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this morning i met up with someone to go bikeriding. i rode just over 13 miles (!!!!!!) according to google maps (?!?!?!). i was not prepared at all and now i feel like i’m dead & i don’t even think the feelings of pride & accomplishment have the ability to arise in my poor body right now

#it triggered my asthma so i feel horrible rn lmao :') #but i don't even think i got sunburned or bitten by mosquitos!!! that's great!

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Hey Tumblr, I hate to ask for help but I desperately need a miracle to keep me and my family from being homeless in the next couple of days. About a year ago my mom lost her job, and I’ve been supporting her since. Money’s been tight, but then earlier this summer she lost her unemployment benefits, and now we’re faced with living out of our car. I’m especially worried about the heat, because a diabetic, a cat, and a dog can’t really survive in 95-degree weather.   We’re out of family to help, and we don’t qualify for any public assistance because my $15/hour job that supports two people isn’t considered low enough for food stamps or housing assistance in a place where the average rent takes about half of my pay every month. It’s been so bad my mom’s even broken her toes and we haven’t been able to afford a doctor visit. We’ve both been job hunting, but I’ve been turned down for everything and mom has too, even part-time jobs. I’m out of options. If anyone who reads this can donate something, even if it’s $1, I’d be forever grateful. I need about $1,250 to pay deposits and first month’s rent to afford a one-bedroom apartment, and $2,500 to get us into a house, but anything could pay for a motel for a night.                  

#gofundme #money t

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Hey Tumblr, I hate to ask for help but I desperately need a miracle to keep me and my family from being homeless in the next couple of days. About a year ago my mom lost her job, and I’ve been supporting her since. Money’s been tight, but then earlier this summer she lost her unemployment benefits, and now we’re faced with living out of our car. I’m especially worried about the heat, because a diabetic, a cat, and a dog can’t really survive in 95-degree weather.   We’re out of family to help, and we don’t qualify for any public assistance because my $15/hour job that supports two people isn’t considered low enough for food stamps or housing assistance in a place where the average rent takes about half of my pay every month. It’s been so bad my mom’s even broken her toes and we haven’t been able to afford a doctor visit. We’ve both been job hunting, but I’ve been turned down for everything and mom has too, even part-time jobs. I’m out of options. If anyone who reads this can donate something, even if it’s $1, I’d be forever grateful. I need about $1,250 to pay deposits and first month’s rent to afford a one-bedroom apartment, and $2,500 to get us into a house, but anything could pay for a motel for a night.                  

#help eia if you can! #gofundme #money t

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I love the silly nicknames people give their pets. Georgie calls her dog Ezra bean or little bean, and I often call my cat Rory chickadee. Reblog with your cute pet nicknames? ;w;

#i used to call my dog zoey poopy pup or poopy puppy #my cat lucy is lucy lu & cat buddy is budsworth; butt-e; or my son

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ugh today i feel tired & poorly. i am doing much better than a year ago or even earlier this year but i still feel lonely a lot, wtf i have friend(s)-ish now but i want to actually hang out with them without spending lots of money. how do i do this

in better news i do have an appt with a NEW therapist this week, i decided for sure to stop seeing my previous therapist about a month ago and i’m so glad i did because that was not going so great. however, like my previous therapist, this person also has a first-last name that is alliterative!

and, last week at the museum was the volunteer appreciation luncheon and i was acknowledged & praised and people clapped, wow! i also think i keep having dreams that have elements of real life to them so that i can’t distinguish what is a dream and what actually happened. why

#wrt the dreams it's not creepy stuff it's just 'did this person actually say that or whas that my dream' #i feel v socially isolated online too but idk how to interact. im sorry world

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overheard at work

woman 1: … people used to call him “Horse” woman 2: (winking) oh yeah? woman 1: yeah he used to eat grass in grade school woman 2: (disappointed) oh

#things eren says abt jean

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Endometriosis

Endometriosis—the struggle is real.  Killer cramps are NOT normal.  Periods that last longer than 7 days are NOT normal. Heavy bleeding that soaks through a tampon every 2 hours is NOT normal; pain during sex is NOT normal. Bouts of diarrhea and vomiting that accompany every menstrual cycle are NOT normal. No, no, and no!  For many people, this reality is just endometriosis at work.

Sad truth: Many of us are taught to downplay these symptoms. Our pain is diminished by parents, siblings, friends and even health care professionals who convince us that everyone goes through this.

Maybe that is why, according to the Endometriosis Foundation of America, it takes 10 years on average to receive an accurate endometriosis diagnosis. That’s a decade, people! That’s 130 periods of agony, 912 days of someone asking you to take Advil and suck it up.  That…is not okay.

Endometriosis is pervasive.  It affects 1 in 20 Americans of reproductive age and an estimated 176 million people worldwide. It occurs when tissue similar to the endometrium (the lining of the uterus) is found outside the uterus on other parts of the body.  

There are lots of symptoms that can vary among patients.  Pelvic pain is most common, as well as pain that coincides with menstruation.  Other symptoms include heavy cramps, long-lasting bleeding, nausea or vomiting, pain during sex and, unfortunately, infertility.  Some people may even experience symptoms throughout their entire cycle—a real drag.

In addition to these physical symptoms, endometriosis takes a toll on someone’s personal and professional life. Chronic pain can severely affect quality of life day-to-day; medical care can be extremely costly. Furthermore, absenteeism can alter relationships in the workplace and at home.

Despite the intense discomfort, many people do not realize they have endometriosis until they try to get pregnant. And because the disease tends to get progressively worse over time, approximately 30-40% of people who have endometriosis experience fertility challenges.

There is no simple diagnostic test for endometriosis—no blood, urine, or saliva testing can confirm the condition. The only way to verify endometriosis is to undergo a diagnostic laparoscopy with pathology confirmation of biopsy specimens.  

On the bright side, many endometriosis symptoms— including infertility—can be addressed after diagnosis. The gold standard for endometriosis treatment is laparoscopic excision surgery. This involves a careful removal of the entire endometrial lesion from wherever it grows.

The first step to getting there is recognizing that your pain is not normal and seeking timely intervention. The earlier endometriosis is detected and treated, the better the results. Tracking your symptoms will make you better informed for your next doctor’s visit, and set you on a path to better (and less painful!) menstrual health.

For more information about Endometriosis, visit www.endofound.org

#menstruation #health #q

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Lazy Tuesday with mr basil the dog 😌🐶

#ahhh #animals #dogs #q

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easy fixes for your offensive over-generalizations

sexuality is fluid!

my experience of sexuality is fluid

romantic and sexual attraction are completely different things!

I experience romantic and sexual attraction as distinct events

labels are for soup cans!

I do not need or want to label my attractions

#this is important #queerty #q

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✨🌟🌈Pastel Rainbow glitter inlay fer mahself!💁🌈🌟✨www.nailpopllc.com (at ✨🌈shop link in bio🌈✨)

#nail stuff #q

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Turkey, Taurus Mountains, March 1999

The Yörük are a group of nomadic shepherds. In the winter, they live in the low valleys along the coast of Southern Turkey. In the spring, most families move with their goats and sheep to the Yayla (higher planes) in the Bolkar Mountains. The nomadic life of the Yörük is under considerable pressure from Turkey, which is quickly modernising; many of their traditions have been lost. Some families still live in original tents of black goat’s hair, while other families own a simple house in which they live during the winter. Property developers are buying up traditional grazing areas and young people are increasingly moving to the cities. 

by Jeroen Toirkens

#photography #people #culture #q

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“How can I get more involved in intersex activism? And what’s the best way to go about educating others in intersex issues and activism?”

- Question submitted by Anonymous and answered by Claudia Astorino as part of Everyone Is Gay: Second Opinions

Claudia Says:

Hi there, ALLYNONYMOUS! (You’re being an excellent ally right now, so BOOM, your name!)  I thought you’d never ask.  It’s always fantastic to see folks that are interested in spreading the word that us fantastic intersex humans 1) exist and 2) deserve the right to keep all of our body parts at birth as they are. Intersex people exist globally and across races, classes, sexual orientations, gender identities, etc., so some groups of intersex people have specific needs that require individualized advocacy plans. Like pretty much any group of people, understanding intersex people and what it means to be intersex – and how to advocate for intersex people – isn’t a one-size-fits-all dealio.  

OKAY, COOL, LET’S CHAT MORE IN-DEPTH NOW

The first, best thing you can do to become more involved in intersex activism is:  homework.  Now, before ya go all WOMP, WOMP on me if you’re not the homeworking-type (relevant: I’m in grad school, so ‘scuse me if I’m a little over-enthusiastic on the YES, LET’S READ *ALL THE THINGS!* front), this isn’t homework-for-a-grade, but homework-to-be-a-better-human.  This kind of homework might require as much focus as [hard thing], but it is so, so worth it.  Just think: you’ll know more about a group of people that aren’t so well understood and are discriminated against, and you’ll be equipped to help spread the news and lend a hand.  Like, how rad, right?!  

Some great places to start in learning 101-level intersex basics are as follows: Brief Allies Guide (Organization Intersex International, OII – USA chapter)

Your Beautiful Child: A Guide for Parents (same source – OII, USA chapter)

Everyone Is Gay Q’s on intersex (Claudia’s Second Opinions page)

“Claudia Is Intersex, Let’s Talk About It” (Autostraddle.com)

Fixing Sex (2007), Katrina Karkazis

Once you know about what intersex is and are pretty well-versed in intersex issues, the next best thing you can do is TALK ABOUT US.  Tell someone, “Hey I was just reading this cool article about intersex people, do you know what that means?”  On social media sites, reblog, tweet, post, or retweetpost an article on intersex issues. (While there’s been many a criticism about “hashtag activism,” social media has increasingly become a means for folks to raise awareness and get educated about important issues.  My main feeling is that it can’t hurt to fire up the ol’ Facetwitblrgrams for social change!)  Loan out your copy of Fixing Sex you picked up at the local library to a friend.  SHARE, ENGAGE.  There are still a shocking number of folks out there who have never heard the word “intersex” before, and don’t know who we are or why intersex issues are human rights that they should care about.  Help get the word out, ALLYNONYMOUS!  Lots of stuff can get done – or at least get started – when people are informed and can put pressure on folks in charge to create social change.

Another thing you can do is attend an event on intersex issues!  You’ll get to learn about intersex people from other intersex people, and meet other interested allies like yourself.  Facetime can be a great thing – by attending one event, you might learn about others that are taking place.  Check out some event schedules at various LGBTQIA centers, student centers at colleges/universities, or organizations that are queer-friendly near you. If you don’t see any intersex events on the calendar already, you can always contact the group and ask if they’re planning to host any – or better yet, if you’re affiliated with one of these orgs yourself, help host one!  

Finally, if you want to get involved more in intersex activism as a fantastic ally, contact an intersex org to see if they need any help.  A good place to start is contacting your region’s closest branch of Organization Intersex International (OII) – the largest group advocating for intersex human rights of people around the globe.

Well, ALLYNONYMOUS, I think that about covers it!  Thanks for wanting to support intersex human rights, youdabest!  <3  

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Don’t beat yourself up for needing time to get it – a lot of things we now casually study were at one time revolutionary ideas.

My study buddy (via coffeemuggermd)

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boy: so u got any fantasies??

me: ok so im 28, financially stable, living in a nice apartment and i dont hate myself and i have a job and also a dog

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Race is the child of racism, not the father.

Ta-Nehisi Coates, ‘Between the World and Me’ (via scientificphilosopher)

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Jaroslav Šetelík

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Three illos for Life Monthly 

Wearable Technology/Vivienne Cafe (Shanghai)/The Lonely Journey of a Time Traveler

AD by DAO

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