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#quick reblog while i format my blog for art cuz taking a break working on it #but yeah #lgbtq didn't necessarily devalue sex #but it normalized kink and brought the realization it's just another form of intimacy among many others that some want and some don't #it's not a holy more important life changing thing just a facet of human experience

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HEED THE WARNINGS AND RATINGS. PLEASE.

Anyways new weird cars ns*w work. Enjoy.

#pixar cars #fanfiction #ao3 #iiiiii don't know what I'm doing with my life #aight back to being inactive again peace yall

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Inactive. Focusing elsewhere.

Thank you to everyone that made this place fun.

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does anyone want to be best friends that also live together and go on adventures together but like mundane adventures like ikea and target and also wants to lay our heads on each others shoulders when sleepy but also have separate bedrooms but also enjoy spending most of our free time together……. just me? ok

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I love domestic situations that are entirely platonic. I love seeing people who enjoy each other's presence in their lives so much that they decide to come together under one roof. Maybe it was to fill the hole left by a previous partner, and the arrangement was such a beautiful addition to their relationship that they decided to keep it that way, not intending at first to stretch it out this long. Maybe it was a crisis scenario where they needed to be closer, one or both feeling less safe by themselves in their own place. Maybe it's two people who were never as close before moving in but who find something special in each other that tempts them further. Maybe they didn't like each other at first but learn to appreciate the dynamic they bring to each other's lives. There's just so much beauty in trusting someone enough to home with them, you know?

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We’re only what we pretend we aren’t.

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It always shocks me when I bring up trans men’s issues - specially issues common in the south/more conservative/rural areas - to someone who makes their whole thing being a ‘trans advocate’ and they just don’t know what I’m talking about .

I mentioned how common it is - especially in more conservative Christian places - for trans men to be set up with a husband by their family and then be forcibly impregnated as a way to make them detransition to someone who runs a whole blog about ‘spreading awareness about trans issues’ and she looked at me like I was crazy and said “woah I never knew that happened to trans men.”

She knew about and understood that that stuff happens to cis women, but she never thought it happened to trans men… like come on.

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Nicole W. Lee, from "Even the Dust"

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I recently had surgery, and at the time I came home, I had both my cat and one of my grandma's cats staying with me.

- Within hours of surgery, I wake up from a nap to my cat gently sniffing at my incisions with great alarm.

- I was not allowed to shower the first day after surgery, and the cats, seeing that The Large Cat is not observing its cleaning ritual, decided I must be gravely disabled and compensated by licking all the exposed skin on my arms, face, and legs.

- I currently have to sleep with a pillow over my abdomen because my cat insists on climbing on top of me and covering my incisions with her body while I sleep (which is very sweet but not exactly comfortable without the pillow). She also lays across me facing my bedroom door, presumably on guard for attackers who may try to harm me while I'm sleeping and injured.

That's love. 🐈‍⬛🐈❤️

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words by @starpeace

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I knew that nintendo very likely wouldn’t outright say something like “Yes these characters are gay” but the way they were so insanely unsubtle about Pearl and Marina’s Definitely more-than-just-friends relationship in side order made me so happy to see, like there is SO much stuff that you just cannot come up with a heterosexual explanation for.

Marina’s sheer amount of swoony dialogue, dev diaries, her drawings of pearl, her desktop background WHO is doing all those things for their “best friend” . Pearl’s also shown to be concerned for and protective of Marina as well as be supportive of her infodumping about her interests

Even some smaller and potentially not-even-totally-intentional things just Work perfectly as more subtle details such as Marina’s dev diary being represented by an infinity sign with a rainbow gradient super similar to the symbol for autism advocacy, or the flags near cipher’s siftings with similar coloration to the lesbian flag (more noticeable with a certain filter in camera mode)

In conclusion my god these cephalopods gay good for them

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#hfhfhfgf #i need i watch this with mom still

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sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will. 

you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there.

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Hot

I've written Incubus Raoul mpreg carpreg fanfiction in which Max Schnell and Shu Todoroki have little babby cambion cars.

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Anonymously - or not - tell me what passage, fic, line of narration, or anything you remember me by as a writer.

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Jaz and Milo

Hannigram coded