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Ukrainian folk riddles, Malkovych I. A., the "Veselka" magazine, 1988. Artist: Valentyna Melnychenko.

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"the early 2010s were better" no they weren't. "hey soul sister" was on the radio.

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the ears are truly the icing on the cake of his beast, they are not too small but they are so dinky and thin

(source)

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i’m still curious about the anon who said they want to be my friend. i wanna know who u are

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I need to be alone for a few hours every day, otherwise I start to spiral. but if I'm alone for too long, I also start to spiral. pretty easy, right?

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i have decided to do a poll for fun because of a video im watching while im eating

for those curious i started playing during 1.6!! i played the demo worlds of the game on the minecraft.net website before my parents bought it for me

#i can’t remember #i think i finally was able to get it in early 2012? #i had watched my siblings play it but had no money #i think o used birthday money to buy it? #idr

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Immerse in the Symmetry of Contemporary Fashion - A Portrait of Color and Minimalism by oyouun

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the femme injecting estrogen.

background: excerpt from Sensational 60's Doll Album by Glenn Mandeville

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TWO HOURS AGO: an incredible photo taken by a ut austin student capturing something deeply poetic in my opinion, a line of state troopers eagerly waiting to arrest student protesters standing just behind a sign that reads "what starts here changes the world. its starts with you and what you do each day."

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A list of blog posts on things (mostly trauma related) that I think should be talked about more. Please note that all links are from my personal trauma website. (There are no pop ups or anything like that and it is a safe site to use.)

Advice

Creating and Enforcing Boundaries

Embracing Your Inner Child

Grounding Techniques

How to Listen to Someone Talk About Their Trauma

How to Talk to a Loved One About Your Trauma

Importance of Validating Your Feelings

Making a Self-Care Box

Navigating Sex After Trauma

Navigating Traumaversaries

Tips and Questions for Finding a Therapist

Trauma Around the Holidays

DBT Skills (More coming soon)

Pros & Cons

Urge Surfing

Wise Mind

Informative

Are They Trying to Manipulate Me?

Forgiveness and Healing

Grooming in Adult Relationships

Hypersexuality and Sex Repulsion

Parentification Trauma

Trauma Bonding

Trauma Imposter Syndrome

Triggers

Self-harm

The Validity of Anger in Your Healing Journey

Victim Blaming

Was it Bad Enough?

When a Third Party Is Used to Get Around Your Boundaries

Who You Were Before Trauma

Why Childhood Abuse is Never Your Fault

Why Do I Love and/or Miss My Abuser?

Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships

Why Survivors May Delay Reporting or Don’t Report At All

PS: I am always looking for more ideas of topics that you’d like to hear about. Don’t hesitate to let me know any suggestions or things you’d like to see discussed more. 

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Next up: the heron! Another from this series.

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if we weren't supposed to press down on bruises they wouldn't have made it feel like that when you do

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I've started the process of documentation on the last labyrinth, which is...an undertaking.

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i’ve been really struggling lately. nothing ever feels real anymore

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Art by lei chu

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yeah, people do lie on the internet, however i am so passionate about things that if i lie it will feel like i committed an autistic sin

#about me

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this is for guys who don’t bleed anymore! do you still experience noticeable hormonal symptoms? it would also be interesting to know how long you’ve been on t!