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My dear lgbt+ kids, 

One of the most heartbreaking things is the moment when someone sees the real you - and then you need to disagree because you are still in the closet. 

Here are two examples: 

- Your parents ask (again) if there are any cute boys in your school. You lie (again) that you’re too busy with studying to even think about boys. Your sister says “Well, maybe you think about girls instead? That would be okay!”. You have to say “Eww, no!” because your parents are already angrily glaring at your sister… but your sister is right. 

- Your mom is chatting with your new neighbor when he turns to you and says “And this is your daughter, I assume?”. Your mom replies, with a offended voice, “That’s my son!”. She will later tell you how rude it was of him to say that, you don’t look like a girl at all. You have to smile at her and maybe even thank her… but your neighbor was right. 

Situations like that suck. They’re so disheartening - it can feel like you’re offered a piece of food when you’re starving and then have to say “No, thanks, I’m full.”. 

These moments are one of the reasons why being in the closet is not “the easy way” or even “selfish” - being in the closet can be hecking painful. 

There’s not really the one piece of advice for such situations. “Just tell people the truth then” is oversimplified and can even be dangerous - not everyone can safely come out. “Just ignore it” is easier said than done - you’re a human being, you can’t just turn off your emotions. 

Maybe the best “advice” is simply this: You’re not alone. There are many people who understand how much it hurts, people who have been in similar situations. We feel your heartbreak, or your anger, We see you. 

As uncouth as it sounds: We are all in this sh*t together. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

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