LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!
Please go read the ‘read more’ as it is such a perfect summation of how Silco is a good father to Jinx. Flawed, but good.
She doesn’t shirk away. Doesn’t flinch. This man has never hit or hurt her in any shape or form she doesn’t even know to expect it. She doesn’t justify herself or look sheepish. She waits for him to be done to surprise him…
I love this being pointed out, ive said it a few times myself. It is so so obvious that Jinx does not fear Silco and that has NOTHING to do with the fact that she is stronger than him. My mom was the worlds shortest and weakest lady and she terrifies me from multiple states away. I could easily kick her ass in a street fight but her abuse to me makes that not feel like a reality. If Jinx was abused or met with any kind of aggression from Silco, she would not have been so casual about him grabbing her.
On the other hand, note how when Vi slowly and gently reaches out with just her fingertips to Jinxs arm how she immediately panics and freezes?? not sure if she is going to get hit or loved?? This is NOT a dig on Vi - its just showing the contrast and proof of how Jinx was not hit by Silco.
Also, regarding the weapon…
A father asking his daughter and most trusted confident and ally in a struggle that governed his entire life… Is not abusive?
yes! It would be abusive if he forced her into it, maybe she hated making weapons and hurting people and he made her do it anyway or locked her in a room or gave her unrealistic timelines. That would be an abusive thing. That would be an abuse of authority and power over her.
But Jinx LIKES making weapons. She has been doing it since she was little in Vanders basement. All Silco did was support the interest and make her hobby more readily accessible to her and foster her growth within it. When he talks with her about the weapon, he doesnt give her a timeline. He doesnt scream at her. He gently insists she is capable. He isnt doing it to guilt her. He knows she struggles with insecurities and worries about not being smart enough/good enough/useful enough etc. He is trying to dissuade her inner monologue of doubt and instill her with confidence.
and OP is so so spot on. Silco is a perfect representation of a person whose trauma has shaped them. He truly believes in the lessons he teaches Jinx and truly believes he is teaching them to her for her own benefit. He wants to see his daughter flourish and survive in this cruel world without Piltover getting to claim recognition for it.
From a different storytelling perspective, Silco could be easily represented as the protagonist. A protagonist with questionable methods? Sure. But a protagonist none the less.
I am under no illusion of what things Silco does wrong and are bad/evil behaviors. but with that being said i STILL wish i had a father like Silco growing up. Hands down, no questions asked, would trade my father for him any day of the week.
Let’s talk about Silco’s parenting.
An essay. Because the internet is stupid.
The meta is going to touch on the question of manipulation (a commonly raised but moot point), the concept of “good” parenting versus “perfect” parenting, his relationship with Vander, as well as a double standard I see with traumatized people both in fiction and in real life.
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so many great points here!!
I think the overall exploration of "what does jinx want/want to fix?" is an excellent question.
please forgive as I will be answering from a broken persons mindset, but I dont think "fixing" is within her ambitions anymore. Maybe when she was little and naive, but not now.
Personally, I view Jinx as having two desires/objectives. she wants to feel loved and accepted and she wants revenge for the pain she has felt. She got both of those things from Silco to a degree, but not enough to meet her desires.
Silco loved her but didn't express it outwardly enough to meet Jinxs needs. She wanted the kind of love she got from Vi. the cuddles, gentle caresses on the cheeks, hugs, etc. She wanted someone to share experiences with. Silco did give her the touches every now and then. But rarely was he an instigator, like in the river baptism scene, and more often she was the one to move into physical closeness with him. Also, with Silco, they weren't doing missions and things together, she was doing them for him. So this also created a separation in their relationship that didn't meet the high standard she set with Vi as its example.
the next objective is revenge. While Silco was the immediate trigger to the death of Vander, this was all birthed from the cruelty of Piltover. Law enforcement forced her family's hand with their aggressive searches. And the only reason the law had a reason to be looking for thieves is because Piltover puts Zaunites in such a poverished position. Jinx is smart. I think a lot of her 'crazy' is an act to intimidate her foes and allies alike. she is taking a page from Silcos book 'be what they fear Jinx' and some unpredictable psycho is terrifying. I think Jinx is smart enough to have realized that, like her, Silco is the product of someone who got fucked over by Piltover and she doesn't put as much blame on him for what happened because of it. I think she sees him as a victim of circumstance, much like herself. This makes it easy for her to blame all of her problems on Piltover and target them with her distruction. But again, Silco doesn't meet this need entirely. His moves against Piltover are calculated and moving towards a goal. Jinxs goal is just to make them suffer, so she feels restrained by Silcos leadership. Thus her frustration when he tells her to take a break.
So, why not go for a fix? because at a certain point, when you are broken that badly, a fix will never come. your past will always haunt you. your experiences will always taint your perception of the world. Jinx knows there is no returning to a naive and innocent life. So instead, she wants to get vengeance on the people who made her life a living hell because she needs that outlet for her rage and pain. And she wants comfort and love to be the bandaid on said pain when she isnt acting out on it.
I also think there is a bit of a 'dancing with death' in there. I don't think Jinx values her own life. I think she uses things like bombs and goes above and beyond with her violence sorta as a cry for help. Hoping she pushes it so far that someone will end her, or a bomb will catch her, or she will be captured and get death penalty. I also think this is why she can be so casual and playful with the destruction. cuz its just a game to her. she doesn't care about deadly outcomes. in fact, the higher the risk, the more she wants to do it.
thats my interpretion at least.. again, I come from my own place of pain and trauma so its entirely possible that my tainted view of things is influencing how I perceive her. >.<
Relationships and Jinx fixing Jinx
Carry on from the conversation with @korra-oh and @ametan
You know, as I read this my first gut reaction was to go “I wonder if Jinx really believes this”. Again, we the audience (I hope) all know that Vi isn’t at fault. Not morally (blablabla, she couldn’t have forseen, it was just a moment of weakness, she was just a child), but also not practically (Powder had hallucinations even before Episode 3, Powder was super emotionally dependent on Vi even before episode 3, Powder was fantasizing/dreaming about Jinx even before Episode 3 if you accept the Enemy music video as canon).
Like if seems so obvious to me that Vi is not at fault, like my first thought was “could she be lying?” like could she be trying to guilt Vi because she wants Vi to pick her and she is insecure? I tend to lean heavily towards no/unlikely, but it led me to wonder, what that looks like within Jinx.
Like are these shades of Silco? Shades of Silco always expressing open resentment of Vi and Silco being deeply hung up on Vander and what happened between then. And even though Jinx says/signals she didn’t fully buy into Silco’s stories, maybe she couldn’t completely have his resentment, his blame bleed into he rafter all? Did Silco think that Vander “made him”?
Like, could we end up with Jinx doing an echo of that scene, where she goes “no, no, Vi, you misunderstand, you made Jinx, but for that I thank you, old friend”.
Or when Jinx says that Vi made Jinx, is it more like what she speaks about here
that she feels Vi like an echo inside as Jinx. That’s why she “credits” Vi.
If you look at the scene, even as Jinx is giving Vi credit, Vi thinks she is talking about leaving her, but Jinx actually denies that.
So I think even Jinx doesn’t think Vi’s actions at the end of Act 3 are “at fault” for Jinx. Yes the show parallels Vander&Silco and Vi&Jinx in that moment, and Silco is the one who credits (probably wrongly as well…) one single transformative moment for his life, but Jinx clearly sees a difference between him and her when she says this in a highly disapproving voice.
Maybe Jinx is a survival mechanism in a cruel world and the memory of Vi is a main thing that kept her going, so she is giving credit, not blame. And the underlying idea it’s tragic that Vi doesn’t want what she “made”/”helped create”, even if that thing might feel important and true to Jinx.
Ultimately, I think it makes a lot of sense that Jinx *wants* to say Silco didn’t make her. And I think that there is value to thinking that maybe he didn’t really influence the form/shape of Jinx that much.
But I think it’s pretty clear that at the very least he created the biotope, the conditions for Jinx to be made. Like, he provided the soil and the water and the light for Jinx to grow into her shape relatively unimpeded.
Like I can imagine a world where the shape of Jinx existed somewhere in Powder’s mind already and she eventually would have a developed a taste of violence and anarchy and possessiveness anyway, but Vi likely would have fought her every step on the way (and I fully believe that the sisters might have argued and butted heads about it), she would have received a ton of push back which likely would have influenced the shape of Jinx.
Similarly, there might be all the ways Silco’s personality might have rubbed off on her in ways she doesn’t realize or doesn’t want to think about. ie his paranoia, his ideas about power, his way of seeing people and dealing with them
I think this is ultimately going to be the interesting question about Jinx. What parts of herself does she want to fix? What kind of Jinx does she want to build? What does that look like.
Up to now, for example, most of her actions have been in service of Silco’s ideology. Will she carry on with that after that one big act of revenge/lashing out?
Because I tend to read their ideologies as actually quite different even if Jinx were to carry on with a violent, anti-Piltover streak. Silco to me reads more like nationalism, at the very least his approach, even if he is harmful to the community is still more community oriented. While Jinx’s ideology strikes me as pure anarchy.
Ultimately: I feel like the “responsibility” to fix things is kind of a dead end. I think it’s more who has the *motivation* to fix things.
Like, usually the situation presented is “there is this person who is really hot and I want to have sex with them/have a relationship with them, but they have negative trait X, Y, Z”. And you weigh the benefit (getting to be with the hot person) versus the effort to “fix” X, Y, Z. And if it’s actually really unlikely that X,Y or Z will change then the effort is by definition infinite.
Trying to fix people for relationships is generally frowned upon, maybe because it’s a poor motivator and also because the person in the relationship isn’t really well-equipped to do any fixing.
But that doesn’t change that the interesting part is “who wants to fix something and why”.
Like, if the state has a motivation “I want Jinx to no longer commit crimes”, then they have an interest in fixing their problems. And they can fix it with killing her/locking her up/trying to cure her from her violent tendencies.
Similarly Vi can be motivated by things like “want a sisterly relationship with her again” or “want to assuage my guilt”. And again we go to weighing the effort of fixing things and the efficacy of solving the original problem.
But of, naturally the most interesting person is Jinx. What would she want to change and why? What would be her motivations? “I want a sisterly relationship with Vi again”, “I don’t want to be lonely”, “I don’t want to be in pain”. “I hate feeling weak”, “I don’t want people to be scared of me”, “I want people to be scared of me”.
Basically, what motivation is important t to her would inform what parts of herself she would even want to fix.
I think that is the core of “fixing oneself”, figuring out what you dislike, ie “I’m poor” or “I want a relationship” or “I’m bored” and then looking what can be done about it and what would have to change to make that better and how much effort it would be.
Ouch, ouch, you had to bring real life into it. Okay, here it goes, I often talk a big game like “blabla, well obviously the character should do that and they should establish boundaries and find themselves and build a respectful relationship”, but though a lot of these things are neat sounding concepts, it should be noted that this isn’t necessarily how the world and relationships work.
Like respect and independence are important and valuable concepts, but there is totally a thing as too much of it.
I think structurally, I’m probably much more of a “Mel” than a “Jinx. But there is plenty of situations where there is value in not being clinical about relationships, in opening up, in forgiving, in letting things slide. Because interpersonal relationships are about compromises, they aren’t clinical equations with 100% highly fixed ways of right and wrong. Society sometimes pretends that there is and while there are certainly a lot of things that are more bad things/bad ideas than others, usually there is a lot of middle ground and gray area in real life and sometimes that is necessary for relationships to even exist and it’s good and valuable that relationships exist. And just blindly following blue prints of “well this is wrong so you shouldn’t do it” and “well this is a red flag” can cut one off from a lot of potentially valuable things as well.
Very “the perfect is the enemy of the good”.
So just because the book and the blue print says “this is wrong, so just stop doing it”, it’s not always as easy as that and it can backfire in various ways (”It’s bad, I need to stop doing it, I can’t stop doing it, so I’m a failure and should just never leave the house” or “This thing could be potentially be kind of like that thing that I should stop doing, so I’m not doing it and end not doing anything”).
Again there is a ton of value in pointing out problems and negative patterns and red flags, but real life is also … complicated and messy and with gray areas that we need to learn to navigate or else we close us off.
I think coping mechanism are an extremely interesting topic for Jinx in particular. Because again, with the whole “life is messy and imperfect” coping mechanisms are one of those things, they are a good thing if they are necessary, but they can be a bad thing if they prevent a person for addressing the root problem.
Which kind of means that they are bad thing if the root causes are fixable and a good thing if they are unfixable I guess?
We know from game Jinx that she talks to inanimate objects,
we have her interacting with robots in the get Jinxed video,
we have her potentially bonding with a Yordle in the Jinx comic.
So the interesting question of Jinx is: What does Jinx want?
Like, is she lonely after Silco dies and she is at odds with Vi? Is that something she would want to fix, are her problems and fears something that prevents her from connecting with others?
Is her interacting with inanimate objects like robots and weapons a coping mechanism to feel less lonely? And if it is too effective, does that run into danger of her being okay that being her primary interactions because real people are too complicated/messy/painful?
And of course the underlying question: can that ever be a legit choice? Like how it can be a debate whether something is wrong with a person if they don’t want children or don’t want a big noisy birthday party?
Can people genuinely be happy with that or do you suspect that they must really be having a big noisy birthday party they are just pretending they don’t because they are scared? And I that ultimately depends on the indivual person whether you believe that they really want what they want. Like are they really okay with being alone or are they just trying to avoid pain? Or even does this person genuinely sadistically enjoy inflicing pain or are they just trying to mask their own?
And of course, on the topic of “who wants to fix what and why” there is two angles.
What does Jinx want in a perfect world where only her needs matter versus what do other people want.
Like Jinx’s hypothetical desire for chaos versus the desire of people not to get blown up.
And what actions can they/the non perfect world take to impede on Jinx and make it unfun/less desirable/harder for her to blow things up.
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Some really interesting insights here!
I have complicated feelings towards all of this. I totally agree with both that Jinx needs to stop expecting her validation to come from others and that growing apart from people and needing to be self reliant is better for her in some ways.
and it is completely unfair to lay the blame of her traumas and who she is on Vi even if there is some amount of truth in "how you treated me hurt me and my response to that hurt was part of the foundation of who i am now"
but I myself also struggle with this particular issue of a lack of self worth and needing external validation born of traumas from individuals and environment. Having the ability to value and validate yourself is a LOT harder than it sounds when you are broken down to this degree and often feels impossible. And its an easy thing to disregard because as long as the validation comes, there isn't anything needing to be addressed. its when the validation stops that you are able to recognize how self destructive this mindset can be.
I even wonder if part of Jinxs beahvior is a coping mechanism; not just for killing her family. i feel like even moving to all of her other actions, if Jinx can divert the blame, she can try and mentally distance herself from the responsibility of her actions. So blaming others for who she is helps accomplish waiving accountability.
either way, bottom line is that, yes, jinx is fucked up and has gone through a lot and there are MANY contributing factors to the outcome of who she is as a person. including *herself*.
Jinx and Other People’s Responsibility
Full disclosure: I’ve had two glasses of wine so please forgive any narrative misgivings on this journey here
I know we all want Jinx to like, be happy, have therapy, feel loved, and all that good stuff–but what I *really* need from season 2 is for Jinx and the people around Jinx *cough* Vi *cough* to stop holding Jinx’s ability to change as someone else’s responsibility.
Jinx is a victim of personal circumstances and oppressive systems. Yes.
Jinx is almost as much a product of her circumstances as a product of who she is; an even split of nature vs nurture where no one is sure which side of the vs. lit the first match. Yes.
Jinx was repeatedly harmed by those who loved her and left without support. Yes.
But–and this is a lesson I think I need to rant on because it’s so true to real life–individuals *cannot* save other individuals. Especially from themselves. It is no one’s job to “fix” Jinx. It’s not even in another person’s capability to “fix” Jinx. Only Jinx can fix Jinx.
Actually, it reminds me of that Steven Universe song:
I don’t need you to accept me, I accept me.
I don’t need you love me, I love me.
But I want you to know you can know me. If you change your mind. If you change your mind. Change your mind.
I have no doubt we’re about to watch Vi fumble around through more grief and guilt, but the truth is that, even in season 1, Vi, as an outside person, is completely incapable of getting Jinx to change–only Jinx can change Jinx. “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.” The only actual way to help someone like Jinx, the utmost an individual who is not Jinx can do to get Jinx to fix Jinx, is to hold space and offer support as Jinx asks for it (y’know, the therapy and healthy relationship-building stuff I don’t think we’d ever see in an action show).
I think I need to wine-rant on this because of that damn line. “But silco didn’t make Jinx, you did.” Because it’s not gd true, Powder’s memory of Vi might have been her tool in shaping Jinx, but no one individual made Jinx but Jinx (again, not lifting blame from her circumstances and environment, but to lay the full blame at another character’s feet is just irresponsible to that character).
And I think the tragedy in the trauma of her inability to be responsible for her actions is a huge part of her core struggle with her mental health–when we see her freak out over the hextech gem2.0 she runs away whimpering about how “it was a mistake.”
It’s what makes her story so heartwrenching (for me), is that the one thing she needs, a sense of agency, is the one thing she cannot allow herself. Which is a big part of why she pins her validation on others.
(needing Vi to tell her she’s ready, needing Silco to see her strong/valuable, etc)
Idk what point I need to drive home to feel fulfilled with this rant, except maybe that I want the fandom to not apply Jinx’s logic to their own lives? We all have agency (not over everything, but we all have it) and our willingness to hold ourselves responsible and accountable to that agency can be the difference between chronically victimizing ourselves versus being the strong-protagonist of our own story.
Idk. Hug your pets. Have some wine, like me. Don’t try be someone else’s savior–the only person we’re actually able to save in any traditional hero-context is ourselves.
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