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wild how people had a lot of feelings about an empty building burning down in paris but when the lives of over a hundred sudanese civilians are taken in a massacre, most of the internet wants to stay mute. y’all cried legit tears over a piece of white history being on fire but turn the other cheek when african lives are being taken violently.

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my friend & roommate robin needs help saving up for a laptop, and also relies on donations for most expenses like rent and food. they are increasingly unable to work due to mental illness. please reblog & donate to help her stay afloat! 💞

their twitter is @cuntgiomerate , where there’s also a link to their onlyfans account.

paypal: paypal.me/grinlikeroadkill

venmo: @amoonshapedpool

cash app: $therearetrapdoors

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Homophobia is killing our kids and I will never quiet about it.

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I’m already seeing very Islamophobic comments on twitter because of Ramadan, so I just want to tell all my fellow Muslims to be safe, and have patience. The whole point of Ramadan is to resist temptation, so know that we will continue to face these obstacles everyday because we unfortunately live in a world filled with ignorant people. I’ve also seen people intentionally posting pictures of bacon.

That being said, be calm. Be respectful. Be good to those who mistreat you as well. Be the better person. Because you can’t reason with ignorance. They will never learn.

Ramadan Mubarak.

I also encourage non-Muslims to reblog this.

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PLEASE REBLOG FOR EPILEPTIC FRIENDS!!

Tumblr has fucked up once again and disregarded the safety of Epileptic people!

DON’T CLICK ON THE NEW FILTER LINK IF YOU ARE SENSITIVE TO FLASHING IMAGES It takes you straight to a page where the header is a ton of flashing colours that could easily trigger an epileptic episode! Please tell any of your epileptic friends to avoid clicking this for their safety!! please spread the word!!!

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enny owl

This is enny owl. She’s a talented singer with a beautiful and unique voice. Her music style makes me think of dodie’s. She too started by making covers on Youtube but she also makes original songs.

She’s currently releasing the music videos for her EP ‘Scented Cigarettes’. Each video picks up where the last one stopped and they tell the story of a girl who is crushing on her friend (who seems to be straight).

Here is her Youtube channel and here is the link to the Scented Cigarettes videos playlist! She has a lot of potential and I’d be very happy to see her get more popular 💜

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Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone] (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: [phone]

National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone]

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: [phone]

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: [phone] (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: [phone]

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: [phone] (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

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Holocaust survivor Max Mannheimer (1920-2016) told his story to thousands of pupils.

“Ihr seid nicht schuld an dem, was war, aber verantwortlich dafür, dass es nicht mehr geschieht.”

English: “Your’re not to blame for what happened, but responsible that it doesn’t happen anymore.”

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Today is Holocaust Memorial Day.

An estimated 17 million men, women and children were murdered for not being white, straight christians.

17 million. And that is an just an estimate.

It didn’t start with the gas chambers, it started with hate speech to divide a nation, book burning, intolerance and laws to isolate minorities. The people became so desensitied to it all that it became ‘normal’. And others decided that appeasing Nazis was a perfectly viable plan.

Sound familiar?

And this happened in living memory. There are still people alive today that remember what happened and who somehow managed to survive the camps: your grandparents and great-grandparents.

DON’T turn a blind eye to intolerance. Call it out whenever you see it. History always remembers.

History will remember us and what we didn’t do to stop the rising tide of hatred.

Remember why we punch Nazis.

#NeverAgain

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The amount of people that believe that Nicolas Maduro was chosen democratically baffles me. All elections since 2004 have been rigged to keep this government in power. I’ve seen ballot boxes be burned, I’ve seen the government use the identification numbers of dead people to get more votes.

A third of the Venezuelan crowd eats once a day.

Last time I spoke to my grandmother, she told me she hadn’t been able to take a shower in ten days because she didn’t have water.

My father got robbed more times than I can count when we still lived there.

My father, when I was accepted in the most recognised university of Venezuela (UCV — which is HIS university too), told me he didn’t want me to go because he feared for my life.

During my last two years of high school, almost every month someone I knew was either going to a goodbye party or leaving the country themselves. I went to the airport four times the summer I left.

My brother had to drop out of university in the middle of his course because he couldn’t get there due to lack of transportation.

Millions of kids and teenagers have left their school because they can’t afford it. Teenagers around my age (16 at the time) would come up to my dad to ask him for bread.

Children and elders die of malnutrition every day. And if you don’t die of starvation, you die due to sicknesses.

You can’t find basic products, and if you can you can’t afford them. When I went to school at five in the morning, I’d already seen a bunch of people lined up in the supermarkets to see what was arriving. Sometimes they didn’t even know, but they made the line either way.

If you don’t live in the capital, there’s a chance your light gets cut off on the daily for hours.

If you study in the capital, there’s a chance your classes get stopped at least once a month unless you go to a private university.

During the riots of 2017, over a hundred people died in the span of three months. Thousands were injured.

If you ask any Venezuelan, 98% will tell you they’ve lost someone they know to the insecurity of our country.

My aunt had a gun pointed at her for her phone, and she was lucky she made it to walk away from that because the majority wind up dead.

When I went on Instagram an hour ago, I found out people from my home town are being shot IN THEIR OWN HOMES.

You think we chose this?

Think again.

The government of Nicolas Maduro isn’t legitimate. That man has more blood on his hands than any politician I’ve seen on the news. He deserves to go to prison and rot in there to pay for all the deaths and suffering he’s caused.

So when we hear the word “coup”, we think “ FINALLY” because we’ve been fighting for too long. I was born into this dictatorship. It’s the only government I ever knew.

What Venezuelans want is for their votes to matter, for their voices to be heard, for their loved ones to return.

What Venezuelans want is peace.

So give us fucking peace.

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Dear gringos who don’t know shit about what’s going on in Venezuela (or the rest of latin america) and are defending Nicolás Maduro like he’s an innocent victim: I’d like to remind you that it costs 0 dollars to keep your mouths shut

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Mods are asleep post forbidden tits

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reblog before december 17th

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Everyone reblog this as much as possible over the next two weeks for good luck

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Please Help Me Save My Dog

For those of you who follow me you probably know I got a puppy recently who I named Honeydew (this is her the day I brought her home)

(And this is a picture of her from yesterday)

I got Honeydew to be my ESA (emotional support animal) after encouragement from my therapists, psychiatrist, and family due to the fact that I have had issues with mental illness and behavioral problems since I was 6 years old (I am now 18) and animals give me a lot of relief from the symptoms and stress caused by this. When I brought her home everything was going great, I had a healthy, active, and happy puppy, that is until this Wednesday morning when I woke up to her being lethargic, vomiting, and refusing to eat. I took her to the vet, and she was a healthy weight and even a bit large for her age, she was alert albeit still lethargic and the vet told me it’s probably parasites/worms or it could be parvovirus (a very very very serious and fatal virus for puppies) but she was optimistic that Honeydew was just suffering from an upset stomach due to worms/parasites and gave her deworming medication but told me to get in touch with her immediately if her symptoms worsened. The next day Honeydew was back to her normal self, she was active, eating, and playful (though she still had some diarrhea) and because of that I let my guard down assuming the issue was resolved. I was wrong.Yesterday morning(friday) I woke up and went to check on her only to be greeted by clear vomit and diarrhea everywhere. She was again refusing to eat but not too lethargic, regardless I called the vet and made her an appt for their soonest availability, cleaned everything, and went to school for a few hours. When I got home I went straight to check on her and she hadn’t pooped or vomited so I was hopeful it had subsided, I, again, was wrong. After about 10 minutes I noticed how skinny she looked, as if she hadn’t eaten in weeks (I encouraged her to eat but she refused so I have made attempts to feed her I didn’t just leave her like that lol) and not even 5 minutes later she vomited blood three times in less than 10 minutes. I immediately called my vet who told us to call the ER who told us to come in ASAP so less than 25 minutes later we arrived and were rushed into an examination room. Honeydew was extremely dehydrated, and tested positive for parvovirus which the ER vet called lovingly referred to as “Ebola for puppies”.

I had the choice of having her hospitalized so she could have around the clock care which would have costed me well over $2,000 or I could try to take care of her at home for a (somewhat) more affordable price. I had no choice but to treat her out-patient since I have no way of funding her hospitalization which dropped her chances of survival from 80-90% to about 65% IF my care for her is PERFECT with absolutely 0 mistakes. The thing is I cannot afford her treatment at all, I’m a full-time college student working night shifts part-time and had been relying fairly heavily on my savings for the past 2 months due to my hours at work being cut down by more than half. She needs frequent vet visits to survive this and I absolutely can’t afford this. I had money saved for her standard vet visit where she would get vaccinated etc. but I never expected anything like this to happen. The ER visit cost me $420 that I don’t have and she’ll need to see the vet multiple times over the next 1-3 weeks which will probably put me out another $300-400+ that I don’t have. 

I wouldn’t do this unless it was a last resort which it unfortunately is. She wants to live so so so so bad even the vet said that the fact she responded and tried to struggle against being poked with all those shots they gave her was a good sign. Watching as she struggles to raise her head, struggles to drink water and watching her try to walk and almost being unable to breaks my heart in a way I can’t explain. How she went from a happy go lucky baby girl to a fur covered skeleton in 24 hours absolutely baffles and devastates me. I’m doing my absolute best to be on top of her medications and giving her subcutaneous fluids but if I can’t afford to continue her treatment there is a very very good chance she will die.

I am begging you please please please donate if you can, even just $1 would help. Please help me save Honeydew  

(link to Honeydew’s GoFundMe)

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May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

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