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I love you so fucking much, your f/o thinks to themself, watching you do something mind-numbingly and incomprehensibly stupid.

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Selfship Journal Ideas!

I’ve been having a lot of fun with a journal dedicated to selfshipping, and I saw a couple people saying they wouldn’t know what to do with their own version, so here are some ideas for a selfship journal and what you could include!

write down how you met your fictional other

sticker page of things that remind you of your f/o! (you can start them mostly blank and add to them in the future if you don’t have a big sticker collection)

collage of images of your f/o

if you enjoy art, draw your f/o and doodle some things that you associate with them

playlists for your f/o: if one song is especially meaningful, you could write it out in full

make a list of things you love about your f/o

make a list of things you would like to do with your f/o

poetry or quotes that remind you of your selfship

print out a shipping template, glue it in and fill it out!

list of favourite quotes/moments from your f/o

collect a colour palette for your f/o

use the notebook as a journal, but write from the perspective of your self-insert in their universe

design some fankids and what they would be like

brainstorm what relationships you have with other characters in your f/o’s universe (friends, enemies, family members)

if you have dreams about your f/os, write them down! or you can write down what you would like to dream about, and try to manifest it

letters to your f/o (or from your f/o)

use an OC template to write details about your self-inserts

wedding plans, if applicable

use the journal to explore some AUs for your ship

review the media your f/o is from (do you like it? do you recommend it? what do you think are the themes and how well are they explored?)

collect photos of fashion you think your f/o or your s/is would wear

use the journal to vent to your f/os and write down what you think they would say to comfort you

list the things that remind you of your f/o: smells, sounds, activities, locations, colours, foods, anything at all

if you ever gets stuck, you can always use a selfship ask game and fill out all your answers in the journal as well!

I hope this helps! Go forth and love your f/os and yourself as well!

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good evening everyone here’s a meme to celebrate yet another fictional character taking over my life rn

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Me when my f/o(s) appear on screen:

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Me checking the x reader tags for my f/os even though I know no one has written any fics for them in over a year.

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Since then I've got like 3 more of them sad bitches on my list. If sexy then why droopy wet cat look? Something's up

Just gained a new f/o. He's one part pathetic meow meow and one part your daughter calls me daddy too. Help

#self ship community #self shipping #f/o community #send help

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Your f/o is your biggest supporter! Say what you want about yourself but they'll never let that negativity slide. You're a champion in their eyes

#self ship community #self shipping #f/o community #f/o imagines #f/o prompts #fictional other #fictional other prompts #self ship prompts #cheesy squeaks

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Imagine

Your F/O sleeping on top of you. Their body encompasses yours, putting a comforting pressure against you. Their arms might be wrapped tightly around your waist, or maybe they're clutching onto your shoulders, but they're holding onto you and they don't want to let go. They nestle their head against your chest, or in the crook of your neck, letting you feel their sleepy sighs. Your hands are along their back, gently massaging their skin, occasionally raising one to pet their head. They press small kisses against whatever skin they can reach, mumbling words of their affection in between. Eyes heavy from exhaustion and hearts swollen with love, the two of you fade into a dream, feeling safe and secure in each other's arms.

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Just gained a new f/o. He's one part pathetic meow meow and one part your daughter calls me daddy too. Help

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Your f/o adores every part of you. If it's hard to feel like you're worth love, they'll always remind you that you are. They want to show you love and appreciation and care so much about how you feel.

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Imagine your f/o gazing at you lovingly as you explain something to them.

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i am a sucker for the typical stoic fictional man who is actually so soft for his s/o. who buries his nose into the crook of your neck and wraps his arms around your waist whenever he can. maybe he’s not always good with his words, but for you? god. he literally hands you his heart on a silver platter

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Fall in love with your partner after establishing the relationship as strictly professional.

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hi friends

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This morning I'm just thinking about kissing my f/os so much. Don't forget to kiss them today!!!

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ask game: asks from your f/o!

𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁

there are many wonderful ask games for questions ABOUT your f/o, but what about asks FROM your f/o? reply to these asks as though you're talking directly to your f/o asking the questions! enjoy, and remember your f/o loves you!

𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁

☁️: have you had any nice dreams about me lately? or any bad ones you wish I could scare away?

🧸: what's your favourite memory of us?

🍯: what do you think is the sweetest thing I've done for you? there are so many sweet things you've done, I've lost count!

✨: what is a wish you'd like to make for me? or about our love?

💗: what was your first impression of me?

☕: what's your favourite part about our morning routine together?

🛏️: what's your favourite part about our evening routine together?

☀️: what is your favourite thing about our special, intricate love?

🍓: what's your favourite adventure that we've shared?

💌: what sweet words do you wish you could share with me?

🌱: what is your favourite way that I've grown for you?

🌿: what is your favourite way that our relationship has grown?

🍄: what is the thing you are most proud of about me?

🌸: what is the thing you are most proud of about yourself, love?

𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁𐄙✿ 𐄁

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What's a lover got to do to stay consistent on here LOL. Hope y'all doing well and remember ur f/os love you sooooo much!

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