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My Life

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I was born in a middle class family. I remember my life since I was 05 years old. My life before that, I do not remember. My father was in Army, and we lived in a small town. Father used to come and join us on annual leave. Those days of his holidays used to be learning for us. My mother learnt so many good habits from her parents in a village. That she passed on to us. The disciplined life our parents taught us. She had perfect control on us. We never deviated from rightful habits and conduct. Our neighbors were always helpful to us. That was so because Army officers were respected in our country. My mother was reserved and she hardly visited others' houses. Our father was social. He always helped and provided solutions to others. I also served in Army as an officer and love to help others. The humble attitude which I acquired from my mother always helped me. That way, wherever I go, I find friends. You know it's always handy to smile and respond cheerfully to others. I love children and respect ladies. It helps.That is why, in my entire life, I never had any enemy. Who ever came against me, I always found helping hands to counter. Chastity and honesty pays. That way you get respect in society. Since I have family, I normally do not creat enemies. After marriage I stayed away from my parents, clan,friends and relatives. Me and my wife managed despite so many difficulties. More than half of my life we stayed and worked in cities of South India. Despite so many hurdles , we were able to provide, best of education to our two sons. Now at current location, I am alone for more than one year. Family is away and am leading solitary life. I have surrendered to God, Goddesses. I remain in touch with my sons and wife, through mobile phone. They are not happy, neither am I. Expanses are not much and in meager resources I manage my life. This is how my current life is.

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Life, Soul and Self

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We all know life differently. We get guided. Despite that all religions are same. We engage into differences and devisions.

Let's underline oneness and harmony. Humans have tendency to live as one. Only thing required for this is commonsense. That is something which is uncommon. Everyone lives his/her life . It's not possible to live someone else's life. One should be accountable for own life. One should not meddle into affairs of others. We should always work on changing and improving own life. Greatest service one can do is mind our own business and focus on changing himself.

We should not shirk simple or obligatory duties assigned to ourselves. Live harmoniously with those who are in outside world. Do not live in isolation. Our existence depends on so many factors. Since we live with all the creations of God and our existence depends on them. We must live in harmony with all. It's important to create feelings of love, peace and friendship. Those lives are miserable. Superficially we accept that, but at deeper level we expect other person to make changes in our lives. We place responsibilities of harmony on other persons. Their is no substitute to peace, love and harmony.

#peace #love #harmony

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Think a While

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There was a time when I was free in my country, during my studies in kindergarten, school, college and university. As time passed things changed. Some time for good and sometime bad. But in current times world is witnessing some kind of confusion, wherein nobody is free. Everyone is following a leader, who may or may not be right. Earlier, citizens were free to air their opinion. Now every leader is following another leader, who is not able to lead own clan, forget leading a nation. Earlier, religious leaders used to guide everyone . Now in every street there is a local leader. They are following someone unknown. That is why one should think before stepping out of the house.

This world is some kind of circus, wherein every artist is unskilled. Therefore, one should be able to make his/her own way. Otherwise, they will lose their way.

Those, who think, and act later are called mature. There are some who do not have knowledge, still they lead. Maybe they were unknown, but because of circumstances they became big. That doesn't mean nobody else has chance.

#thinking #leader #people #adventure

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PRAYER AND IT'S BENEFITS

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Most of us pray. Some do not. They are either atheist or followers of their respective religions. Either side live their lives. Some ask is it essential to visit places of worship? Others say no . All humans live which ever way they want. But there are other kinds of creatures who are created by Nature or God. They do speak humans' language. But if they are tamed , most of them understand humans' language. They are known as wild animals. Since their species are getting extinct humans are only thriving. Their population is growing leaps and bound. Common perception is that wild animals and humans are inter dependent. And it's a biological fact that species which are getting extinct are helped by nature, one way or other. Scientists know this fact and periodically they release their studies, to advice against poaching and hunting. Ultimately and even now ecology is so much extinct that no body knows what will be outcome. Balance was essential and it was avoided. Reason greed and vehemence. Thirst of money and will to superimpose on others are leading humans to disaster, one after the other. Ultimately, in a blink humanity will perish. That has been predicted by space scientists, biologists, health organizations and various government agencies. What is the solution for survival?

#Prayer #people #adventure

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Academy days

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Every day briefing by seniors term cadets and appointments made us knowledgeable. Than second term arrived, with overlap with seniors. They passed out, and we became senior Gentlemen cadets. Junior cadets came and we became more busy with our training and that of junior cadets.

Days always started with early morning, practice of ten miles running, Arms training, PT, theory classes and field training. One day we went on 50 miles cycle expedition. Also 80 km route March, wherein we were left in a remote area in a group of two or three, late evening in the sultry weather. We were carrying back pack, rifle, compass and local area map. Eneoute rain came . Our leather boot, back pack, overall became wet. Shoulder strap pinched our shoulder. When we reached next day to the academy , there were blisters in the feet. Theory classes included military history, tactics and strategy, etc. Weapon training was always interesting for me. Inter company obstacles course competition was conducted and we came first.

I secured and passed all tests in excellent. Than passing out time came . My father and younger brother came to see the passing out parade.

I was commissioned in the Regiment Of Artillery. We reached home. And after few weeks rest, time came to catch train and reach the parent unit . The motto of keeping the welfare of the country first , second came welfare of men under command, and families and last came our own welfare. With all the training and relevant experience, life in the Army was totally different.

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Academy Days

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Having studied in school, college and university, I realized that I have to find some career in India. As my father, grandfather and others in our clan served in the Army, I also prepared for the selection process of an officer. Having got selected in written exam and interview at Service Selection Board, I went for precommession training at Officers Training Academy. It was very busy life in the Academy with focus to learn so many officers like qualities, skills and expertise. There were many aspects of learning and training.

As I landed in that afternoon in our Academy, I reached with blank mind, clueless about what will be the training schedule. I did not imagine what it will be like. In the call letter main instructions were about dress and other kit items which I had to carry in black steel trunk.

First day started with allotment of bed and a cupboard in room for four cadets. Hair cut with zero machine was done by the barber for each and every one. Cadets senior to us briefed us about the daily schedule.

Restrictions during stay of 1st term and need for our commitment towards the training schedule. Dress code during various activities. Our uniforms got stitched by local tailor. Personal assistant came and briefed me about his main responsibility of keeping the uniform, shoes and bad ready every day. And getting the clothes washed, etc. without any charges. With deep breadth taken and post introduction with room mates, our daily routine started. Second day we were ordered to be ready by 04 AM in PT dress. We got fall in opposite the room of Company Under Officer, below a lam post. CUO came and taught us lessons if parade and physical fitness. We ran around the barracks and first five were made to stand at attention and rest ran again and again until all cadets reached together at the fall in point. So last activity was to stand at attention without moving or shaking. Meanwhile our CUO went to his cot inside his mosquito net. And we were badly bitten by mosquitoes at our legs, arms, neck and face. At last we returned to our bed. After, about one hour rest , we went to PT ground. There two PT instructors taught us some exercises like sit up, push up , chin up , rope climbing, fireman lift and 100 mtr dash, etc. For one hour we were there and than came back to our barracks. We got ready in uniforms and marched in the group of four and five to the dining hall, for breakfast. Post that activity we marched to the theory classes by Army officers. Subsequently, we also attended weapons training and also practice at obstacles course.

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There I see you,

There you talk to me,

Here I hear,

Talking to your,

Kith and kin,

Sometimes I wonder,

Who you are,

And who I am,

Than I realise,

It takes so much of effort.

I just remain quiet.

There you go,

Here I stay,

Alone in my room,

At a remote location.

I talk,

Consuming my energy,

Of my mind.

Than you remain silent,

Whole day and night.

Than I sleep.

I remember you Honey,

Day and night.

God willing I may see you,

Face to face.

May be than you will,

Talk to me,

As I will stand,

In front of you.

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The love and its consequences

Efforts it refers to ,

Sequences it involves,

Distances one travels,

Its fatigue,

And the life.

If humans,

Which gets longer,

Or short,

Reasons are so many,

Days and years,

One take rounds,

Of the sun,

Along with,

Mother earth,

Some humans get pain,

In mind and body,

Few overcome,

Others' lives get,

Devastated,

One must look,

And focus on primary,

Aim of life.

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The way we live,

And the lifestyle we,

Have chosen,

Are compelling,

Will continue to,

Prompt us,

To lead a Happy,

Or terrified lives,

Some are innocent,

Others are never innocent.

We are satisfied,

Either by desires,

Which are many,

Our expectations and,

Will to fight among,

Ourselves are leading us,

To a destiny,

Which is calling us,

To enjoy fruits of hardwork,

Or leading many of them,

To heaven or hell.

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The contacts we,

Make and visions,

We have,

May or may not,

Drive us,

To best destinations.

The company,

We keep,

And desires,

We have,

Lead us,

To a destination,

Which may,

Or may not,

Be God's desire.

The world humans created,

And made it,

The way we,

See it,

Is on a,

Different horizon.

We have to first,

Submit ourselves,

To God,

So that,

We fulfill,

God's desire.

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Healthy Lifestyle

The best way to remain healthy is to live life like a person who is in natural surroundings. Most of us consume food which is toxic. The food which comes out of organic farming is ideal. Modern lifestyle follows schedule which starts from morning till late evening. There is rush in their minds and bodies. Along with this kind of rush and artificial food, one becomes unhealthy. Wherever you go, modern lifestyle along with eyes in every nook and corner, keep vigil which employees in governments exploit. Money rules lives of most of citizens of this world. If you don't have money, you won't have relatives and friends . How do you survive without money? For that you have to live life like a hermit. What you need to live? Food water and clean air.. That you get if you make people educated. What they learn through knowledge which is given in schools/colleges and universities? During childhood they learn to speak in a language chosen by them along with knowledge of different subjects. As they grow up, growth of body and mind is achieved. Along with this kind of knowledge, one should acquire faith in scriptures written by Seers. Those written words open our mind and soul. Thereby we know who we are.

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Social welfare through social services is motto of many. Many individuals and organizations are doing that activity. Funding for that is mostly by governments or individuals who are rich. Sometimes conversion of religion is also done. Though purpose should be social or economic uplifments. Education of children from weaker section is also ensured.

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Failures and success is part of human life. No one is happy always in his/her entire life. Let it be anyone from poor to richest man/woman. Either weak or most powerful. E

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Anyone's family has few components-namely- husband, wife, son and daughter. They build up bonds- sweat or sour. Depending on how they grow and live -they grow up,either alone or other relatives

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The best way to remain healthy, is to live life like a person who lives in natural surrounding. Most of us consume food which contains chemicals.

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The Sun and Moon go on its course , from one direction to other set by astronomical forces, since millions of years. Since no body knows how locations of planet are set. Some of us, try to play with nature's creations of earth and above. As maximum of those living on earth, try to exert pressure on objects, living beings and other creations of God/nature, those who know these processes, always follow their own concience.

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Social process and its cleansing happens and starts when things go beyond control. It happens on its own wish and beyond anyone's control. As I see people around the globe aware and understand that we people of this world are beyond and away from any control. As atrocities and absolute control starts, people wake up. and system and control gets bogged down.

Those who adhere to peace and love do not get violent. They advice and help. Getting into criminals activities do not help. It lends you into serious problems. Its better to follow law and let things take its course.