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I really, legitimately, am grateful whenever you make a post about the TMA/TME thing bc like. It currently is one of the biggest things that alienates me from other transfem people right now. Like, especially bc any time anyone seems to try and define the "TMA experience" vs the "TME experience" without acknowledging the fact that it's just the new agab or mtf vs ftm, I almost always have more in common with their definitions of TME than I do with their definitions of TMA, despite being someone who I'm certain they would group under TMA. It super sucks and gives me flashbacks to when it took me forever to actually identify as transfem, instead of the weird "amab non-binary/genderfluid but not transfem" identity I used for a while, bc of the bullying myself and people I cared about had received from the original group of girls on here identifying as baeddels. Your posts help remind me that there are actually other people who feel the same way I do about the terms, or at least similarly, which in turn helps cut through the alienation.

Absolutely gob smacking that girls can go on and on about how we aren’t “male socialized” then turn around and say that trans men get to turn their exposure to misogyny on and off at will

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i want you guys to GUESS what this anon says. because seeing this notification itself could not have prepared me for the full thing

#this is just the people's joker (2024)

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I really like dungeon meshi, so take this bit of propaganda

#i am usually so Dwarf Coded (tm) that it's kinda funny that Marcille is far and away my fav character

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Reading a fantasy book where someone is wearing a pronoun pin. Hot take? I think that's great, especially coming from a cis author. Fuck it, why not, I'm already accepting magic and griffons, I'm not gonna roll my eyes and cringe at a teenager wearing a they/them pin.

#i feel like this detail would put some people off and that's fair #but dammit ill take my escapist representation where i can get it #tesserants

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Tasque manager is so cute in her dress!!

#tasque manager #genders to steal

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transgender characters in sci fi are really good bc it’s like. how will future technology change our ideas about personhood and transition. transgender characters in fantasy are even better because they will be drinking hrt potion

#jokes on you i just have straight up hrt in most of my worlds

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"oh, you act so romantic with your friends-" SHUT UP! I CAN ACT ALL MUSHY AND SWEET WITH MY FRIENDS, WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT!? COWARD! YOU DON'T SHOWER YOUR FRIENDS IN AFFECTION AND LOVE!? YOU'RE WEAK! WEAK AND PATHETIC!

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tumblr users when you present the concept of a tradeoff

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for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

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my dealer: got some straight gas. this strain is called “Sja-Anat's Influence” youll be zonked out of your gourd

Me: yeah whatever. i dont feel shit.

5 minutes later: dude i swear that painspren just had claws

my friend Renarin, pacing: the everstorm approaches..

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She's a robot girl, an ex military model. She's got targeting computers that'd let her head shot a sesame seed at 20 klicks, her nanoservos give her the kind of strength that'd let her pick up a car with each arm, and she can hack through dozens of firewalls before she even notices they're there.

She's gotten out of that life and is trying to settle down and live a normal life, get a regular job, rent an apartment, maybe fall in love? She's a good friend and you're pretty sure she's got a bit of a crush on you.

The only thing is that her chassis is 8 inches tall. She can wear barbie clothes just fine.

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goodnight, darling...

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I’m gonna be honest I do not care if a trans boy teen is annoying and has horrible taste in music y’all are just mean.

I’d rather hang around with Karkat who listens to Cavetown than someone who is mean.

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falin is a tgirl her story is explicitly a story about being brought back from death due to a believed need to self sacrifice and not harm others and then being denied that resurrection and made into something horrific that shes not by those with more power than her and relying on the community of her friends and family to deny those people that power at every turn. and also she's a dragon girl i know like 5 transfems like that

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youtube video series, restoring my vintage robot girl, episode 543, first signs of life?

is this anything