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channel flipping

#aes

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#water

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This is crazy 8 ppl from my job are going to the melanie martinez concert on the same night 😭

#store about to be empty #manager is about to be so confused #he's just gonna look at the schedule like ?????? where tf is everybody #and everybody is gonna be singing pity party outside at 7pm #my next door neighbor was telling me she's going also everybody is going #this is why tickets sold out so quickly fr everybody is going

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has the world been unkind?

June 15th, 2022

#mushrooms

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Omg I just realized I hit the one year mark of being self harm free

#I've done nothing at all #no punching or scratching or biting nothing #not a single thing #look at me go #yay healthy coping skills

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krystyna oczkowska

#flowers

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This whole would women rather be alone with a man or bear debate is so funny to me because once me and my friends were in a parking lot and a random bear came up to the car we were in and we just sat there taking pics and calling it cute but if some random man came up to the car in an empty parking lot we'd be locking the doors and avoiding eye contact 😭

#like look at hims #felt safe enough to even have the window down 😭

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#mountains

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you’re going to love again, find a job again, create art again, do what you love again, feel powerful again. you’re going to be back on track. i don’t know when, but you are going to feel like yourself again, eventually. this isn’t the end. hang in there.

#text

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#water #nature

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#i'm tired of this grandpa #memes

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Roasted chicken, ginger, daikon, shiitake mushroom soup with lime, cilantro, broccoli sprouts, and rice noodles

#food

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taryn

#books

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Everyone has the potential to fall victim to being indoctrinated into a cult. Anyone can be sexually assaulted. Anyone can become a victim of an abusive relationship. Yes, even if you're intelligent and strong willed. Yes, even if you think you're tough and "don't take shit from anyone".

If you've never found yourself as the victim of a cult, or sexual assault, or abuse, the only thing separating you from people who have been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse is circumstance. That's it. Sheer luck. Luck over what family you were born into. Luck over who you were surrounded by when you were emotionally compromised or in any way vulnerable. Ect.

You are not better than people who have been victimized. They didn't do anything wrong to ask to be victimized. Anyone can be victimized by these situations given the perfect storm of circumstances. You are not better than people who have been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse.

You need to understand that if you are lucky enough to have never been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse, it's very little to do with how smart or strong you are or you doing all the "right" things. Someone can be smart and strong and do all the right things and still find themselves a victim given the perfect storm of bad circumstances.

The sooner this can be understood, the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture. And the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture the sooner atrocities like cults, sexual assault, and abuse can stop being so prolific. Victim blaming culture allows these atrocities to thrive. And they will continue to thrive until we shift the blame to where it rightfully belongs.

#text #some of the most progressive people you know are victim blamers btw #they don't discriminate #tw abuse

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natalie voglmayr

#nature

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#water

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_thefeelingofvelvet via atelierdelinda

#places #coffee