ok so ik this is really random and not about fics, but my bf has the same thing as yours and it made him cry the other day??
like idk if that’s normal but I was literally so worried. so that’s the question, does it get that bad??
and omg I’m treating you like a doctor, sorry for that, lots of love~
Hey! Ah no worries you can always come in and talk about this with me! 🫶
Sadly it is normal. Crohns can get really bad and sometimes it may be also out of frustration that you start crying.
Honestly I held my boyfriend often during very bad flare ups and he cried because it hurt him and he also was just really annoyed with the whole thing which didn't really help the situation.
The things is the flare up and symptoms can come out of nowhere even if he's strictly following his diet and takes his medication.
I can understand that you're worried too. I'm always worried too and to be honest a bit scared sometimes but what I did is that I talked with my boyfriend about this. I asked him if i can do something for him when it gets bad and it turned out it already helps him to stay calmer when I just being him tea and we cuddle whisk watching TV. Maybe just talk with your boyfriend about it and see what he would like to do when it gets bad
I feel like when he doesn’t feel good he’s the type to want to watch a movie and not talk much, but he doesn’t complain
I see him arriving home, changing into comfy clothes and saying sth like “let’s watch a movie” “watch sth with me?” trying to sound normal but there’s this tired and soft tone to it so you just know he’s unwell
and then he may or may not let his guard down, if he does he probably sighs or whines softly, snuggling into you
and if he doesn’t then he’ll just let you play with his hair and probably will fall asleep before the movie finishes
and omg, that’s almost a whole prompt right there, I’ll leave it like that
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Awww I can totally see that
He's like not the type to com0lwin immediately but also doesn't hide it or says he's fine when he isn't.
I can see him just taking your hand and placing it on his head or places your hand in the spot it hurts. If it's his stomach he would just place your hand there without saying anything and he would he so thankful if you would just give him a massage without saying anything.
and let’s talk~ what’s your ult group lately?? and who’s your ult bias??
My ult group will always be Stray Kids & Ateez
And my Ult bias is Jeongin 🥰
Very short story time about my bf:
Emeto mentioned
When we were in Korea for the stray kids fanmeeting he was SO excited for it that he just ended up with a really bad stomach ache. Like my boy couldn't even eat and he had to stay in bed the whole day. We even though he couldn't attend the fanmeeting as we were a bit worried that it was a flare up (luckily it wasn't).
So he was just in bed for two days straight while I tried to do something alone in Korea (was super hard for me) and the night before the fanmeeting he just threw up in the middle of the night (on my feet 🥲) and he felt horrible, like his stomach didn't stop cramping so we cuddled for most of the night. To our surprise in the morning and for the fanmeeting he felt better
omg love that idea, if your bf is okay with it, ofc. but if you narrate it in 1st person you don’t really need to use a name, just refer to him as your bf, kinda like a story time rather than a fic??
He said yes 🥳
Oh yeah that's an option too. Didn't think of that haha
omg love that idea, if your bf is okay with it, ofc. but if you narrate it in 1st person you don’t really need to use a name, just refer to him as your bf, kinda like a story time rather than a fic??
He said yes 🥳
Oh yeah that's an option too. Didn't think of that haha
This just sat unfinished in my drafts (it's still not finished) should I finish it?
Warning: mention of emeto, female reader
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Minho is the main dancer of Stray Kids, and he usually works on new choreography and dance moves. But right now, he's not allowed to since he's sick with enteritis. His girlfriend Y/N comes into the dance studio to take him home, but he's stubborn and doesn't want to leave. He's trying to push through the pain, but all the moving it's making him feel really nauseous and giving him cramps in his stomach.
Minho and Y/N start to argue a little bit, with Minho refusing to leave and Y/N insisting that he needs to get home.
"I'm fine, I'm fine," Minho says stubbornly. "I just have a bit of stomach pain, that's all."
"It's more than a bit of stomach pain. You're obviously ill," Y/N says, worried about him.
"I'm not that sick, I'm fine. I don't need to go home.”
As they argue, Minho starts to feel a sudden burst of nausea, and he has to hold onto the wall for support. His legs feel weak, and he looks like he's about to be sick. Y/N sees this and immediately becomes more worried, approaching him and putting her arm around him.
"You really don't look good," she says quietly, "Please let me take you home.”
"I just need to sit down," Minho says, his legs feeling shaky and weak. "My stomach cramps are really bad right now."
Y/N is worried, seeing how bad he's feeling, and helps him find a chair to sit on. She helps him sit down, and he leans against her for support as the nausea hits him again.
Minho feels a bit flustered to ask this, but he realizes that his pants are feeling tight against his sick stomach. "Can you unbutton my pants a bit?" he asks in a small voice, feeling a bit embarrassed.
Y/N instantly understands and goes to unbutton his pants a little bit, so they're not so tight against his sick stomach. Y/N asks Minho how he feels, and this time he admits that he's feeling pretty bad.
"My stomach is really hurting, and I feel really nauseous," he says in a small voice, looking a bit embarrassed.
Y/N puts her hand on his forehead and realizes that he has a bit of a fever as well.
"Oh, you have a fever as well. You must feel really bad..” she says worriedly, petting his hair gently.
Minho's stomach is also a bit bloated, and he can feel his lower stomach bubbling away. In addition to the cramping, nausea, and fever, Minho is feeling really bloated, and his stomach is churning and bubbling like crazy. Y/N sees Minho's bloated stomach, and she has an idea. She suggests that maybe a massage would help relieve some of the discomfort.
"Do you think it would help if I massage your stomach for a while?" she asks, starting to gently massage his bloated lower stomach.
Y/N begins to massage Minho's bloated lower stomach, making gentle circular movements with her hands. She hears Minho's stomach rumbling and squelching from being so bloated, and she can tell that the massage is helping to relieve some of the discomfort. Minho leans back and relaxes, relieved by the feeling of Y/N's hands rubbing his bloated lower stomach.
Minho feels relieved by the massage, and he wants to thank Y/N for her help. But instead of just thanking her verbally, he decides to show her his appreciation by giving her a quick kiss on the cheek. He leans over and quickly kisses her cheek, before leaning back again and relaxingly closing his eyes as she continues to gently massage his bloated lower stomach.
Okay but this moment after throwing up and you're gasping for air and it feels like you wlcant breath or get any air in your lungs and there's still this disgusting taste in your mouth and it also kinds feels like there's soemthign stuck in your throat.