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Why Billionaires are not getting affected by COVID-19?

There are two 2095 billionaires in this world. And none of them is affected by COVID-19. Do you think why? Why they are not getting affected? Are they superhumans? Are they living on another planet? No, this reason is that they have strong immunity which is enough to beat this virus.

Now the second question why their immune system is so strong? Because, of their diet or wealth? No, the reasons are given below:

 These are scientifically proven facts:

 1.   People with great achievements are having a stronger immune system than others. Have you noticed in your life that positions holder students in our school/college or university remain healthy than others? Similarly, in the case of billionaires as they are more successful than all other people so they have a stronger immune system to beat Coronavirus.

2.    People with passion and determination also have a stronger immune system. This means that people who do not give up even after failures have a stronger immune system. Billionaires are people who have more failures than other people. So, they are strong enough to beat this Coronavirus.

                         Another big reason is that:

 3.   All billionaires are following their daily life routine although in this            

    situation of Pandemic they are following their life routine:

                     i.        They are working at their Offices although all their other departments are closed. But they are working and doing their job.

                   ii.        Billionaires are not using any kind of social media and other media to stay away from any kind of stress. Because media is creating hype in this situation which is not good for people.

                  iii.        They are learning new skills in their free time and doing healthy activities.

                 iv.        Billionaires are improving themselves in which they think they are weak.

  Lessons to Learn:

So following points all we need to learn from these people are:

Try to follow your routine and carry on with your work.

Try to learn new skills.

Read more in this free time.

Spend time with family.

Stay away from Social media.

Try to remain healthy and positive.

Use this free time in a positive way as much as you can. Be productive and try to improve yourself.

 Written by:

Muhammad Huzaifa

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How a parent can help their shy / awkward teenager make friends?

As a parent everyone has to face two big challenges in their entire life.

1.     Financial challenges

2.     Bringing up their children

Especially teenage children. But I think number two is the most important and difficult one to face. Because during the age group between 12 years to 16 years boys and girls starts behaving very awkward and they became shy. And many parents face difficulties to overcome this issue but I will tell you about the actual problem and its solution so you can overcome this issue quickly and comprehensively.

Now, what happens like many other parents you may have noticed that your son or your daughter starts behaving very strangely. A once very frank one who told you everything and share his every daily life experience he/she stooped talking to you. A jolly son who had many friends suddenly has no friends. Your previously very confident daughter now not even looks into your eyes. The reason is that they are going through many mental and physical changes which they have not expected so that just asking themselves that what is going on what they have to do in their life and to whom they can share their problem regarding the changes they are facing. There can be some other issues as well but the main problem for you as parents is that you teenagers are not so confident they are shy and they are a bit strange than you want them to be.

Now, what you have to do to make your children (teenagers) more confident and to be frank with you. I will tell you three simple ways that you can follow to be friends with your children (teenagers).

1.     By giving Time to their children

2.     By giving them confidence

3.     By giving Love to their children

4.     Keep children’s Pride safe

Now I will explain all these four points respectively that how parents can be friends with their children.

 By giving Time to their children:

Time is one of the most important that you can give to anyone but in the case of your teenager (children) it gets more importance. Now the question is why. This is because the Time is like an investment of you in your children. But now remember one thing there is no law regarding the psychology of human beings means that as every Newton’s third law explains “Every action has a reaction”. But in case human behavior as they behave with others there is no as such law. The meaning of this statement is that as I said giving time to your children is an investment so it does not mean that you will get an obvious reward of it but it means that you will be able to spend a good life in the future with your teenage children. Because when you will be able to spend time with your children it will make strong bonding between you and them and they will feel more comfortable and will be able to share their problems with you parents.

That was a solution regarding your problem but now I will tell you how you can spend more time with your children. Remember the training of children starts from beginning means in the early childhood of children. First of all, you do not need to make your children attend school at the age of 3 years 4 years they must be a minimum of age 7 years when they have to attend school. Because these early years are more important for both children and parents to make a bond of love and affection with each other. But when the children will go to their school and parents will be on your work there will be no time to spend with each other because everyone will be busy in their work in this case children will suffer through mental damage that will come out at their teenage. And this is a proven fact by medical science.

Now there is a possibility that now your children are in the teenage group and now you want to bring positive changes in them. There is still a chance that your start to spend time but now you will have to be more keen reading this issue because some damage has been done in the past and that obvious. The most effective way to be friendly with children is their Mother this is a fact that most children are more attached to their mothers. If the mother wants to bring up positivity in her children it will be can be done more easily just because of natural bonding. And another fact that strengthens this idea is that according to reliable research more than 50% of successful men/women say that they are that place due to their mother.

So this can be an effective way to bring up your teenage children and to be familiar with you and be more confident.

 By giving their children confidence:

To be honest learning of teenager at home is more effective than any other institute or school. Because most of the time children spend at their home and they spends their time with their parents especially a mother. If there is a supportive environment at home and the mother of children is the most supportive person of them then children will be more confident. And this confidence will remain their whole life. Now the question arises on how we can build up children (teenager) confidence at home I will answer in three simple points.

1.     First of all, there will be an appreciation environment in the home. Parents need to be the biggest cheerleader of their teenage children. It is a proven fact that those children who got more appreciation grow more than those who are criticized. Because criticism kills their confidence they become shy to do anything. And Appreciation is like the oxygen of confidence and if oxygen comes from the main tree of the family-like parents it will be great of teenagers.

2.     Secondly parents have to show them how to do good deeds and how to be more confident. Because children of every group learns more from action than advice. If parents will show them practically in their daily life this will help their children to build their confidence.

3.     Give your children small tasks in their daily life. Assign them small tasks to do this will help them a lot to grow and be more confident. If they will do small tasks they will learn a lot from them and will be able to do big tasks in their upcoming life.

4.     Keep check and balance on their outside life. Try to know about your teenager’s company in which they spend their time when they are outside home. Because a bad company can lead your children to the bad deeds which can affect the personality of children very badly.

 By giving Love to their children:

Another simple way to be more familiar with your teenage children is Love. Love is the most powerful thing in the world to keep a relation alive although it is of any kind. But in the case of a family and relation between parents and children Love can play a very vital role. Love is the thing that will increase exponentially whenever you will spread it. So this is a very keen advice of me to the parents that act more affectionate toward your children than you are. Now a question arises that every parent loves their children how we can do it different the answer to this argument is that yes every parent loves their children but they way of loving matter a lot. A stubborn father or a stubborn mother can never be a good father or mother so they have to be very kind to their children. They have to teach them with the love, they have to abandon them with the love; they have to restrict them with the love because children are like a photocopier machine whatever you will do to them they will act the same with you so nobody wants to make a distance with their children. So whenever there is a conflict between children and parents, parents have to act smartly and to understand the situation of their teenage children. And that will not a big deal because they also have been through that age group.

This will be a very effective way to bring up children in a good manner.

By keeping their pride safe:

This point is related to the above one and I do not have any need to explain it further the main thing in this point is that not every time you can fulfill the desires of your children sometimes you have to restrict them sometimes you have to say “No” but what if your teenager acts strange and harsh at that time so then you need to be smart and to teach them with love that this thing is not good for you and you do not need this or you do not have to do this. I will explain it with a simple example.

Consider your 14 years old son starts Drinking Alcohol and you saw him while drinking what you will do. Will you start beating him and start torturing him? If you will do this it will not work he will do it again. But you have to stop him from this bad act. First of all you have to keep his pride safe means you will not beat him you will teach that you have grown up and good boys do not things like you have to act decent. This ill work more effectively than beating him and restricting him with strict restrictions etc.

 I have tried to focus simple but most effective ways through which parents can bring up their children easily and will help them make their teenagers friends and more confident.

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Days Before Quarantine.

Today we have a guest who came to us without any invitation whose name is QUARANTINE. Being a student I was tired because of the hard life routine as everyone has in their own field but as a student I didn't like to get up early in the morning and to go university to attend classes without any interest. When, I heard about the lock down in our country due to the CORONA VIRUS which is also known as COVID-19. I was very happy to get some break from routine and to relax at home. But now when it is over 15 days I get very annoyed with this situation. And I want to go out to meet my friends and to spend my normal routine which was in DAYS BEFORE QUARANTINE.

Then I came up with a question of why. Why? I am now tired of getting at home and away from people then I realized that as Humans are a social animals and they want to live with other and they cannot live without others. Then I realized why solitary confinement is so painful and people say solitary confinement is a difficult situation to bear.

After all this observation I came to a result which I would like to share with you. The result is that we people take many things for granted in our life. For example Independence to go anywhere as we live in a Independent world/country we can go anywhere we want to go but we do not have any time to think about the people they are not blessed with this basic right of life. We take many people as for granted means we have people they wanted to interact with us in our daily life but we do not want to interact with them because of any reason but now what we have. No one to talk, no one to sit with us and no one with whom we can share our opinions, ideas and other problems of daily life. Although technology got us so close but they cannot replace the importance of live meetings and I think people are realizing this now in this condition.

So beside the all negative effects of the coronavirus, we have to learn some positive aspects as well. We should live our every day as the last day. For example if we people now that after that day (day before lock down) we could not be able to meet with each other would our attitude be the same as it was then? The answer is NO. So we have to make a change in our life and behavior with others and we have to spread love.

The last thing I want to say is that as we realized the importance of independence now we should raise voice in favor of people who do not have this blessing like people of #Kashmir, # Palestine.

I hope we go back to the DAYS BEFORE QUARANTINE very quickly.

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