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deniseyolen · 5 years

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Thirteen year old Amy Winehouse’s scholarship application to Sylvia Young Theatre School

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deniseyolen · 5 years

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Joni Mitchell: A Woman of Heart and Mind (2003), dir. Susan Lacy

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deniseyolen · 6 years

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“It’s funny how you can forget everything except people loving you. Maybe that’s why humans find it so hard getting over love affairs. It’s not the pain they’re getting over, it’s the love.”

— Melina Marchetta, On the Jellicoe Road

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deniseyolen · 6 years

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Enneagram: How to get along with the types.

Type 1

- Be responsible for yourself, so I don’t have to do that for you, too. - I’m hard on myself. Assure me that I’m good, just the way I am. - Tell me that you appreciate my advices. - Be fair, and attentive, like I am. - Apologize when you are wrong. This helps me forgive. - Help me loosen up a bit, and teach me how to laugh at myself. But please, listen to my concerns first.

(Most common type among ISTJs, ESTJs, and INTJs)

Type 2

- Tell me you appreciate me. Be specific about why. - Share your joy with me. - Do care about my problem, even if I’m busy with yours. - Let me know that I’m important and special to you. - Please be gentle, even if you have to criticize me. - In intimate relationships; assure me that you’re still interested in me. - Remind me that you love me. - Tell me I’m attractive, and you really like when people see us together.

(Most common type among ISFJs, ESFJs, ESFPs, INFJs, and ENFJs)

Type 3

- Leave me alone when I work. - Please give me honest, but not critical feedback. - Help me to organize, and to keep my environment neat. - Don’t burden me with negative emotions. - Tell me that you like being with me. - Tell me that you’re proud of me and my achievements.

(Most common type among ESTJs, ENTJs, and ENFJs)

Type 4

- Give me compliments often. They mean a lot. - Be a supportive friend, or partner. Help me to love others and to appreciate myself. - Please keep the power of my intuition, and foresight in respect. - Though I don’t always want people to cheer me up from my melancholy, sometimes you still have to bring back the light to my inner world. - DON’T tell me, that I’m too sensitive, or I overreact something!

(Most common type among ISFPs, INFJs, and INFPs)

Type 5

- Please be independent, not a puppy. - Talk shortly, and straightforwardly. - I need to be alone to think. - Remember, if I appear to be distant, or arrogant, that’s because I feel uncomfortable. - Show me that you’re happy to see me, but don’t ever overact because that makes me doubt your honesty. - If I have to repeat something I said, and I become irritated, that’s because it was hard to say for the first time even. - Help me to avoid big parties, loud people, overheated emotions, and the violation of my privacy.

(Most common type among ISTPs, INTJs, and INTPs)

Type 6

- Be straightforward and honest with me. - Pay attention to me. - Please don’t condemn me for my worry. - Let’s solve our problems together. - Assure me that everything’s OK between us. - Laugh, and joke around with me. - Lead me gently to new experiences. - Don’t overreact when I overreact something.

(Most common type among ISTJs, ESTJs, ISFJs, and ESFJs)

Type 7

- Give me company, kindness, and freedom. - Have stimulating conversations, and laugh with me. - Appreciate my ideas, and listen to my stories. - Don’t try to change me. Accept me for who I am. - Be independent. I don’t like babysitting others. - Please don’t tell me what to do.

(Most common type among ESTPs, ENTPs, ESFPs, and ENFPs)

Type 8

- Stand up for yourself… and for me. - Be confident, strong, and straightforward. - Don’t talk behind my back and don’t abuse my trust. - Dare to be vulnerable, and share your feelings with me. Notice, and admit that I have a delicate side, too. - Give me space to be alone. - Admit, and appreciate the things I do for you, but don’t try to dazzle me. - I often talk passionately. Please don’t take it personally. - When I rage, I break things, or I shout. Remember, this is how I work.

(Most common type among ESTPs, ENTJs, and ENTPs)

Type 9

- It’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. I’m sensitive to pressure and expectations. - I like being quiet and to serve, but don’t take advantage of me. - Don’t interrupt me when I’m talking, not even when I digress a little. - Give me enough time for decisions, and tasks. But you can push me gently. - Ask, if something’s not clear. - Please tell me, if you like me. It won’t go to my head. - Hug me, and show me your emotions physically. This helps me to open up. - I like a good conversation, but not an argument. - Let me know, if I did or said something right. - Laugh with me, and share your happiness with me.

(Most common type among ISTPs, INTPs, ISFPs and INFPs)

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deniseyolen · 7 years

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