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Hello hello my beloved queers,

Back after a health-motivated sabbatical, still kicking’ it.

Did you know that this butch offers queer/trans focused grief counseling, and divination services as well?

My services are open to all, and I offer sliding scale for BIPOC and 2SLGBTQIA+ family.

Hoping to be able to help with your healing journey ✨

#butch tarot #queer tarot #divination #queer therapist #black therapist #tarot services

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Happy pride! Go tell a butch how handsome they are❤️‍🔥

Men minors and terfs fuck off

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kicked in the teeth by death after unavoidable death of people like us. trans lives over cis feelings.

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The Cowgirls of Color: the black women’s team bucking rodeo trends

#reblogged with a quickness

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hand embroidery on cotton, 7x7", by sy shapiro

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some of u are way too hot to be following me. how did u get here

#at the risk of sounding conceited #sounds like a mutual hotness revue up in this bish #no such thing as hot hierarchy in my book y’all are stunning

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 Makpal Abdrazakova, the only female eagle hunter in Kazakhstan.

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ceaseless watcher turn your gaze upon my fucking gay emotions

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Ivan Meštrović Dve Vdovi (Two Widows), 1909 (detail)

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tenderness

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tristan for filthy®

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the point of my masculinity and male positivity posts are to underline that masculinity and manhood are seen as a threat or in direct opposition to queerness, and that often times in order to be seen as queer you have to be partially or wholly feminine or gender neutral, or express your manhood in a feminine or gender neutral way in order to no longer be threatening, invasive, or a problem.

it is very difficult to exist in queer spaces as a hyper masculine person & a man. you're made to feel like you need to walk a tight rope feeling like you're inherently out of place, as if you existing and being masculine or a man in queer spaces makes others uncomfortable inherently.. just know that when i make positivity posts it is to remind us all that masculinity/manhood and queerness are not opposites and that you do not have to be a feminine man or masc person to be viewed/seen/heard as queer.

chasing men, masculine people, and masculinity out of queer spaces isn't helping anyone currently and won't help anyone down the line. please accept masc enbies, butches, bears, and masculine trans men with the same kindness, love, and passion that you do neutral and feminine people. that's the point when i make these kinds of posts. thank u

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🏳️‍🌈 Ruth Ellis (1899 - 2000) was the daughter of former slaves. She came out as a lesbian when she was 16-years-old to the complete acceptance of her family. In 1937, Ruth and her longtime partner moved to Detroit from their hometown of Springfield, Illinois for the promise of higher wages. There, she became the first woman in Michigan to run her own printing business. She printed fliers, posters, and stationary in the front room of her home, which also quickly became a hotspot for Black LGBTQ social life. Before long, Ruth was helping those who came around in any way she could, including by paying for college tuitions. After the Stonewall uprising, 70-year-old Ruth began giving speeches in support of gay and lesbian rights all across the country. She remained an activist for the rest of her long life and even spent her 100th birthday leading the San Francisco Dyke March. At the time of her death at 101, she was recognized as the oldest out lesbian in the US. She is the subject of the documentary "Living With Pride: Ruth C. Ellis @ 100" and is the namesake of the Ruth Ellis Center, a shelter for homeless and at-risk LGBTQ youth in Detroit.

Celebrate Ruth Ellis.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Ellis_(activist)

#Pride #BlackLivesMatter

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i am once again asking Vico Ortiz for their hand in marriage 😳

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bilf (book i'd like to finish)

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#we love the appreciation #contralto gang

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Taken between my two drag performances at a Pride bday party last year.

Looking forward to more debauchery this year 🌈

#butch #butch lesbian #butch4butch #black lesbian #butch4both #dyke #drag king #glitter #femme bait #ok to reblog