the time. I was forced to give oral sex in a public space against my will. I insisted I didn't want to, but after I was pushed to do it I decided I didn't want to make a scene and got it over with.

Later in the relationship we went to the gym together. I had no idea he was going to use the womens locker room. I expressed being uncomfortable with that and was told that it made him feel bad. When I go to the gym I like to have a light workout then swim in the pool they have, when I change into my bathing suit I've always done so in a stall. When I attempted to go into the stall he told me that I had to change in the open part of the locker room with him since he was nervous exposing his penis in a womans locker room. I tried to encourage him to just use the stall, but it wasn't going to happen so I changed with him quickly and was praying no one came into the locker room at that time. To this day I still feel guilty for that, I feel like I allowed him to expose himself there.

He kept suggesting to have CNC roleplay no matter how much I said I wouldn't like to, he would describe exactly how he would rape me.

(This one is the most graphic) During one night he wanted to have sex, while I was handcuffed and use the vibrating magic wand on me. This wand isn't supposed to be inserted since it's extremely large. I never told him it was ok to put it inside of me. The second I felt it go in, it wasn't vibrating at this point I told him to stop. He then turned the switch on and was thrusting it inside of me, not taking it out like moving it in me. I was screaming at this point that it hurts. When he removed it and uncuffed me I saw blood on the toy and shouted that there was blood on it. He then looked down at me and said, "Oh my god that's a lot of blood." I put my hand up to it and felt it extremely wet, not like normal. When I pulled my hand up it was covered in blood. I started to panic and he told me to go to the bathroom. After I sat on the toilet bleeding and in pain he drove me to the store so I could get pads, PH safe feminine wipes (toliet paper hurt because of what happened and how much blood I had kept wiping), and some extra strength painkillers that didn't help. When I went to the gynecologist later on she told me it was a vaginal tear. It wasn't extreme enough to need stitches or anything like that as the night it happened the bleeding did stop, but I still wanted to see a OBGYN to make sure everything was ok. Before seeing the OBGYN my ex still wanted to have sex when it hadnt been long at all since the injury. At one point I started to have thick discharge and he saw it and called it disgusting (the OBGYN said the discharge was cause of the tear and because it was healing) after seeing the tear he then didn't want to have vaginal sex, and said we should do anal. I didn't want to, but felt like I might as well just do it instead of arguing.

Eventually one night I had a horrible breakdown and began crying so much. I begged him over and over to leave my house because I just wanted to be alone. He said he would leave, but first wanted to take some of my clothes and began picking out things of mine he wanted to wear. When he did leave I called a friend and began crying and asking if she or anyone of our friends would be mad at me for breaking up with him. (They all knew and were friends with him.) She encouraged me to break up with him and said things that I thought at the time were transphobic. When I explained the injury and the discharge she said "That is why he will never be a woman." I completely agree with her sentiment and realize that she actually cared for and wanted to protect me.

After the breakup he kept contacting me and followed me and the friend to a coffee shop once. I realized he could see my location on snapchat. After completely blocking I havent seen him since, which I'm very glad about.

Discovering these groups has made me realize I completely agree with radfems and also made me think about this situation a lot. I feel he was clearly an AGP and was addicted to sex. I feel like realizing he wasn't a woman and that what he was doing was wrong and admitting is good because I don't have to feel wrong being angry or upset about what happened. I felt like if I even talked about it to my friends who knew him I'd be seen as transphobic. When I did hear the one friend condemning him by saying he was wrong and he would never be a woman, I felt like she was transphobic. I feel as well very guilty over what happened in the locker room and I am so glad no one did come in.

I wanted to share because it pertains to this topic and also to actually put out what happened to me during that time.

[radicallyles]

people of color don't have to make white people comfortable in their fight against racism. lgbt people don't have to make cishet people comfortable in their fight against homophobia. people with disabilities don't have to make able bodied people comfortable in their fight against ableism. FUCK THE OPPRESSORS!

...but women really shouldn't be so mean to men, i mean, they're hurt by the patriarchy too, not all men, have a heart, you fascist bitch :/

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this is how trans people sound

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Palestinian women being killed is a feminist issue.

Palestinian girls being killed is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women and girls being raped by IDF soldiers is a feminist issue.

Palestinian girls becoming orphans due to mass bombings by Israel is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women watching their children die from starvation is a feminist issue.

Pregnant Palestinian women getting C-section without anesthesia is a feminist issue.

Pregnant Palestinian women dying due to inadequate maternity care is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women and girls lacking access to menstrual products is a feminist issue.

Female Palestinian scholars, athletes, journalists, etc. being assassinated by Israel is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women and girls being degraded by Israeli and American news outlets is a feminist issue.

Palestinian girls being called anything but children is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women and girls being subjected to a genocide is a feminist issue.

Palestinian women and girls being victims of a patriarchal colonial settler state is a feminist issue.

Palestinian lesbian and bisexual women having their identities weaponized against them is a feminist issue.

Dead Palestinian lesbian and bisexual women having their identities be used as a justification for killing more Palestinians is a feminist issue.

If you support Israel, you cannot be a radical feminist, or even a feminist alone.

[radicallyles]

“You must come with me, loving me, to death; or else hate me, and still come with me” Carmilla, 1872.

[radicallyles]

This one isn't printable, but still. A little gif for when you feel like being mean 🤷‍♀️

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my dear mutual: just got a nice cold beverage!

lostelvenqueen: yeah so you're a fucking lying bigot. no because. the fucking facts are right there. youre proven to be a fucking bigot and bigot and proven and lying. the say we can when we are meant by the we

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168K likes THE GIRLS ARE PEAKING

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disgusted

Radblr, I know yall have seen it. How we feeling about that Dylan Mulvaney song?💀

[radicallyles]

The creepiest thing about bdsm "safe word" requirement is that it's training moids to completely ignore "no" or "stop" and associating that with pleasure.