fragilefairysstuff

[fragilefairysstuff]

I have a magical Luna moth as a new tattoo and I love it. It turned out so beautiful.

I love moths especially the ones from the peacock moth family. Their transformations and beauty is just breathtaking.

Gods... I love nature.

Stay safe my precious bitches bros and non-binary hoes. ❤️✌🏻💪🏻

#moth #luna moth #tattoos #tattoo #me

[fragilefairysstuff]

This is my best friend. At the moment she’s being kept alive by tubes and needles because her eating disorder is currently stronger than she is.

Does she weigh 90lbs? No, she doesn’t. Does it look like her eating disorder is “less severe” because she’s not “that thin”? Do you think her situation sounds “less severe” because she’s not “that thin”?

Tubes and needles. Constant supervision. Pain, anger, agony. Hunger, thirst, suffering. Dizziness, constipation, freezing cold. Passing out in front of other patients and staff. Painful injections of vitamins and whatnot. Nurses who’re force feeding her, who’re forcing fluids into her body because her eating disorder is currently stronger than she is.

90lbs or not, without treatment - my best friend will die.

Would you have walked past her on the street and thought she even had an eating disorder at all? Probably not, because people keep believing you can measure or estimate a persons physical and mental health state based on the silhouette of someone’s body.

You can’t.

Never underestimate someone’s eating disorder just because they don’t look “that thin” to you. Being “thin” is just one of MANY symptoms of an eating disorder and it’s far, far from the most important one. Anyone can struggle and if someone you know struggles: don’t assume they’re alright just because they don’t look “that thin”.

Eating disorders come in one size; MISERABLE.

[fragilefairysstuff]

TW: This blog posts and shares content about eating disorders and other mental illnesses.

I do not advocate self-harming behavior.

I do not advocate romanticizing eating disordered behavior.

I do not advocate romanticizing depression or other mental illness.

Nevertheless, I think it's important to talk about these issues. Do not ask me for tips I have been suffering from my eating disorder for years and will not help anyone fall into this hole with me.

About:

You can call me Mary.

I am 26 years old and part of the queer community.

My pronouns are She/Her.

I am autistic. I do not suffer from autism because for me it is not a disorder. It is society's treatment of this type of neurodiversity that affects my mental health among other things. Stay safe my precious bitches, bros and non-binary hoes

[fragilefairysstuff]

One of the best pieces of advice I've received in my life was, "Some things are better done poorly than not at all."

You don't have the strength to brush your teeth? It's ok to just use mouthwash.

You can't manage to do the laundry? It is enough just to pick them up from the floor and bring them to the bathroom.

You can't motivate yourself to go running? Stretch for 5 minutes.

Sometimes I think to myself why should I get up if I don't have the strength to wash myself? It's okay to just use deodorant.

Some things are better done poorly than not at all.

Stay safe my precious bitches, bros and non-binary hoes. ✌🏻

[fragilefairysstuff]

sometimes i see you fuckers post something and I'm like "omg?" but then i remember we are on a website equivalent to a psychward

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So because my autistic ass have huge sensory issues especially when it comes to food (and I panic when I can't eat exactly the food I want) my wife just stands in the kitchen for 45 minutes to remove all the crust and skin pieces from my fish fillet. And they do it so carefully I can't handle it. I feel so loved and appreciated. 😭❤️

[fragilefairysstuff]

All I want to be is a wild forest fairy.. 🌱🌲🌿🌺🐝🦋

And show off my dress but because I'm just sitting at home I can't take it out.

Stay safe my precious bitches, bros and non-binary hoes