pluralcultureis

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plural culture is realizing everything gets worse when your system is diagnosed. please don’t go through all the hoops just because you feel you need to prove yourself. it’s so hard to get gender affirming surgery/treatment after a dissociative disorder diagnosis

Getting diagnosed can be terrifying

It can help in some ways, and it can be validating

But honestly yeah, proving yourself should not be why you get diagnosed

I say this about a lot of disorders, but self diagnosis is very valid

I don't need a doctor to tell me I'm on fire, I know I'm on fire. I need a doctor to tell me how to treat certain fires

Those fires are the ones I got diagnosed with

Some fires I just hop in the shower and I'm fine, I don't need a doctor for that

Diagnosis is such an incredibly personal and difficult thing to do, and why you get one is your choice, but it is important sometimes to weigh pros and cons and figure out what's best for you

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Plural culture is ((NSFW))

Okay, I wanna start being (Wario noise) with my partner. Wait...

WHAT IF A LITTLE FRONTS, HOLY CRAP, ID NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF!!!! (Semi-Dramatic, semi-real sobbing)

It gets a bit complicated in that area doesn't it

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Plural culture is wanting more of a community who Gets It while also being well aware that traumatized people, especially unhealed traumatized people, are inevitably toxic as FUCK.

Like no offense but that's why so many online system spaces are Like That. Y'all need doctors not discord 😭

you can choose not to be toxic of course you're not automatically toxic because you're traumatized but many people simply do not care bc it's allllll abt themselves and their system like stfu seriously half the people in this community just perpetuate cycles that have no business being leveled against any other system.

"who hurt you" a lot of people so

Honestly yeah it kinda sucks

When you grow up surrounded by trauma and toxic environments you don't just magically end up unaffected by what you've been taught is okay

It takes a lot to unlearn that and you have to be willing to try

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Plural Culture is like half of us don't know how our disorder works because only certain alters get that information and it's insanely frustrating

Yeah sure, Ghost or Dark could tell you about a thousand things about the disorder and how it works and why

Me?

Uhh people in head?? Trauma made brain upset and gave people in head?

I don't understand it, and knowing that peopleni SHARE A BRAIN WITH do is annoying. Stop gatekeeping information from me, brain

- Chaos

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plural culture is being filled with so much love and affection for your alters that you end up gushing about how proud of them you are in your shared journal

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Plueal culture is feeling guilty because you're a brainmade fictive (brainmade w a source) and in your universe a literal scumbag was way nicer and feeling terrified to talk about him ☹️

I understand his CANON self is disgusting, fuck him.. But MY one would never

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plural culture is planning to go to bed but then an alter decides screw that and stays up all night consuming content

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plural culture is having so many horror fictives that one time when a new alter came in, they got jumpscared so bad by one of the fictives. like yeahhhh sorry bro we got multiple Scary Masked Men up here . yeahhhhhh my bad

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plural culture is wanting more plural friends but being terrible at communicating with new people 😮‍💨

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[pluralcultureis]

hey there! how long does it usually take for you to post an ask? are you backed up?

Its usually posted within 24 hours, our queue is pretty small rn

I am aware someone keeps deleting asks though and I have no idea why, so if yours doesn't get posted within 24 hours that's probably why

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Plural culture is standing in your bedroom on your phone for so long that your carpet has foot prints and realising that someone who doesn’t know math was just trying to use the calculator.

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Plural culture is needing two suitcases for a weekend away because you have no idea who is going on vacation.

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plural culture is *hysterical terrified sobbing* wait what i don't cry like this why am i scared *sudden calm but still VERY aware of the terror despite not feeling it*

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plural culture is having constant migraines (with aura!)

love not being able to see because the brain decided the right eye can only see flashing black and white lines for a bit

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Plural culture is hearing a comment in your head and wondering if that was just a normal thought or someone commenting from the headspace.

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plural culture is being upset because you want sushi but you/someone? also want dairy queen and you cant have both so now both you and the guy in co con are upset and crying

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People are posting u o system cringe, take care /gen

We've gotten a couple asks about this recently so we're gonna use this one to respond

We very honestly do not care if we end up there. Being a system online is going to get you on that subreddit regardless of how your system functions, what you post, etc etc

Fakeclaimers opinions mean nothing to us, and while we do understand the gesutre of letting us know we've been posted, it doesn't bother us and we'd rather not receive asks about it

Thank you for looking out for us, but we've learned to just avoid reddit as a whole and ignore whatever bullshit they put out lol

Fakeclaimers are never going to think we're real, most the subreddit doesn't even believe in the disorder, and those that do are so severely undereducated or misinformed on it they might as well not believe in the disorder

So we don't care about what goes on in that subreddit

#endos dni #not culture is