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I don’t understand why people want things they don’t have the resources for. One of my really good friends who I’ve known since I was 5 is pregnant again. She miscarried before which is really sad because she really wants a kid, but she is doing anything she can to have a kid and it doesn’t matter by who. She wants a daughter and seems to think that her life is going to be so much better once she has one. A kid isn’t going to change the fact that she still lives with her grandparents, that her employment is not consistent, or that she doesn’t have a man in her life. If one thing is true it’s that having a child by someone is not a sure way to make them stay with you. I worry for her and this child and I feel really bad because she keeps announcing that she is pregnant all over social media right after she takes the test. They always say you shouldn’t tell people until you’re past your first trimester because that is supposed to be a “safe time” and if you have the baby at least that long the chance of losing it is less. I feel like telling people and everyone congratulating her gets her hopes up really high and makes her even more excited that she’s pregnant...but I just hope she doesn’t lose another baby even though I don’t think she can handle it. I mean I’m concerned for her either way because to me she just doesn’t seem healthy mentally. She is so intensely focussed on having a daughter and looking like all the mommy daughter pictures she reposts all the time, but she I don’t think she really understands having a kid isn’t just taking cute pics in matching clothes and doing your daughter’s hair. It especially won’t be that easy when she is still struggling so much that she can’t even afford a place of her own. Living with her family will be convenient because there will be people around to take care of the baby, but that child deserves more than to be crammed in a 2 bedroom house with 7 people living in it! I feel like there is going to be a lot of pain either way and I just hope that it goes as well as it can for her. At the end of the day if you want something bad enough you’ll find a way to make it a reality or die trying.
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Me when I tell my man a bunch of super nice supportive shit and all he says back is “aw thanks!”
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Oh my gawd! My friend got a new job and she’s working for a really sketchy guy and I am doing SO MUCH to help her make her new job workout, but it’s awful. This guy has already sexually harassed her saying that she needed to compensate him sexually for the opportunities he has given her, her boss underpaid her for her first 3 weeks of work by like $200, and the office she works in doesn’t even have a working bathroom!! She refuses to quit even after all of this because she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings and I just don’t understand what the deal is. She doesn’t value her time or herself. She has no self-worth and I don’t know what to do. She’s my hottest friend and she’s really funny. She’s a great person to hangout with and she’s popular. I just don’t understand why she has no self-worth!
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I’m so tired of holding everyone’s hand. It seems like all I do is help people and nobody is ever helping me out. I have to beg people to do the right thing for themselves. I’m done. I’m tired of this. I’m retiring from my duties as Captain Save-A-Hoe.
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Transgressions
So my professors always stress to us how important reputation is in the art world and how so much is spread by word of mouth still. It just really pisses me off that there are people who will act totally shitty and awful in undergrad but nobody in the art community really sees it because its not actually happening out in the art community at large.
Right now I’m working on planning a group show with the other students in my senior class. We all had to split into groups and each group is in charge of completing one thing for the show like food, curation, publicity, etc. Well this one girl had an idea to sell merchandise and she’s kind of popular in the class and nobody really wants to go against her because she’s always bossing people around, being rude and talking over everyone, and pulling the race card for everything! So we end up doing the merchandise and they put me in a group with her and 3 other people. So she’s controlling everyone and bossing us around and I took a backseat because it was her idea to do this merch stuff and I figured she can just lmk what she needs me to help with and I do it and that’s that, I have other things on my mind. Then 2 weeks until the show when we really need to start making the stuff she totally quits and says she’s not helping anymore. I thought that was totally bogus for 2 reasons: 1, everyone in the class is part of a group trying to make things happen for her and now she’s quitting so she can work on her own stuff instead of pulling her weight like everyone else. 2, this was her idea in the first place and everything we’re doing is because of her so I don’t think its fair that we carry-out her vision for her when none of us wanted to sell stuff.
It was super rude the way she quit as well. She had privately messaged one of our group members one night that she wasn’t helping us anymore and he told us about it the next day. Another member of our group was really pissed and tried to make her admit she was quitting in front of the class but she was too much of a little bitch to do it. This made me the most mad because she has no respect for anyone else not even enough to be honest and she’s not brave enough to say it to anyone’s face. She’s always talking about how bad she is and how she’s so tough because she’s from the hood, and yet she couldn’t even say she was quitting to anyone’s face. She’s a bitch in every way and I just wish that people would look past the mediocre work she does and see who she really is. She’s always somehow in the right because somehow she’s a victim of something in every situation so people need to be on her side or else their a horrible oppressor or bully or ally of an attacker. I have tried to be nice to this girl for 3 years and at one point, before I saw how fake she was, I thought we could be friends or at least chummy classmates. I’ve gone out to events to support her but because I’m white she can’t show me any kind of friendship or respect. I don’t dislike her for her identity, I extremely dislike her because of the way she acts and mistreats people.
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how many times can you tell the same person “Happy New Year!”
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Ok seriously it’s kind of annoying when people want me to make accommodations for them but they can’t say why. Like someone can't speak English? let me know that so I can know how to help I’m not a damn mind reader. The purpose of why someone needs accommodations affects how we accommodate someone 😓 if you don’t let me know what kind of help you need how can I know how to help you? You keeping life hard for both of us
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honestly I'm tired of being right. I’m tired of people not listening to me and then continuously asking for advice. Rant if you must I’ll be your ear, but at least be self aware enough to realize what I have: you never listen to me.
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