Had to push sage off a hug cause it felt tpo gay :/ was feeling ok about hanging w them cuz theyre a couple but then she hugged me a lil too close and it felt wrong so i pushed her away a little. She apologized later and i told her i just wasnt comfortable since they were a couple and she said it was fine theyre open. Barely a thing, just a situationship. I just wonder if thats how they feel. Im aure it is im just paranoid.
Just feels like theres a weight, you know, a sadness that I can't seem to shake.
It gets the best of me sometimes, and theres been times where it's taken the wheel entirely.
I'm so scared of other people that i find it really hard to be friendly. Its like theres a gun to my head during any pleasant exchange.
I have to prove my worth over and over again. I need to be useful. If i can't be useful I have to be desirable. My body is a tool and a toy, but never real.
Finding places i belong isn't hard, but being there for long enough to where I fold. It's hard not to lose myself in the nerves.
Golden birthday. Once in a lifetime. 23 on the 23rd, full moon, and for the first time i feel like im actually older. Is it just me or is the universe aligning?
I was missing purpose. I felt like i had no reason to exist without fullfilling work and responsibility. Im going to have money now, resources, new skills. Im proud of what i do already, and im proud of myself. Maybe things are still cloudy and uncertain but so many problems have been immediately absolved.
Yesterday i got up early, had some time to relax in the car before work, did 10 hours of fun stuff (that i get PAID for), picked dad up from work, walked the dogs, showered, ate dinner with max, tidied the trailer a little, washed my work clothes, had sex, and still slept just fine. Thats the amount of action a person like me needs in a day to thrive.
I dont have to have any kind of rules or regulations. I dont have to be my own boss, i dont have to justify my existance. I just have to do what i love and take care of myself. One more early morning this week and then i get to sleep in.