Made it to Vegas!!! Staying at the Venetian this time around, I absolutely love the little suite we’re in. It’s 3:09 and I’m already drunk, when in Vegas 🤷🏽♀️
So I’m happy to say, I will be going on another trip with Vegas Bae, in a few weeks. I can not believe it has been a year since this post...literally so much has happened and changed. This trip will be filled with more cash, and more/better shopping. All in all, can’t wait, because this man is truly a sweetheart, and is actually enjoyable to be around, and I love Vegas.. such a magical little place. I’ll update either on the trip or when I return. xoxo 💋
Day 2 of my Vegas trip, and I’m having a blast. This guy is super genuine and thoughtful. This trip was so random and not something I would normally do for many reasons but it was so worth it and I’m happy I came🌹
ALSO: Get a taser, pepper spray, sharp keychain, etc. and for my SBs, always meet at a public establishment on first dates. Never get picked up by a stranger, and NEVER agree to meet at his place for a first date. Safety is always #1
I’ve been seeing this girl all over TV and this comes to show you some of the dangerous realities of sugaring, especially online. Please be careful when meeting men, whether online or in person. Use common sense and safety precautions.
I’m starting to think my SD who gives me $1200/meet is actually an average joe who saves $1200 to see me. This is the third month in a row I’ve only seen him once a month....
Does anyone else feel some type of way, when the waiter pours the wine for the man first, and waits for him to taste and approve before pouring your glass..like I ordered this wine...yes he’s paying...but I ordered this shit..
I agree and disagree. I think there’s also a huge group of men, who can in fact afford the $800 girl, but can get 4 beautiful women for that price, instead of just the 1. In fact, I’ve been told this to my face several times, and have even participated in it myself while shopping. But I definitely hear what you’re saying..
Sometimes I think some providers on Tumblr have no empathy for survival sex workers. I thought they(I) lowered the market prices too, making it more difficult for others to charge more. But that it’s not true because it’s for a completely different market of men. The one who goes for the 800€ per hour girls don’t goes to the 100€ one. Zara purses don’t compete with Hermès purses because they are for completely different type of people. (With this comparision I’m not trying to say ssw have “lower” value) I’m saying that different marketing and prices cater to different people
I know it has been well over a week, but here it is:
Step 1. Open Maps on your iPhone and zoom and click on Nice/expensive places in your area.
Note: you need to decide if you’re looking for clients that you likely won’t see unless they’re in town (click on nice hotels) or local POTs/clients (click on everything else ie: men’s clothing stores, cafes, bars, etc.)
Ex:
Step 2: scroll to the bottom and click on “Find out more on yelp” I then look for menn who have left reviews. I usually look for older men who mention that they come to this place all the time, favorite spot, etc. avoid the people who just come to talk shit or talk about how pricy items are.
Ex:
This review is okay, don’t necessarily like that he’s talking about saving on bloody Mary’s lol, but you get the picture.
Step 3: click on the profile.
Ex:
Now I not only have access to the fact he lives in LA, (local POT) I have access to all the places he’s left a review aka PLACES where high quality men frequent aka freestyle spots!! There is also access to his friends which could lead to others like him.
I now know new places to freestyle for what I’m looking for, which is a local POT, that I can see frequently and can eventually become a SD/sponsor.
The next possible step to this could be to comment on his posts, make friends, etc etc... but my goal here isn’t to be engulfed in the Yelp world, my goal is to find legit places to freestyle in order to find local potentials.
I can say that I use this method every now and then, and have found some really nice places in LA that I’ve never even heard of, or that I was somewhat unsure of, and think it’s worth trying.
Let me know what you guys think, any tweaks, successes or failures.
Xoxo🌹
Slowly cracking the code on how to sugar via Yelp🔥
Will update in a week or so after testing it out a little more!
One of my new found hobbies: Researching high paying jobs that interest me, looking at the minimum requirements, plan on meeting them..then exceeding them💗💅🏽💵
Yes, someone’s dad will be funding my whole life, but I’m going to be my own rich bitch. 💋
Finally 21 and loving it. If I’m being honest, sugaring hasn’t been too hard because I’ve had a fake ID, but now that I’m legally of age, I only see things getting better 💗💸💗💸💗
Hey Heauxs, so I know this post isn’t sugar related, but as we all know, having multiple streams of income is only helpful in being a healthy and happy SW.
So after going through about 43 resumes with my supervisor today, I thought I’d drop some knowledge.
Note: Most of this is common sense, also, there are plenty of other helpful tips out there, this is just a list of what I encountered first hand today. These tips may not apply to all jobs, but still, pretty helpful information.
1. DON’T ask for a salary that is too huge for the position, ESPECIALLY if they mention the salary in the job description! (Ex: Our job posting says $55,000/year, there were people asking for $90-120k..those resumes were deleted off the bat)
2. If the job application REQUIRES a resume and a cover letter, do both! Better safe then sorry.
3. If you don’t not have some form of experience in the field you are applying to (preferably over a years worth) you probably won’t get the job
4. Make sure you submit you resume in a way that can be easily read! (One persons resume was getting cut off and another person had color designs, and the words couldn’t be read over the dark patterns)
5. To bounce off of that, limit the amount of patterns and designs you have UNLESS you are applying to a more creative field. If you are not, it is unprofessional.
6. They will google you, and look through your social media... pretty self explanatory what you need to do. Keep it PG13, PG if you can.
I will add more info as I get it. We started with 43, we are now at about 20 resumes (we have yet to review social media). My boss is going over the rest in detail and will likely chop another half, in which I will ask why, and make another post. Then it’s reviewing social media, and finally, interviews.