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Walking back from work I saw a crow in a field of daisies, I hope it's living a good life🌼

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Okay I just finished the first season of Merlin and the dragon guy is NOT happy

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5 seasons and yet none of the events of Merlin are truly more traumatic than watching Uther Pendragon makeout with/very nearly shag a troll.

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if i was a deer the first thing i would do is get a prion disease. the second thing i would do is run into traffic

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“no matter how badly you think you’re doing it, someone else has done it a lot worse and been fine” is applicable to a wide, wide range of things and i say it to myself all the time

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Some person in a plague mask handed me this… very professional business card. Idk guys think this is legit?

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*opens the oven after preheating to 400*

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he has a flower for you!

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what is it that makes siblings so good at insulting your fashion?

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Spicy-brained friends, I would like to propose an update to the very useful ‘if you hate everyone, eat, if everyone hates you, sleep, and if you hate yourself, shower’ mantra to live by

Have you suddenly become a petty, hateful little gremlin who thinks people should face the firing squad for (checks notes) leaving teabags on the counter, breathing loudly, or daring to exist in the same space as you? Perhaps mundane and reasonable requests like ‘hey, we agreed to hang out now, let’s hang out’ make you want to scream and move to a yurt in the woods.

You. Are. Overstimulated.

People talk a lot about being overstimulated, and the physical/mental effects of it. What I haven’t seen is people talking about what it does emotionally, and it took me an embarassingly long time to link up those nitpicky, resentful emotions with the state of overstimulation/meltdown/shutdown.

These feelings do not mean that you’re a bad person! They probably aren’t how you actually feel about the people around you. They probably do mean that your nervous system is at its absolute limit and any request/demand/stimulus is Too Much and taking you into fight or flight territory.

Go lie down in a dark room for an hour, or find somewhere safe and familiar to stim for a bit. If it’s happening a lot, schedule yourself regular low-stimulation shutdown time

Signed: someone who moved in with their nearest and dearest only to have a massive crisis of faith about Suddenly Hating All of Them. I don’t hate them, it’s just overstimulating living with people. If I can spare anyone else a similar 9 months of suspecting that they may actually be a bit of a shit person, then this post is worth it!

#just took a shower and feel better about everything

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Gift from a faithful friends

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person who is chronically outside

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this post is basically just hunch curio

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Clicking on a new blog for a potential follow just to see their HP house in their bio