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I have found that good communication and enjoying the lifestyle journey with my wife has definitely helped.

The Realities Of Hotwifing

There are so many hot picture captions/memes on Tumblr about hotwifing, cuckolding, the stag and vixen lifestyles, and all the other forms of alternative relationship arrangements we get out perverted and kinky selves into.

But you know what bothers me sometimes?

How our perceptions and expectations about these arrangements can get skewed without us even recognizing it.

Expectations for what it’s all like, what it should be like, how it happens, how often it happens, why it happens…all those expectations get influenced by the things we immerse ourselves in.

This is especially the case for people who are new to the lifestyles or who are looking to get into the lifestyles.

Simply put, the eroticism and sexiness of hotwifing images/memes we see on Tumblr notwithstanding, they leave out some of the realities to it all.

Sometimes though, it’s good to be reminded of the realities, and that’s what this post is all about.

For example, you’ll never come across a picture like this…

…with a caption on it that says something like, “ “Honey I just got back from my date with another man, and he was a TERRIBLE kisser. I didn’t enjoy it at all.”

Or perhaps one like this…

Or how about one that conveys just how common it is to get all ready and excited for your first in-person meet, only to have the guy be a faker or flake…

We don’t see things like this because it’s not sexy to see or think about. We only reblog things that stoke our desires. And that’s normal for the most part. After all, sex isn’t the only thing that “sells”…SEXY does too.

Don’t get me wrong though. I’m not saying the hotwifing lifestyle can’t be enjoyable or sexy or pleasurable beyond your wildest imagination, because it can. It can one of the most fulfilling journeys a couple can take together in their entire life.

It just sometimes helps to be reminded every now and again that if it all doesn’t go down or happen like you read about in most online hotwifing stories or see in the hotwife pictures/memes,…DON’T WORRY…IT’S ALL NORMAL!

Nothing is wrong with you, or your partner, or your relationship, or your experience. You’re most likely not doing anything wrong. Navigating the lifestyle can be difficult and frustrating at times, and it comes with tons of challenges.

So if at any point, you run into a challenge or a setback or have a negative experience along the way, remember that it comes with the territory and you shouldn’t fret too much about it. But most importantly…

Don’t be afraid to share your “negative” experiences with the online community! It can help you and it can help others to know that living out this lifestyle in reality is a bit different than living it out in fantasy. That’s why…

Share the realities you faced in your hotwifing, cuckolding, stag & vixen-ing journeys by replying to this post. Or simply like/reblog because after all, reality checks can be positive every now and again.

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This is always a fun reblog!

So you want to talk dirty but you have no clue what to say?

Dirty talk is an awesome way to explore your fantasies in a safe environment, but it can also be a daunting task if you’re not used to expressing your sexuality in such an explicit way.

What do you say? How do you say it? And how do you know he’ll like it?

Diclaimer: the following advice reflects our kinks and likes but the principles can be used for any fantasy you want to talk dirty about. We’re very much into hotwifing both of us. Basically he enjoys to watch me being fucked by a hung guy. He’s not into humiliation or being put down, but he do like to hear that another man can give me just as much pleasure as him, sometimes even more. For me, I enjoy walking that fine line where he’s a mix of horny and jealous. I want him to be horny thinking of me cumming over and over again, but I also love to know that it does sting a little bit when I tell him that a bigger dick can turn me into an obedient little slut and make me cum instantly.

Some safety rules.

First thing first. We don’t want your dirty talk to turn into a stupid argument, so let’s get some safety rules down first.

• Talk about what he like and doesn’t like beforehand. What I’m writing in this post is based on our likes and kinks, and they are not universal guidelines. You should always talk to your husband and find out exactly what it is he would love to hear from you. It’s important to keep this conversation non-sexual, so you get an honest answer, not a horny answer.

• What is said in dirty talk might not reflect real life. This goes both ways. Dirty talk is a great way to explore fantasies and boundaries, but not everything said when you’re raging horny is valid when you’re not. If something is said that surprises you, talk about it after. And remember, you’re going make him REALLY horny, so he might express fantasies or thoughts that is just that - fantasies and thoughts, and not necessarily something he wants to act on. In the same way you need to be clear about how you’re also just exploring your own fantasies as well as his, and might say something in the heat of the moment that you don’t necessarily mean or want to act out in real life.

• This is dirty talk, not a lie detector test. You’re allowed to exaggerate to increase his enjoyment, but I strongly advise you to reveal the truth after he’s had his orgasm so you won’t create a distorted image in his head.

What dirty talking is not

Dirty talking is not overthinking how to phrase the perfect sentence. In fact, once you start articulating your husband’s fantasies, I guarantuee he will be so horny he couldn’t care less how well you phrase it. Just the fact that you’re talking about his fantasies means that he’s too busy trying to keep his orgasm back to even care. Just relax and say something. Anything.

Don’t rush it

The goal with dirty talking is of course to make your husband have an amazing orgasm, but do not rush it!

I’ll dare say that for your husband the process and the talk itself is way more exciting than his orgasm. So take your time and let him enjoy and simmer in it.

Don’t worry about repeating yourself

You might be thinking “but I already told him that story 3 times, I can’t think of something new”. Don’t worry about that, just tell it again. Trust me.

And now…. Without further ado here are my secret dirty talking methods that’ll make your husband lose his mind.

And then what

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie paying. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

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A Cuckold Watching

After so much fantasizing and fun between you and your wife, the day has finally arrived. You’re going to watch her play with someone else. You’re finally going to be cuckolded. You’ve seen them kiss before when you met for a drink to make sure he was safe and sane. Even that little taste of cuckolding was incredible and now they’re going to go all the way while you watch.

There’s no reason to waste time. Things get hot and heavy from the moment he sits down. Your wife is just as into this as you are. Ever since she shared a kiss with him she’s been burning with desire. She needs to feel his hands all over her. She needs to feel his tongue in her mouth. She needs to feel his erection pressing into her.

Your cock is stiff as you watch them play, but it’s when he pushes his hand into her panties that you first start to play with yourself. It’s the first time it feels like this thing is absolutely going to happen. When you hear your wife moan into his mouth as he plays with her clit you know that things are going to get hot and heavy between them.

She moans as he sucks on her nipples and plays with her ass. She runs her hands through his hair and tells him how good it feels. She tells him how wet she is. You know she’s talking to you too. She wants you to know that another man is making her wet with desire. She wants you to know that she desperately desires this man’s cock.

You pull your cock out when she falls to her knees in front of him. You can’t wait any longer. You need to masturbate. You watch in awe as your wife eagerly sucks another man’s cock. You listen to him moan as she blows him. You know exactly how good it feels when she does that with her exceptionally talented mouth.

For the first time you feel some of that jealousy and anxiety that you’ve read about online. You know it happens to almost every cuckold. Now you understand it.

Your wife’s eyes are closed and she’s moaning as she gives someone else an incredible blowjob. She’s completely lost in pleasuring him. She knows you’re there and watching, but for the moment his big dick is the only thing she can think about. Of course you’re going to be jealous. You’re still rock hard, though.

“Do you like watching, baby?” she says as her fingers stroking his stiff shaft.

“Yes, baby,” you say.

“Yeah? It turns you on to see me sucking someone else’s cock?” she asks.

“It’s the hottest thing I’ve ever seen,” you answer.

Now she’s putting on a show for you. She swallows his cock over and over and he plays along by grabbing her hair and fucking that pretty face of hers. You can see her lust. You can see her desire to pleasure this man and to drive you absolutely wild with desire while she does it.

“Fuck me,” your wife says when she pulls her eager mouth off his stiff cock.

You watch as she spreads her legs and her new lover moves between them. He guides his cock between her pussy lips and inside her. She spreads her legs wide and moans as she feels another man’s cock in her cunt for the first time since you started dating.

“Oh my,” she says. “He feels so good.”

She reaches back and grabs your hand. She flashes that big beautiful smile to let you know how much fun she’s having.

“Do you like watching him fuck me?” she says through lusty moans.

“Yes,” you say while working your hand up and down your stiff dick.

The sound of his cock pounding into her pussy mixes with your wife’s moans beautifully. It’s a lusty symphony that you’re privileged to be able to listen to.

He fucks her harder. She moans louder. His fingers move between her legs and he plays with your wife’s clit.

“He’s gonna make me cum,” your wife announces as she holds your hand tighter. “Oh my, I’m cumming!” she cries out.

You just watched another man give your wife an orgasm. You watched his big cock and skillful fingers bring her to a beautiful climax. Your dick has never been stiffer.

There’s so much more for you to enjoy, though. Your hot-wife wants to put on a show for you. She wants her cuckold husband to have a damn good time watching her get fucked by someone else.

That’s why she spins around and ride him in reverse cowgirl. Now you have a truly perfect view of his big cock filling her pussy. It’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen.

She’s giving him everything. His bare cock gets to fuck up into your wife’s wet cunt for as long as he wants.

“That’s it, baby,” she says. “Stroke your cock while he fucks me. Use your hand while he uses my pussy.”

You love that. You love that little bit of dirty talk that calls attention to the fact that someone else is fucking your wife while you’re masturbating. It’s incredible. It makes you a little jealous while making you insanely horny. You’ve never loved your wife more.

“Kiss me,” she says.

You lean forward and do as you’re told. You kiss your wife passionately. Her tongue pushes into your mouth as someone else’s cock pushes into her pussy. She moans into your mouth as his thick dick fucks her perfect wet cunt.

Your wife wants him to take her from behind. She wants you to watch as another man fucks her doggy-style.

She moves to her hands and knees and you watch as he pushes his big cock into her from behind. She flashes you that beautiful smile again.

You love how much she’s enjoying this. You know she loves having his big cock inside her, but it’s more than that. She loves that you’re so thrilled. She loves that your cock is so hard. She loves that you enjoy being a voyeur cuckold and getting to watch as someone else pounds her.

“His cock feels so fucking good,” she says as her lover slides in and out of her pussy from behind.

Her fingers are soft and skilled as she strokes your cock and looks into your eyes. You’ve never seen such lust from her, perhaps because she’s never had such a thrilling sexual experience.

She kisses you and begins to stroke your dick…then faster.

“Cum for me,” she says.

Your wife wants you to cum while you’re watching someone else fuck her. She wants you to have your first cuckold orgasm. She wants you to unleash your load while she’s getting pounded from behind.

“That’s it, baby. Cum for me. Cum for your naughty wife,” she says while you groan. Cum spurts out of your stiff cock as she keeps stroking you. She kisses you while you feel the pleasure of orgasm ripping through your loins. “Good boy,” she whispers.

“It’s his turn now,” she says.

You hear him moan as he buries his cock in your wife’s pussy.

“Cum inside me,” she says. “Fill me.”

He does just that. He cums inside her. He floods her pussy with his seed. It won’t be the last time another man cums in your wife.

You’re already excited and planning for the next time!

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