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everyday I pray Zillow makes a comment section
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babe you did not just pronounce fajita like that
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children existing in public spaces is genuinely like. necessary for the continuation of society. it doesnt have to be your kids you dont have to volunteer at a daycare or whatever but you need to be able to tolerate the presence of someone who is learning how to exist as a human and interact with people
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the most important question you can ask yourself when designing a magic system in fiction is "wouldn't it be fucked up if this happened"
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My boss is making me work even though theres discord channels to read like morning paper?
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here’s to all the weird little girls growing up into even weirder men
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my orv review. + bonus funny
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of course they killed my ass with lightning magic
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What if dogs could talk and some called their crate a man cave
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im at baby city. and i just took a taxi. to the shapes and colors store
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I don't think younger/newer users fully grasp the shit show that ace discourse was around 2014-17
It was so hostile that, to this day, discussions that begin to derail just enough can make me physically nauseous, some specific mockery trigger crying sessions years later. We lost most accounts with any sort of ace positivity. There was no information, no support, and all this damage was done predominantly by other queer people.
All this to say that you, however you identify yourself, should be engaging with aphobic comments the same way you do any hate. We don't sugarcoat or try to be comprehensive with people who are blatantly racist, homophobic or terfs, so why give it a pass just because it's coming from a queer person? I see how this tolerance goes and it's done enough damage as it is.
#long post#aphobia#triggering stuff in the tags to follow#i was online and out as ace during this time and yeah. it was not great#i remember the photos. for context it was an aspec minor who had been murdered by a man who was upset#that she wasn’t attracted to him. i remember we weren’t even allowed to grieve her as a community and people would make#posts (that got a lot of notes) talking about how her asexuality wasn’t related (it was) or how she wasn’t actually asexual (she was)#or how she couldn’t belong the to the community because she was a minor (i was also a minor at the time. i think i was around the same age)#i will never forget how we weren’t allowed to mourn her and then photos of her being brutalized were spammed in the tags of the community#she was a part of#so pardon me for not fucking around with this shit. don’t try to seek exclusionism to me. i won’t bite the bait but i will fucking bite you#queer as in fuck you#i thankfully was never personally targeted but the end of this go down. i was like 15 or something#in case you were wondering why i am so loud and proud about being aro and ace and not interested in sex or romance#aspec people get behind me i will always protect you#to other aspecs: please don’t take this as discouragement for being loud and proud#we’ve fought to be seen and recognized and respected and while it isn’t perfect everywhere. we’ve definitely won in a lot of places#i have gone to multiple pride events (including 2 pride festivals) with my aro and ace flags#and while i was the only aro-flag wearer i saw there were multiple aces#and someone complimented my aro flag and said they were also aro and happy to see me with it#i was asked some questions on the aro flag and people were incredibly kind and respectful. they were just curious#you can existing loudly as you are. prioritize your safety but not everywhere is a minefield kids
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“omg you’re so creative. how do you get your ideas” i hallucinate a single scene in the taco bell drive thru and then spend 13 months trying to write it
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bro what am i supposed to do when they ask my references for references
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LOVE failed chosen ones. Chosen ones who failed and chosen ones who aren’t special and never were and chosen ones by chance and chosen ones by a choice not their own and chosen ones who succeeded at what cost
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we're all at our limit right? can i assume that or
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