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[ask-elliotgang]

So Elliot, did you have any other significant others before Joule?

ELLIOT: . . .

ELLIOT: "Yeah I'm fine with it. I mean I had a few relationships while I was still in school but they didn't work out. It's not like that info will cause drama or anything so it's fine."

ISABELLE: "Yeah. T-that's why I asked."

Elliot looks towards Isabelle with a head tilt. Looking genuinely confused by her tone.

It seems he doesn't remember.

#storytag #pokemon #pokeblog #mod: @astrogoatz #elliot anwir #elliot the cosplay pikachu #isabelle yaeko #isabelle the skitty #cosplay pikachu #skitty #eliza anwir #tw implied transphobia #tw implied sa #// haha traumatic enduced amnesia go brr

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ISSY LOOKS SO GOOD IN YOUR ART STYLE OH MY GOD THANK YOU?????

Fanarts done, thanks so much for the nominations! I had fun drawing the varieties of them, I hope I did them justice!

1st Batch:

Ayumi from @casteliacityramen

Reshi from @lightofunova

Wen from @ask-no151

Kyo from @askthewhiterocket

Tide from @asktidethegastrodon

Esmeralda from @the-shinentist

2nd Batch:

Gladius from @omniandco

Henry from @tallgrassghosts

Sylvia from @aro-pokeverse

Kuni from @teamnextgen

Deo from @askdeoxys

Isabelle from @ask-elliotgang

#fanart #isabelle yaeko #isabelle the skitty #ooc #reblog #not my art

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(@ask-the-shiny-pokemons) Noelle @ Eliot: she approaches Pikachu with a little bit of curiosity.

“‘Eyo, how’s it goin’? I heard ya have a friend, though you haven't been getting along so well… So, how did you meet her if it was safe to ask?”

ISABELLE: "We get along fine. I was just giving him shit for nothing."

ELLIOT: "It be like that."

ISABELLE: "It be like that."

ELLIOT: "On how I met her, we met from simply being in the same class in school. We became best friends pretty fast from having similar interests."

#pokemon #mod: @astrogoatz #elliot anwir #isabelle yaeko #isabelle the skitty #elliot the cosplay pikachu #pikachu #cosplay pikachu #skitty #aro-crossing #pokeask #pokeaskblog #pokeblog #pokemon ask blog #pokemon askblog #// hey guys look im alive (blatent lie)

[ask-elliotgang]

every time someone spells Elliot's name with only one L i die inside a bit more.

#ITS LITERALLY IN THE BLOG TITLE #YOUR EYES!!!!! USE THEM!!!!! #ooc

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Elliot shoots up in bed after involuntarily sending out electricity that engulfs Intel and causes him to collapse.

As he starts to get out of bed he reaches over and pulls a discarded white shirt on that was lying underneath his covers next to where he was sleeping.

He helps Intel back up, in-taking the electricity back off of the rabbit, un-paralyzing them, apologizing profusely as he heads down-stairs towards the front door, opening it to...

ISABELLE: "I messaged you SEVERAL times that I was coming over and you don't even greet me at the door? Rude~!"

ELLIOT: "I didn't put my phone on charge after coming home! I was asleep! I'm sorry!"

ISABELLE: "I'm just fuckin' with you dude! It's fine! It was a dick of me to come over without much warning anyway. Can I come in?"

ELLIOT: "Yeah yeah, come up into my room."

ISABELLE: "Sick."

-= ELLIOT AND ISABELLE ARE OPEN FOR ASKS =-

-= ASK HINTS =-

JAPANESE TRANSLATIONS DONE BY @slipperypianist

#//isabelle and elliot are talking to each other in galarian/english while intel only knows japanese/kantonian so elliot talks to them in #//that language (just a fun lil worldbuilding detail :D) #mod: @astrogoatz #elliot anwir #pokemon #isabelle yaeko #elliot the cosplay pikachu #cosplay pikachu #isabelle the skitty #skitty #intel kaihagen #intel the raferno #raferno #pokemon ask blog #pokeblog #pokeask #arc 2.5: stop the presses

[ask-elliotgang]

Eliot from @ask-elliotgang suggested by @dailyashleighraichu.

He's just a guy.

#reblog #fanart #elliot anwir #elliot the cosplay pikachu #elliot #pikachu #//thought i rb'd this earlier but i didnt oops

[ask-elliotgang]

i am not a “content creator.” i am a weird faggot on the internet

#f slur #ooc #my response to myself not updating #my blog i rb what i want

[ask-elliotgang]

fun elliot fact: he wears soap shoes so he can do The Thing on rails

#ooc #elliot anwir #fun character fact

[ask-elliotgang]

I KEEP DOING THIS BY ACCIDENT BY GOD.

YOU DIDNT SEE ANYTHING.

#ooc #mod: @astrogoatz #ASTRO STOP BEING FUCKING STUPUD AND USE YOUR EYES CHALLENGE

[ask-elliotgang]

(Style and Zine Name Not Finalized, just a quick graphic)

Applications for Artists and Writers open!

I'm still trying to figure out a few things and find people to help mod/set up things as well, so please let me know if you have experience and are willing to help!

#sounds fun #reblog #boost

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for context, my dumbass fucked up with xkit and accidentally reblogged a bunch of TBOI (The Binding of Isaac) fanart i was looking at to this blog instead of my main. i am a clown in everything but make-up.

YOU DIDNT SEE ANYTHING.

#ooc #mod: @astrogoatz #munday

[ask-elliotgang]

YOU DIDNT SEE ANYTHING.

#I FUCKED UP

[ask-elliotgang]

We're very persuasive, methinks

#we really dont know how it happens #it just does #ooc #munday

[ask-elliotgang]

bad end au? bro all of my blogs bad ends would be fucking traumatizing to read about you dont wanna see that shit.

#ooc #munday

[ask-elliotgang]

I just set up my Ko-fi! I have commissions open and collections of my art up there! If I ever make adopts they'll be sold on here too!

#rb from main #hey check this out #ooc

[ask-elliotgang]

Ocs in order of images;;

@asktheisle's Luxu ✿ @ghos-tea's nervous little fella ☆ @eohpmdsteams' Tombstone ☆ @lustrous-dawn's Yua ✧ @ask-elliotgang's well, Elliot jhvzn ✧ @ask-the-shiny-pokemons' Rimi ★ @saguaropokevariants' Durin ✧ @askpokecallcenter's Sassy- I mean, Choro ✧ @neverlandfaerai why'd you make me choose, i love them all ;( ✧ @darling-zorua's Noir ♢ @ask-diane's Starry ☆ @cutemonclub's cutest little terror ♡ @askwornhearts' biggest goober vgfdsnv ✧ @team-pokefriends' Elise ⁂ @askiceboundlopunny's Tsubayuki ⁂ and lastly, @the-shinentist's Esmeralda ★

Thank you again everyone for your cute little ones! This was an absolute treat to draw them all ;w;; I may have missed something in some of these, and i greatly apologize if i have;;

#TGANK YOU FOR DRAWING MY BLORBO!!!! #rb #art by op #elliot anwir

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Community PSA

[ This is only part of the full PSA (including evidence) which you can find here ]

Content Warnings

Grooming, Victim blaming, Harassment, Sexual abuse, Suicide / Self-harm mention, Emotional / Mental abuse mention

Introduction

Some of you may know about the PSA that circulated a few months ago regarding The-House-of-Hemingway’s relationship and unacceptable sexual interactions with someone who was a minor. Hemingway now goes by C-a-l-y-p-s-o. This post will discuss the details of the PSA, as well as this user’s concerning past and present behavior. 

To the best of the ability of those responsible for this document, the username will continually be updated so that this person cannot interact with members of this community again without disclosing who they are, regardless if the interaction is safe-for-work or not.

The following post is intended to bring awareness to someone who is

Confirmed to be a groomer.

Attempting to convince members of the pokeask community that they have “changed” but is clearly trying to win favor with you.

A risk to the community, cannot be safely trusted, and needs to exit community spaces.

Disclaimers 

Harassment of Calypso in any form is unacceptable behavior. The purpose of this post is to inform. This is not a call for hostile action beyond a block on every social media possible. 

Please respect the victim’s boundaries and do not badger them for further details than what has been disclosed. While disagreement and discussion is OK, please keep your comments outside of tumblr and public discord servers. 

If harassment occurs, the names of any individuals who dogpile, send death threats to, or doxx those involved with this situation will also be listed (with concrete evidence only) on this document. 

TL;DR

Tumblr user @C-a-l-y-p-s-o, previously known as the mod behind the pokeask blog “house-of-hemingway,” is a confirmed groomer who has deleted their admission of guilt to save face.

Calypso has violated a boundary that is expected between a victim and an abuser by leveraging themselves into positions of authority (server moderators, event leaders, etc.)

Calypso has broken promises made to their peers over the course of their internet presence, changing names and website profiles/identities in order to escape the responsibility for their actions.

Calypso is attempting to fall back into good graces by sending copy-pasted positivity asks on mundays to sweep their notoriety under the rug. 

This document will contain proof of the above in exhaustive detail under the “readmore”, or if you are viewing this in the public google document form, it will be under the resources.

We are using this as an opportunity to take a firm stance against grooming in the community, and to express our support for survivors. Our goal is to address the circumstances under which it happens with preventive guidelines and trauma-informed resources.

Resources & Education

What does grooming look like? A quick guide written by survivors of abuse within the Pokeask community:

The adult may not approach you with the intention of grooming you. 

The objective of grooming is for an adult to turn their bond with a minor into a transactional relationship; circumstances in which the minor is providing something for them— whether that be emotional support or sexual gratification— and normalizes breaking boundaries to do so.

Though they may not realize they are blurring or overstepping your boundaries, the effect is still the same; they are desensitizing you to unfair and inappropriate treatment.

Many adults deal with mental illness, go through hard times, and struggle with loneliness. If you’re acquaintances or friends, you naturally might want to support them, “fix” their problems, or do them favors because they’ve been nice to you or because they’re not being malicious.

But ultimately, prioritizing their wellbeing compromises your own, well-meaning or not. That is what an imbalanced power dynamic looks like, and it is up to the adult to realize this, acknowledge it, and seek out other outlets, resources, people, and help available to them. 

A responsible adult does not take advantage of your availability when given the opportunity to do so over other appropriate choices, no matter what. 

The adult may expect you to be available at all times.

Guilt-tripping when you do not respond to their messages, spamming your DMs, or demanding that you spend most of your online time with them. 

Making time for them might mean you end up spending less time with your friends and become distant from others in your social circle. 

A red flag to look for is if they call you their “best / closest friend” over other adult relationships in their life.

The adult may put the burden of their mental health or well-being on you. 

This can include constant venting / oversharing, validation seeking, or coming to you when they are in a mental health crisis. This can happen in private dms or in public servers. 

Remember, no one individual is responsible for managing a loved one’s mental health, and it is not OK to expect a teenager to intervene when someone is threatening suicide or self-harm. That is for a trained professional to handle.

The adult may invite you into unmoderated spaces with other adults. 

They might have “lighthearted” conversations with you or in front of you about sexual content, flirt with you, share explicit images / memes where you can see them, ask to role-play erotic scenarios with your ocs, or draw NSFW / suggestive art of your ocs / sona. 

Red flags to look for are adults telling you that you are mature for your age, asking you to keep their interactions with you a secret, or interacting inappropriately with you in voice call so that there is no chat log of what they’ve said.

You do not owe your followers or fans your attention if you feel uncomfortable.

A friendship between two artists or between you and a fan of your work should not involve any pressure to reciprocate gift art, respond to asks, or role-play.

If someone crosses your boundaries based on a perceived parasocial relationship with you, or makes you feel guilty for not interacting with them, you are in your full right to block them.

If you suspect an ask is a covert fetish, such as asking you to draw an overly specific subject or situation, report them to an adult in the community.

Similarly, if someone you are a fan of is crossing your boundaries, take a step back to evaluate whether you would be OK with it if they were not someone you admire. 

Just because someone is popular, skilled at art, widely respected, or well-liked does not give them the right to treat you in the ways listed above. 

Listen to your gut; if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, but are doubting your feelings because you look up to the person you’re interacting with, take a step back and tell someone you trust. No friendship is worth being treated this way.

If you suspect you were groomed in the past, or are wondering if a relationship you have with an adult is inappropriate, please look through the information linked in this section. Hotlines, counseling and self-help resources for survivors are listed here as well. 

List of Hotlines by Country | 1, 2 

Global Online Image (CSAM) Removal | 1, 2

Education & Resources | UK, CA, AUS, US (eng, esp)

Online Image Removal | UK, CA, AUS

LGBT+ Specific | UK, CA, AUS, US

BIPOC Specific | UK, CA, AUS, US

United Kingdom

Crisis Support & Counseling (Email, Phone, Text, Video Call; Eng & BSL)

Canada

Counseling (Phone, Text; Eng, Fr, Indigenous languages, Other languages, ASL)

Crisis Support (Phone; First Nations responders available)

Australia

Crisis Support & Counseling (Phone, Text, Other; Several languages available; Aboriginal responders available; Auslan)

United States

Crisis Support & Counseling (Phone, Text, Other; Several languages available; Indigenous responders available; ASL)

About the bill to pressure American corporations to remove reported CSAM from their websites

Coming forward about abuse can be re-traumatizing and difficult, but it can also be healing and liberating— It allows for a survivor to be in charge of their narrative and to lead the conversation surrounding their trauma. 

Sometimes, it takes years to recognize trauma or past abuse, let alone to be ready to publicly talk about it. It is validating to finally be able to say, “This happened to me. I survived it. I deserved better.” to the world. 

Trauma follows us for a long time. No matter how much time has passed, a victim has the right to disclose their abuse and hold their abuser accountable. It is our responsibility to listen. https://metoomvmt.org/

Full PSA with evidence continued here…