yrfemmehusband

[yrfemmehusband]

Cat (cat) circa 2024 (colorized)

#just a critter

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sorry for being annoying i could kill myself right in front of you if you want

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She also invented the boom mic

did I ever tell yall I used to think charlie chaplin was a drag king. for like three years straight

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i dont know why this needs to be said, but people NEED to leash their dogs in public. i dont care if your dog is "friendly", they are overstimulating and i am a fall risk. i dont need an animal i dont know jumping on my legs and stepping between my toes where i can seriously injure myself.

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hey , just a psa !

please for the love of fuck? if you don’t need the disabled bathroom stall , don’t fucking use it

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theres a snake in my boot

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there’s a website where you put in two musicians/artists and it makes a playlist that slowly transitions from one musician’s style of music to the other’s

it’s really fun

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Reminder from someone with actual literal brain damage from a brain injury to stop fucking using "brain damage" and "brain injuries" as a means of describing someone whose opinions you don't like or deem as stupid.

It's ableist and offensive as fuck, and for some reason a lot of leftist people think it's okay to use. I've seen posts replying to right wing racists calling them "brain damaged if you believe this" and "do you have a brain injury? do you not understand X?". Just now I saw a beautiful post about fat people throughout history that was absolutely ruined by opening with "How do we break it to boomers with actual brain damage and nostalgic brainrot, and the 'tradwife' thirsting Andrew Tate fans..." before continuing to say that fat people existed throughout history.

Brain damage does not make you racist. A brain injury doesn't make you stupid, or fatphobic, or unaware of history and politics. Stop fucking using my disability as a catch all to describe people you think are shitty. Y'all use it like it's a replacement for how people used to use the R-slur, which shows you learned absolutely nothing about why the R-slur was wrong to use and decided to throw in other disabilities instead. Fuck off and stop doing it.

(And don't do it with other disabilities either, because I know y'all do.)

I know a lot of people with brain injuries. They're smart, and funny, and compassionate. They learn about the world and care about social issues and wish they could go to protests if their disability won't allow them to. Are there right wing people with brain injuries? Sure, absolutely. But they are not right wing because they have a brain injury, and using any disability as an insult is still fucking ableist.

Tldr - stop using brain damage and brain injury as an insult. It's ableist and incredibly offensive.

Love, your local brain injured/brain damaged pal

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I cannot do anything lmfaoo literally one shift or one outing on my weekend after cleaning has me so ill in so many ways and it's truly so unfair I cannot choose between being able to work and having a social life

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Link will be in the reblog!

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If a worker who isn't the owner says ANYTHING similar to "I'm not really supposed to do this but-" and then does something that helps you, under no circumstances inform the business, including through reviews. You tell them that the worker was polite, professional, the very model of customer service and why you like to go there. You do not breathe a word of the rulebreaking.

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all disabled trans ppl are my friends

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[names my sons cain and abel] alright. get to it

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i have both daddy issues and mommy issues, but they cancel each other, making me a completely normal human being with no issues whatsoever