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Shoutout to ‘ugly’ trans women who feel discouraged from transitioning because most leftists only care about and support trans women when they look conventionally attractive and easy to fetishise.

Shoutout to ‘ugly’ trans women who are afraid to transition because they feel like they’re ‘not attractive enough’ to be a woman.

You are not ‘failing’ at womanhood, or being trans, because you don’t fit into conventional beauty standards. You are not ‘failing’ womanhood because you don’t look as attractive as some other trans women, and you are not ‘lesser’ than them.

Because unfortunately womanhood is directly associated with this idea that you exist to be consumed by others, that you exist to be palatable. Performing femininity can be a chore, an expensive one, that is quite inaccessible and difficult to achieve.

Expecting trans women to hyper-perform their gender roles flawlessly to be accepted is just blatant transphobia and misogyny. It’s everywhere.

So. Shoutout to ‘ugly’ trans women. I hope that one day, you will find the confidence to live happily and authentically, regardless of what cis people think. Their support should not hinge on how ‘attractive’ or ‘fuckable’ you are. We all deserve liberation.

#trans positivity #trans joy #transfem positivity #lgbt positivity #transfem #trans pride #trans woman #lgbt #queer joy

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here’s to all the weird little girls growing up into even weirder men

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Sephora in Australia had the WORST Black Friday sale this year, like thanks, you’re giving me a 15% discount if I spend $100 on a bunch of overpriced $65 bronzers.

Are you kidding me.

What is this tomfoolery 😭😭😭The AUDACITY to call that a sale…

#actually WHY is makeup so expensive in Australia #if i gotta spend $100 to get a minuscule discount thats not even a sale let alone BLACK FRIDAY like????? help??? #anyway. i have no hope that next year’s sales will be better.

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Anyway it's stupid how mainstream media has picked up on words like boypussy as being about cis men. I won't deny that cis men do use the word (even though it definitely makes me feel weird about them) but it's very much a trans man thing. To not even mention trans men on the wikipedia page for boypussy is stupid. Like the word is so obviously about trans men, do better.

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are we really shitting ourselves and calling it ""trans masc privilege" because the like 1% of trans mascs who

are white

are thin

transitioned as early as physically/legally possible

AND

don't have any faggy mannerisms or The Voice

AND

choose to be stealth

....get taken more seriously at work or whatever

nevermind the fact that goes out the window the second people figure out you're trans and/or you need to go to the doctor. did we not realize with bisexuals that the hyperspecific privilege you get when you can pass as not-queer doesnt mean shit.

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People: hey we genuinely do not know current death and violence rates faced by trans mascs because, except for a few people, almost all trans masculine people are categorized as women experiencing random violence or, occasionally, homophobic hate crimes, rather that recorded as being trans people facing hate crimes

Someone with their head shoved so far up their own ass they've got partially digested corn stuck to their eyelashes: ahh see this proves that trans mascs almost never face violence especially compared to trans fems. If they did the statistics would be higher! I am very smart.

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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

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Been a hot minute, but behold! A WIP Wednesday!!

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Ok, so let me explain why rebloging posts like these do little to nothing to assure Jews that they’ll be safe around you.

Goyim reblogging this stuff don’t typically listen to Jews (which is apparent because we’ve said stuff like this doesn’t actually do anything to help us many times) about their experiences with antisemitism or listen when Jews try to educate them on things like antisemitic dog whistles or blood libel. Most of them are way more enthusiastic about punching Nazis than they are about showing any compassion to Jews. I’d venture to guess the majority of Jewish people know that often the goyim who reblog this stuff are just out for blood and don’t give a damn about us, because we’ve seen this many times. Not to mention that the desire for a violent revolution that some leftists seem to have has led to Jewish people facing a lot of antisemitism (at their hands). I would bet that some of the people reblogging this act similar to Nazis themselves. I know at the very least the goyim rebloging this don’t listen to Jews because we’ve said many times that this sort of thing doesn’t really do anything to help us, and we’d much rather goyim call out and learn about antisemitism. Overall, it’s just very performative activism, and it’s pretty obvious that the goyim reblogging this are just doing it to try and make themselves look better, and not for the sake of Jews.

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Are…?

I mean.

With Aidens, then shripmdicks, and theyfabs, tmras, truthers, and the more recent socks…

Are there any other groups that have as many terms coined to deride from within a group of supposed allies?

And why is coining another derogatory way to refer to us more acceptable than us coining a way to talk about our experiences?

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There are few things that annoy me more than misinformation that’s technically on my side. Misinformation in support of a cause that I wholly believe in, but which is still bullshit and false.

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okay yeah youre a girlboy boygirl genderfucky malewife but are you like normal abt bigender ppl

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if "vagina-haver" was were first proposed by a radfem you know literally every terf everywhere would be using it. like terfs would be talking about how "menstruator" is such a powerful radical term to identify with because it centers the menstrual blood that symbolizes womens power or whatever. like how am i supposed to take criticisms of this seriously ohhhhh hold on everybody the people who can't go five seconds without basing their identity on having a pussy want to preach about how medical language focused on pussy is misogynistic

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navigating lesbian spaces as a lesbian man on testosterone is NOT fun lmaooo help… ‘men dni, only lesbians interact 🥰’ girl i got bad news for you. some of us are both. did you forget about nonbinary people orrrrr are we just too complicated for y’all to cope with lmao. ‘i love weird queer freaks 🥰’ no u don’t y’all can’t even handle nonbinary people with sexualities that don’t fit into your normative tiny little boxes. go away with your performative nonsense.

#as per usual y’all forget that multigender people also fit under the nonbinary label #nonbinary is not a 3rd gender #its a fucking umbrella term and shit gets messy #nonbinary lesbian #gonna regret tagging this but im doing it anyways #the IRL queer spaces and people I’ve encountered have been mostly weirded out by my existence #maybe im just unlucky…. I live in a very conservative small town. #all my IRL queer friends live in the city but I can’t afford that. #it’s so isolating #yeah im ranting into the void again.