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Top 70 Traits of People with Personality Disorders

The list below contains descriptions of some of the more common traits of people who suffer from personality disorders, as observed by family members and partners. Please note that these descriptions are not intended for diagnosis. No one person exhibits all of the traits and the presence of one or more traits is not evidence of a personality disorder.

1. Abusive Cycle - This describes the characteristic rotation between destructive and constructive behavior that typically exists in dysfunctional relationships.

2. Alienation- Interfering or cutting a person off from relationships with others. This can be done by manipulating the attitudes and behaviors of the victim or of the people with whom they come in contact. The victim’s relationships with others may be sabotaged through verbal pressure, threats, diversions, distortion campaigns and systems of rewards and punishments.

3. “Always” & “Never” Statements - These are but rarely true.

4. Unresolved anger – The belief that they have been wronged, invalidated, neglected or abused.

5. Avoidance - The practice of withdrawing from relationships with other people as a defensive measure to reduce the risk of rejection, accountability, criticism or exposure.

6. Baiting and Picking Fights - The practice of generating a provocative action or statement to obtain an angry, aggressive or emotional response from another person.

7. Belittling, condescending & patronizing speech - Giving someone a verbal put-down while maintaining a facade of reasonableness or friendliness.

8. Blaming - The practice of identifying a person or people responsible for creating a problem, rather than identifying ways of dealing with the problem.

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“I guess he never loved me, no one knows about him and this kind of kills me.” // r.i.d

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“We talked about the future like it’s something that we share.”

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you were never mine at all. // r.i.d

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maybe it’s not worth being depressed over somebody who isn’t interested in you but how do i convince m'brain that this is so? it seems like im at an age where this kinda thing is ok but generally speaking i’m trying not to stress myself out over dumb shit but like… ok @not only got but also jesus, thanks.

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i watched him love me less every day. the thing about that, about loving someone and knowing that they don’t love you back in the same way: you can’t stop it. you forgive them the sin. you want to kiss them and you want to cry and it’s dancing a tricky circle between loving someone entirely and losing yourself in the process. and i lost myself, but that was okay, because who i was, he didn’t love anyway.

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(photo by H20intolerant)

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How to Manage your Time Better

1. Have a realistic plan for your day. Don’t just work on impulse, and don’t do try to do more than you can handle.

2. Prioritize your work, and do the most important things first

3. Know what your distractions are, and take steps to control them (for example, switch off your phone)

4. Start early, and keep on going, even when you feel discouraged or fed up

5. Know what’s irrelevant, and don’t waste your time on unproductive, or pointless things

6. Switch between focused work and lots of short breaks

7. Be flexible if you meet with obstacles, or things don’t turn out the way you’d planned.

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what, from the bottom of my heart, the fuck

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If you put a milkshake in one yard and a cold one in another yard, which yard do the boys go to?

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My daydreams basically just consist of what would happen if I was an extremely confident version of myself.

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Thinking of you is a poison I drink often.

A t t i c u s (via beautiful-words-on-a-page)

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The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, & all they can do is stare blankly.

F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby (via depressionheadlock)

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I think I lost myself trying to find you.

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A little bit of residual water in my glass of milk is fine, but a little bit of residual milk in my glass of water is disgusting.

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Listen I’m a fuckin gamer but I still can’t stand that dumb ass shit where they try to make gamers seem badass.

Rise. Conquer. Survive. Sharpen your skills in every match.

Like ay I’m just sittin naked in my bedroom drunkenly getting killed in overwatch like chill